After all, there won't be much overlap in the economy. The focus is on the economy. Whose money do you use?

If you use the money supported by yourself or your parents to exercise, even in the gym, your boyfriend should be unable to object. Fitness is certainly a way of exercise and an attitude towards life, but it definitely belongs to you. Therefore, although the gym is not a very big expense, it is borne by yourself or your family. No matter how stingy your boyfriend is, he can only stare.

But if you want your boyfriend to pay you to go to the gym and support your fitness, you should take a good look at the old saying, "Take care of other people's bowls." Even if the other person is your boyfriend, he is not your closest relative. Although he is emotionally close, in reality, it doesn't mean that he and you are family. Even for a family, this expense makes him unwilling to bear. Do you think you will be happy?

If fitness is your normal life attitude and exercise style. Instead of chasing the new trend and vanity, I believe that as long as you insist on doing it yourself, your boyfriend has no reason to object. Or in the process of confrontation and friction, you will think twice whether he is suitable for you. An unconfident man will ask his girlfriend not to surpass himself in talent and ability. If it is for this purpose, I think since you are not married, you have your own freedom of life.

Don't deliberately shape yourself into something you don't like for others.

Of course, you can't deliberately make yourself look like each other for others. Because I'm not like that.

Communication is definitely necessary. But what is the purpose of communication? If you don't use his money, your communication is just the pursuit of a spiritual equality. If you want him to support you and spend his money, I think this way, at least I don't support it at present.

People should learn to pay for themselves instead of letting others pay for your wishes and desires. Even the most legitimate excuse.

I hope my answer is helpful to you. Thank you for reading.