Family communication
18 A few months before Diana was born, my mother gave birth to a boy named John, but he died only 10 hours later. The Spencer couple went through a period of heartbreak. The elders at home are constantly exerting pressure. They wonder if there is something wrong with their mother, or why they keep having daughters. Viscount Osop, then only 23 years old, was sent to different clinics in London for various private examinations. For this proud and stubborn viscount, this humiliating and unfair experience is really unforgettable.
Perhaps from this time on, the Spencer couple quietly buried the fuse of divorce in the future. Perhaps, they can't get rid of the shadow of losing their children. When Diana was 3 years old, her mother finally gave birth to her long-awaited brothers, the Spencer family, and a cigarette was finally passed down.
Royal friendship
As early as the15th century, the Spencer family was one of the richest sheep merchants in Europe. When Charles I was in power, they donated the title of Earl, built Osop House in Northamptonshire, got the family badge engraved with the motto "God bless power", and began to collect a large number of antiques, books and works of art.
In the next three centuries, Spencer family members gradually stepped into authority and frequented Buckingham Palace, Kensington Palace and Westminster Palace. Although the Spencer family has never reached the peak of power, it undoubtedly occupies an unshakable position in the corridor leading to power. They are related to King charles ii, Duke of Marlborough, Duke of Duke of Devonshire, Duke of Aberdeen, and even American President franklin roosevelt and Chicago gangster Al Capone. King Edward VII of England is the godfather of Diana's grandfather, Old Earl Spencer, while Edward VIII, who "doesn't love mountains and rivers, only loves beauty", formally pursues Diana's grandmother. Countess Spencer, who did not become queen, later became the maid-in-waiting of the Queen Mother and Queen Elizabeth.
Maid-in-waiting is an ancient and noble occupation that British people are deeply proud of. They must have impeccable upbringing, be proficient in dressing, be good at dealing with all kinds of people and be familiar with the etiquette of advancing and retreating. Non-noble women can't do this job. Diana's father was a court attendant of King George VI and Queen Elizabeth, and once dated the Queen's sister Princess Margaret. Diana's childhood home in Norfolk, a park house, is a matriarchal family. Diana's grandfather Baron Maurice Fermoy is a Conservative MP in the House of Commons and a shooting and tennis partner of George VI, who gave him the house in the park. My grandmother gave up her career as a pianist for marriage and worked as a maid-in-waiting for the Queen Mother for 30 years. She is also the queen mother's best girlfriend. Although Diana was born a commoner and a nobleman, her family and the royal family can be said to have been friends for several lifetimes.
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For young Diana, the grandeur of this family and the richness of ancestors did not leave a deep impression on people, but made her feel scared. Every time I go to my grandfather's Osop house, Diana feels very painful. There are too many creepy dark corners, and the deep corridors are full of portraits of long-dead ancestors. Their arrogant and indifferent eyes followed her everywhere.
Grandfather knows the history of every portrait and every piece of furniture in this big house like the back of his hand, and everyone calls him "Curator Earl". He often walks around the big house with his guests holding dust in their hands. Once, in the library of the big house, he snatched a cigar from Churchill. He doesn't care who you are. In this land, his position is supreme and inviolable. Diana is afraid of her grandfather, but she loves her grandmother. Countess Spencer is famous for her frequent visits to local patients and disabled people. She has never been stingy with any generous words and gestures. Diana was deeply influenced by her considerate and compassionate grandmother since she was a child.
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If the Osop House is more like a gloomy and magnificent museum, then Diana's childhood home, Park House, is an out-and-out comfortable and warm home. The park house under the tree has 10 bedrooms, spacious parking garage, outdoor swimming pool, tennis court and cricket court, and six full-time servants, including chef, housekeeper and private tutor, serve Diana's family of six. Diana's bedroom is on the first floor. Looking out from the beige window, the open Yuan Ye is embedded in the sparse grassland like a jigsaw puzzle, in which pine trees, birch trees and yew are dotted. The calf is eating grass, rabbits and foxes are running around, and the Norfolk Sea is six miles away.
The smell of the coast is blowing slowly.
Spencer's children like to feed trout by the lake, play hide-and-seek in the garden, ride down the handrail of the stairs and wander around with long-eared beagles, while listening to the wind lingering in the forest and looking for pigeon eggs. Summer is better. They can swim in the warm outdoor swimming pool, have a picnic on the nearby beach and play in their tree house.
