The joys and sorrows of the world are common. When you are fifty years old, you will naturally face these things slowly. After 50, life will slowly experience three major parting, so we should seize the time of life and cherish the people around us. So what are these three parting? Let's have a look.
First, I helped my old friend.
You can have a friend who often quarrels with you when you are old, and you can go for a walk in the park when you are free. I think this is a great pleasure in life. Friends are generally out of touch, and occasionally together, even if there is nothing to say, even if they just read books together and turn off their mobile phones, they will feel very fulfilled. And when you are in trouble, you are brave as long as you mention it. Generous friends will help you when you are in trouble. Even if I can't help you too much, I will try my best to give you advice.
However, these considerate friends will grow old a little. Even if they give us more company, some unexpected things will always take these precious people away slowly. All we have to do is meet them often when we are free, even if it's just a greeting or two, and just talk about each other's embarrassing things. It is a blessing to have a friend who shares your interests. Because it is difficult for two strangers to let their guard down and expose their shortcomings to each other.
Second, the family around you.
Parents, wives, children, they are the closest people to us. They all say that where there is a home, the heart will be stable. Family members are people who can accompany us for a long time. They have witnessed the ups and downs of our lives. If we make some important decisions in life, I think only family members can support us unconditionally. When people are over 50, they will gradually start to leave their families. Parents are the people who have been with us for the longest time, but they are also the first to leave us. Wife is our spiritual companion in life, and also the person who can accompany us to the end of life. Children are the continuation of our lives, and they will be the ones who watch us leave.
Fifty years old, there are some things that we need to accept slowly. Generally speaking, our parents will leave us first. They are older than us, and they have experienced what a 50-year-old should have experienced. They will cherish their time with us more than we do, and they will know better what to accept at this time. My wife is the most tolerant person to us. She gave us most of our lives. The person who can accompany her to this age can be said to be the person who trusts her the most. If children have their own partners, no matter how reluctant they are, this is the way they will go for the rest of their lives. Therefore, if you want to be old, don't regret it, and cherish your family.
Third, the ideals and ambitions of youth
I think when we are young, everyone will have some life goals to achieve. In most cases, this goal is our ideal ambition. Some people may have lofty ideals, but they were delayed by various things when they were young. People over 50 may still have some illusions in their hearts, but think about what will happen to them after we realize these ideals and what we can do to help ourselves. For example, if we are over 50 this year, can we still achieve our ideals? If we ask ourselves and get a negative answer, then we should slowly let go of our ideals.
At this time, we have little chance of making mistakes and the cost is high. If we are not careful, we may lose the game. We didn't have so much willful capital in the fifth grade. We should understand that at this time, we won't have so much energy to do most things. After 50, it is not easy to live the rest of your life. On the way to getting old, it is also gratifying to learn to let go and pick up, love the people around you and grow old with them.
So today's article sharing is over. I'm glad to meet you in my mind. I hope the rest of our lives will be full of warmth.