The difference between interest and liking, many people always can't tell the difference between liking and being interested. They always think that the other person likes you and gives everything for you, but it ends badly in the end. Learn to distinguish. Let me give you a brief understanding of the difference between interest and liking.

The difference between interest and liking 1 Interest and liking are two different things.

If a person takes the initiative to add you, don't think that she likes you, she is only interested in you. If you can chat with her every day and have the same topic, you will have a good impression on her at this time, but you will never like you. If you have to be with her, there will be many contradictions, and you will quarrel slowly. This time you will remember that she added me. Why is it still like this? Because if a person adds you, you will only be interested and never like you. If you insist that she likes you only because she likes you, then you are really wrong. Can you believe it at first sight? I don't believe it anyway. We are all ordinary people. Don't feel handsome or anything. I've experienced it myself. For example, if you meet a girl, you think you like her very much. Yes, I like it, but only once. Maybe she just relaxed your heart and you couldn't calm down. Then you ask her for WeChat (if the woman agrees), and then you find that she is the one you are looking for. You have a hot chat and want to confess. She asked what you like about me. Do we know each other? After reading it, you find that you feel very uncomfortable. You think you said so much. This is the essential difference between liking and being interested. Be sure to separate.

What are the performances of liking a person?

1, I'll find you on QQ first thing.

The first thing to do on QQ is to find her avatar quickly. If her head were there, you would be ecstatic; If her head is black, you will see if his/her head is on every few minutes. Check her home page every three to five times to see who she said anything to. If she says something ambiguous to a certain opposite sex, you will go to that opposite sex's homepage to find some clues.

He will contact you frequently.

He may not say good night to you before going to bed every night, but he will keep in touch with you relatively frequently. Even if he is busy at work during the day, he can't help texting you at lunch. If he often doesn't hear from you for several days in a row, then you two may have little chance.

He will always care about you.

If a boy likes you, he will want to know all aspects of you and don't want to miss any details in your life. So he will take the initiative to care about whether your life is good or not, and will remember to cheer you up before your exam or interview.

He will introduce you to friends and relatives.

A boy who likes you will try his best to come into your world, and I hope you can come into his life. He will take the initiative to introduce your family and friends to you, and will often take you to group activities. I hope you can integrate into their circle.

He will pay attention to what you say.

When chatting with you, he will be very interested in every little thing you say, and keep in mind that if one day you go shopping together, you inadvertently point out that a man's coat in the window is beautiful, and maybe he will wear it next time you see him!

6. He will reserve time for you

Some men always use "busy" as an excuse to make excuses for dating and meeting. In fact, men, like women, will set aside time to deal with what they think is important. If he always can't spare time to accompany you, it shows how low you are in his heart.

7. He won't always take you to the music scene.

Many men like to go to bars and KTV for entertainment, but these places are too noisy, which makes it difficult for young couples to cultivate their feelings. If he often takes you to these places, I suggest you consider what his purpose is. Men who really like you will choose some relatively quiet places to date and get to know each other better through communication.

8. Your number has a suitable title in his mobile phone.

This is often overlooked by girls, but it is very important! Modern people never leave their mobile phones, and they can often get some clues through them. If he enters your name with some qualifiers, such as "May Gym", or doesn't put your number in the phone book at all, you should be careful! Because in the eyes of men who really like you, you are unique, and you don't need to use any qualifiers to help you remember.

9. When he is with you, he will care about his image.

As the saying goes: women are pleasing to themselves, and this sentence also applies to men, especially men who meet for the first time. If a man is always unkempt and disheveled when he is with you, you can see that he doesn't pay much attention to you.

10 He will be interested in what you like.

"Getting what you want" is a strategy that many boys will use when chasing girls. In order to enter your world, he will accompany you to the concert in Jay Chou, where he is not too cold, and to the boring art gallery, because he likes to see the smile on your face and feel your happiness at the same time.

1 1. He will hint at the next appointment before leaving.

Boys who like you will be reluctant to part at the end of the date and will give hints that they hope to have a next date. If you have met such a man, congratulations! Because you met a man who really developed with you. If not, move on! Life is too short, don't waste it on the wrong man!

12, take good care of it

If you are sick, it is definitely a good time to test his love. If he shows meticulous care, it goes without saying that he definitely regards you as a treasure. If you are just dealing with things, then you should say goodbye to him sometime. The illness time should not be too short, and it is best to have a cold cycle to fully test his patience. Of course, if the illness lasts too long, forget it. There is no dutiful son at the window after a long illness, let alone a man who meets by chance. Don't ask too many questions.