Like her sisters, Diana started riding at the age of 3 and soon became fascinated with all the small animals. The smaller the better. Her pets include hamsters, rabbits, guinea pigs and kittens. Whenever her little pet dies unfortunately, she will hold a funeral for them very dutifully. Except the goldfish buried in the toilet, other small pets were carefully placed in cardboard shoeboxes. Diana would dig a hole in the cedar to bury them.
The child has been with the nanny at dinner time, and the food is simple and unchanged. Breakfast is porridge, lunch is minced meat and vegetables, and fish is eaten once a week. My parents are gentle, but they are out of reach. My brother Charles didn't sit in the restaurant with his father until he was seven years old.
Viscount Osop and his wife grew up in such a disciplined childhood upbringing, and it is natural for them to raise their children in this way.
The neighbors of Park House are all relatives and friends of the royal family, which naturally constitutes a social circle suitable for each other. Spencer's family and the royal family don't move very often. In fact, children regard the invitation to visit the Queen's Winter Palace as a timid road. Little Diana even felt that the Queen's private residence, San Hanjun, had a strange atmosphere, which she really didn't like. On one occasion, she even kicked and screamed and refused to leave. Until my father said that not playing with other children was very uncultured.
The act of raising, she is very quiet.
If someone told her that one day, she would join the royal family as a princess and go in and out of Sang Junhan, she wouldn't be scared out of sight.
Eternal pain
In any case, the unhappiness brought by the holy Korean army is short-lived. The troubles caused by the breakdown of parents' marriage are the eternal wounds in Diana's heart.
When they fell in love, the grand wedding held in 1954 became a local event because the queen and the queen mother were guests. It seems that all this happened yesterday.
/kloc-For 0/4 years, Viscount Osop never doubted that they were a happy couple, and he didn't know he was wrong until he decided to break up.
The long-term pressure of male heirs to the family has long been brewing a marriage crisis, which once made the life style that the young viscount yearned for infinitely more and more boring.
Rome wasn't built in a day, and they unconsciously went further and further on the road of divorce.
In public, they still keep smiling and close the door, which is not the case. Deadly silence or vicious scolding is inevitable. Diana clearly remembers that she used to hide in front of the living room and peek at the fierce quarrel between her parents.
In the summer of 1967, they reached a separation agreement.
That's a memory Diana can't erase from the depths of her soul:
She sat quietly on the cold stone steps of the park house, clutching the iron carving stair handrail, and it was noisy around.
She heard her father put the suitcase in the trunk of the car, her mother's footsteps knocked on the gravel road in the front yard, the door slammed, the engine roared away, and her mother drove through the gate of the park house and walked out of her life. Diana is only six years old. She is too young to understand all this, but the loneliness of being abandoned and betrayed is unforgettable. She feels that everything is her own fault. She is a child who annoys her parents. The guilt of not being a boy tormented her young mind.
Diana often takes her brother to San Junhan's grave and stands in front of her brother John's mossy tombstone. Diana is often lost in thought: what does John look like? If he were still alive, would she and her brother still exist in the world? Seeing the words "love you forever" engraved on the tombstone is like hearing a voice that will never disappear, reminding her all the time that you should have been a boy.
In this divorce war, it's not just adults who are injured. Although parents either try their best to reduce the impact of the crisis or ignore it intentionally or unintentionally, the pain actually felt by children is profound and lasting.
Childhood nightmare
After the separation, my mother moved out of the house in the park. She had planned to live in London with Diana and Diana's brother, but her father firmly opposed it. He insisted that children should regard the house in the park as their home. The struggle and legal dispute between Spencer and his wife has been going on for two years. Diana's mother can't be tolerated in the local upper class, and even her grandmother, Mrs. Femoy, sided with her son-in-law and opposed her daughter. The result, of course, ended in mother's failure. 1in April, 969, they formally divorced, and soon after, their mother remarried Peter Kate, a divorced businessman.
During that time, her father's lonely silence, her mother's sad tears, her nanny's frightened eyes and the mysterious and tense atmosphere in the park house made Diana's little world out of balance. Diana still looks like a carefree little girl in front of the occasional guests at home. She is always dressed up and busy all night. She walked up and down the aisle on a small blue tricycle; Pushing a doll in a stroller and strolling in the yard; Dress and put a hat on my little brother Charles, and make the bed and quilt for those hairy dolls curled up on her bed. But the night is not so good. Diana and her brother are afraid of the dark, and they won't sleep until there is a lamp or a candle in the room. Diana often hears her brother cry. Sometimes, she will run to see her brother; Sometimes, she is too afraid of the dark to move.
