You must love each other a little, or you won't do that, or you will be very idle and bored. You never know what a man thinks, and you can't tell whether what a man shows is true or not. After all, he will get you by hook or by crook. It depends on the purpose. Men are basically rational except for some fun. If it weren't for anything, I wouldn't have wasted my feelings and time on you. Men know how to stop loss in time, and sometimes women have too little love experience or are not easy to be fooled and routine by men. Since men's attentions to you must have a purpose, otherwise why bother you? A man's heart is a needle in the sea.