13, ambiguous remarks

Men take the initiative to stand up, say "I love you" as directly as possible, and pretend to be very euphemistic, so that you can understand the perception. For example, when a group of young men and women came back from singing in KTV, a boy suddenly said to you, "Can you heat this bag of milk for me?" At this time, the girl must be confused and think: Why do you want me to cover his heat? Besides, can you cover the heat with your hand? In fact, this is already a boy's intention to express his ambiguity to you.

14, take the initiative to strike up a conversation

Generally, boys take the initiative to strike up a conversation with girls, which can easily make girls feel disgusted with this boy. Because this is a typical performance with nothing to say, most women will refuse or dismiss it. In the same way, men take the initiative to talk to women, except for work needs, largely because of their good feelings and interest in you. Otherwise, if a man is killed, he will not dare to strike up a conversation with you at the expense of the world.

15, be caring and attentive

Although it is said that every one of us, whether we meet acquaintances or ordinary friends, will be caring and attentive and greet each other with a set of old sayings of thousands of people for thousands of years, there is no doubt about it. But generally the beard is as shallow as a big man, which has no real meaning. So, if things change in the opposite direction, then we see a man asking questions about women, such as, "Why are you wearing a thin coat?" Why are you so worried on such a cold day? "This sentence seems to be caring and attentive, but in fact it is infinite care and love for you. Now that I have told you, the subtext is self-evident.

16 out of thin air

Men like a woman. Sometimes they get nosebleeds, but they can't stop them. Only the woman you like can easily stop the bleeding nosebleed in one sentence. The world is very strange, and it is really amazing that we have such kung fu. Similarly, when a man likes a woman, many unexpected things will happen to you. For example, suddenly a man asks you, "When will you return the book you lent me that day?" ? I'm almost finished, but I still want to read it. Do you have any other books, such as this one or others? "In this case, it will definitely confuse you.

The difference between interest and liking II. I am interested because I feel novel about him (her) and may develop into liking; Like is a kind of shallow love, but till death do us part; Love till death do us part; A good feeling is higher than a friend.

Interest is that you think that person is different from others. If you want to know, you just want to get close to him and chat with him. You like to stand out and be a little possessive. You don't like him. He has a good relationship with other members of the opposite sex. Love is treating her better than yourself. He is sad, you are sad, and your heart pays for him. It's hard to tell love from liking. Generally, people who don't understand love can't say it. The last thing about love is affection. They all regard each other as relatives. They can say anything, but they can show each other everything. Everything is so natural to the true self.

Eight expressions of interest in you

First, praise you

As we all know, boys generally do not like to say compliments. When boys are interested in you, they will praise you and never be stingy with their praise. You will find that your mouth starts to get sweeter. Never saying what you did wrong always makes you happy. When there is such a boy around you, it means that he is interested in you.

Second, talk about past feelings.

Boys always have a sense of mystery and always close their emotional aspects. Generally, boys don't take the initiative to tell their past feelings, because emotional things will involve privacy. If a boy is willing to talk to you about his past feelings, it proves that he is very open and interesting to you.

Third, go shopping with you.

Boys have a desire to shop, and even think that shopping is a waste of time and pain. When a boy is willing to spend time with you shopping and pressing the road, it shows that he is interested in you. If you have such a boy around you, you should pay more attention. He must be interested in you!

Fourth, go to your house to eat and drink.

Both men and women generally care about face. If they often go to your house to eat and drink, they will feel very sorry. If a boy goes to your house to eat and drink, he may be interested in you. The purpose of his visit to your home is not to eat and drink, but to create opportunities for contact with you!

I will tell you my shortcomings.

Everyone has his own shortcomings. He doesn't want others to know what his shortcomings are. If a boy is willing to tell you his shortcomings, he will do the most for your future relationship. He is afraid that you will find his shortcomings in the future, which will lead to problems in your relationship. If the boy around you happens to mention his shortcomings to you, you must be very interested!

Six, will tell you about his family.

Everyone stays alert. People nowadays don't take the initiative to mention their family affairs when communicating with others. If a boy is willing to tell you about his family, it shows that he trusts you and is willing to share his family affairs with you, which also shows that he is thinking of you.

Seven, I will be with you.

Some people say that companionship is the longest love confession. A boy with a loving face who is afraid of rejection will always be with you no matter what, which shows that he has someone in his heart, attaches great importance to you and is willing to spend time with you. Usually, this kind of behavior is good for your performance. If you meet such a boy, you should stop him.

I like taking pictures with you.

We all know that boys don't like taking pictures or taking selfies. When they are interested in you, they will want to take a photo with you. When I take pictures with you, it's always ambiguous. I can be close to you, so most boys like to take pictures with girls.