Listening to my brother sobbing and crying, "I want my mother, I want my mother", Diana buried her head in the pillow and couldn't help crying. The wind is rustling outside the window, and owls are whining in the forest.
My mother left, my sisters Sarah and Jane lived in a boarding school, and my father was driven crazy and depressed. He was shut up in his room alone, and no one was seen except the housekeeper. The park house, which was once as happy as heaven, has now become an unbearable horror house.
Mother's home
Every weekend, Diana and her brother are allowed to go to London to meet their mother. Accompanied by the nanny, they set off from Norfolk by train, and their mother would wait for them at Liverpool Street Station. My mother burst into tears as soon as I got home. Diana quickly asked, "What's the matter, Mom?" Mother swallowed stubbornly: "I don't want you to leave tomorrow." This has become a fixed ceremony almost every weekend. Diana was confused and didn't know what she had done wrong. Every weekend, all holidays, we have to share equally with our parents, which has become an endless nightmare. Fortunately, the children get along well with their stepfather Peter. When Diana and her brother first met handsome, smiling and well-dressed Peter at Liverpool station, they were immediately fascinated by him. Peter is engaged in home wallpaper business, and he is a generous, emotional and easy-going stepfather. He took the children sailing and allowed Charles Jr. to wear a general's hat when he served in the Royal Navy. He nicknamed Diana "Duchess", and Diana's friends still call her that.
Diana's character is not like a spoiled upper-class lady, which has played a great role in her life.
Lonely campus
School life is also full of problems. Diana and her brother are the only students in school whose parents are divorced, which is fundamentally different from other children.
You know, divorce was very rare in those days. On a sunny afternoon, everyone is having a painting class. Somehow, Diana began to cry sadly. Her classmates were all in unknown so, only to see that she wrote "For Mom and Dad" in every picture she drew.
Diana is friendly to her classmates, likes small animals and helps others, but she knows nothing about her studies. When she has deeper problems, she often feels confused. When Diana was 9 years old, her father sent her to another school, which was two hours' drive from the park house.
Her father explained to her that school is the new home of 120 girls, including her, and collective life is good for her, where she can learn ballet and swim, and raise her beloved guinea pig. Diana didn't listen to these words. Her narrowed eyes were full of fear and anger, and she decided that even her father didn't want her now. She took her father and begged, "If you really love me, don't leave me here alone."
After all, with her father gone, little Diana began to learn to like school life.
In the dormitory, Diana will also talk and laugh with her girlfriends, but in class, she has been very quiet, never rushing to answer questions loudly, nor will she take the initiative to ask for reading the text. Sometimes she is too quiet. The first time she participated in a school performance, she played a doll. She agreed to play this role because she had no lines. Diana is a popular partner who is enthusiastic about all kinds of school activities. She once participated in swimming and tennis competitions on behalf of the dormitory, but deep down, she always feels that she is far away from anyone. One day, she will go in different directions.
My sister's boyfriend is in the middle of a cultivated land near Osoprene, and Diana is introduced to Prince Charles. Charles is eager to hunt and seems to be absent-minded when he speaks. Diana wore a plaid shirt, corduroy pants, Wellington boots and her sister's leather jacket, and her image was ambiguous. She knows that she is a wretched curry coffee, and her sister Sarah is the heroine in the play, because the prince is her sister's boyfriend.
In order to welcome the arrival of the prince, the Spencer family held a grand dance. Diana, who hasn't lost her baby fat, is thick and fat, doesn't wear makeup and behaves stupidly. But Prince Charles thinks that "this 16-year-old girl is lively, interesting, strange and lovely". He wanted Diana to show him around the 1 15-foot art gallery at home, where there is the best private art collection in Europe, but Sarah said that she should be the guide, and Diana immediately left. Sarah and Charles met in the summer of 1977 at the social event of the Royal Esco Jockey Club, and they were in close contact for 9 months. Public opinion once thought that Sarah was likely to be the future queen of England. However, because her enthusiasm for publicity far exceeded the caution of a royal girlfriend, her relationship with Charles gradually became cold.
However, she was invited to attend Prince Charles' 30th birthday party in Buckingham Palace in June1978165438+1October. To Sarah's great surprise, her little sister Diana was also invited-oh, Cinderella walked from behind the scenes to the stage.
Diana had so much fun that she didn't have time to think about it. Charles' companion that night was actress Susan George, which seemed to be none of her business. After all, life is so colorful and free, and the days of single aristocrats have just begun!
Different is different.
Anyway, this is an extraordinary romance. Diana and Charles have little in common. Charles is a graduate of Cambridge University. For him, nothing is more enjoyable than sitting quietly and reading a book full of wise psychology or history. On the other hand, Diana dropped out of high school and failed the make-up exam. Charles is particularly keen on instant activities, playing polo in summer and hunting in winter, three or four times a week, without interruption; When Diana/Kloc-0 was 0/0 years old, she broke her arm riding in Sangjunhan Park. Once bitten by a snake, twice shy, and it's hard since then. Charles loves opera and Diana loves ballet. Pop music that Charles hates is Diana's hobby; Charles never plays tennis, while Diana is good at it. Charles likes to be quiet. He can draw for hours with a small box of watercolor paints and sketchbooks, or he can sit by the river all day fishing and wait for the fish to bite. Diana is very active. She is willing to contact and talk with people, especially on the phone with family and friends. The telephone line is her lifeline.
Although Charles has always been cautious and not easily entangled in emotions, as "the most qualified bachelor in the world", his name is not unrelated to the scandal. Before Diana, he had formally talked about marriage with three girlfriends. By contrast, Diana is so immature that she can almost be his daughter. This little girl who just stepped out of school has never been in love with another man, and her emotional experience is blank. She is a child who has never grown up. Perhaps because of these obvious differences, Diana brought Charles a sense of freshness that he had never had before, and he was involuntarily attracted. It is better to be right than to come early, whether it is fate or luck. Diana was born at the right time and was destined to be the best person at that time. Prince Charles is in his thirties, so he should settle down. If Charles can make his own decisions, his friends believe that he will probably never get married. In fact, he likes single life very much. Over the years, deep-rooted habits and unchangeable schedules have already formed a set of daily operating procedures centered on him.
He has his favorite sports and a large group of followers at his disposal; He often travels abroad, and girls are always willing to accompany him to dinner or polo matches. In his kingdom, he has always gone his own way, only people let him, no one else let him.
Truth, and marriage needs mutual accommodation and compromise, which he seems to be difficult to adapt to. However, Charles had to end his comfortable single life. His title brings privileges and responsibilities. His duty is to get married and bring an heir to the throne. Buckingham Palace is very upset about this.
At that time, Edward VIII was crowned a beautiful woman, which caused the shadow of "royal trust crisis" and haunted everyone in the family. The older Charles is, the harder it is to find a virgin bride who believes in Christ and is of noble blood.
Queen Elizabeth is worried all day. She devoted her life to carrying forward the spirit of the British royal family, and her first task was to be responsible for the heirs of the monarchy. She was afraid that Charles would make some jokes about marriage and love and humiliate the royal family.
It's really not Charles' fault. If Charles had been born even 30 years earlier, he might have been able to date his favorite girl calmly and let his relationship grow in a purely private way without worrying about making headlines in the tabloids at any time. Unfortunately, the traditional barriers separating the royal family from the public have long been broken, and the media is pervasive. Charles' love story is as disturbing as a series of chaotic plots in a boring soap opera. How can the Windsor royal family not worry? Things have reached the point where the emperor is not in a hurry and the eunuch is in a hurry.
There are two kinds of sayings circulating in Buckingham Palace.
One said that one night, a group of old friends of Charles got together and drew up a list of virgins who might be selected as noble blood. Another way of saying it is that the Queen Mother and her long-time girlfriend, Diana's grandmother, talk about the possibility of marriage between their favorite grandchildren over tea in the afternoon. Perhaps both statements are correct, but in either case, the first candidate is Miss Diana Spencer.
The prince proposed.
A phone call from Charles made her forget all her doubts for a while.
Charles was skiing in Switzerland at that time. He said on the phone that he had something important to ask her when he came back.
Diana had a premonition that the long-awaited moment had finally arrived. That day, she chatted with her girlfriends until midnight.
1981On February 6th, Charles invited Diana to meet at Windsor Castle. It was getting late, and Charles told Diana that he missed her very much, and then proposed to her directly.
Diana's first reaction was an incredible giggle. The prince is very enthusiastic. He reminded Diana that she would be queen one day.
Diana accepted his proposal.
But a voice in her heart whispered, no, I will never be a queen. Diana has had a strange and stubborn premonition since her association with Charles. Of course, she won't say it, she just keeps saying how much she loves him.
Charles replied, "OK, OK, just say what love means." Later, when he officially announced their engagement to the media, Charles repeated this sentence. Diana, immersed in happiness, didn't notice the hesitation and reservation in his words. Two days later, Diana flew to Australia for a holiday with her mother and stepfather, and enjoyed a quiet and secluded civilian life in the last few days.
Diana didn't know that when she discussed the details of the wedding with her mother, the reporters in London were like ants in hot bricks. They tried their best to find out where the bride-to-be was hiding. Only one person in the world knows her whereabouts, and that is Charles. He never called her. Diana came up with countless reasons to forgive him. Finally, she called him first. He is not in Buckingham Palace.
When Diana came home, Charles' entourage sent a big bunch of flowers, but Diana couldn't find a word from Charles. Perhaps, these flowers were not sent by Charles at all, but just a gesture of courtesy from his staff.
On February 23rd, 198 1, the first night when the engagement was officially announced, Diana packed her bags and said goodbye to her close girlfriend, Collehern No.60. A fully armed Scotland Yard sheriff will escort her into the palace.
He looked at Diana's naive face when she was under 20 years old and couldn't help saying, "You know, this is the last night of freedom in your life. Don't leave in a hurry, and enjoy it again. " These words pierced Diana's heart like a sharp dagger. She couldn't help stopping. After the wedding of the hungry honeymoon, Charles boarded the royal yacht "Brita Nia" with Diana with a full set of fishing tools and half a dozen philosophy books, and spent a three-week honeymoon in the Mediterranean.
It didn't take long for Diana to understand that in order to be harmonious, she must unconditionally accommodate Charles in all aspects.
When Charles is fishing, she can watch it whenever she wants; You can do your own thing if you don't want to, but don't expect Charles to leave the fishing rod to accompany her.
"Adapting to the new role" is only Diana's business, and Charles will not bother to change the original lifestyle for anyone. In his eyes, Diana is just a child with no opinion, so she should follow his example.
Diana wanted to use this time to get to know her husband better-after they got engaged, Charles was often away from her because of royal business-but who would have thought that their chances of being alone on the world's largest private yacht were slim.
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Dinner is mostly a formal occasion for Charles to discuss business with relevant personnel in suits and ties. Diana, who has nothing to do, often visits the kitchen. Her appetite is amazing. She eats ice cream bowl after bowl, and between meals, she also asks the chef to prepare special snacks for her.
Diana's bulimia symptoms are becoming more and more obvious.
For Diana, the past few months have been like stepping on a pair of roller skates, trying to strike a balance between a new life, a new role, her husband's married girlfriend, suffocating public exposure, and extreme emotions of being happy and depressed. The situation is like an explosive cocktail, one drop is enough to start a prairie fire. A honeymoon trip is like adding fuel to the fire.
On one occasion, two photos of Camilla fell out of Charles' diary; At another dinner hosted by the Egyptian President and his wife, Charles wore a pair of new cufflinks in the shape of two intertwined C's, and Camilla told him to be outspoken.
Diana asked Charles to tell her honestly what he thought of his wife and "girlfriend". Charles regarded it as "unreasonable" childishness and completely ignored it. So Diana ate more and vomited more, sometimes four or five times a day.
Mesaka holiday
After Prince Andrew's wedding in 1986, Charles and Diana's marriage also reached their watershed.
At that time, the Crown Prince and his wife were taking their children on vacation in Mesaca, Spain. One day, they went to a nearby island in King Carlos' luxury yacht. The speed of the yacht was 80 knots and it was worth 3 million pounds. Their colleagues followed in the distance in another boat. In the blue sea, blue sky and sparkling beauty, the relationship between the royal couple is neither good nor good, let alone good. In the next five hours, Charles and Diana never approached each other again, let alone talked.
While Charles was surfing, Diana strolled to the other side of the deck; When Diana dived, Charles turned his face in the opposite direction. They read books, sunbathed and chatted with others on the boat, but they didn't exchange a look or say a word. After five years of marriage, she has died completely so far. There is no official announcement, and anyone can make such a conclusion. Charles left early before the holiday ended. The official news said that the prince had gone fishing. In fact, he soon joined Camilla in Scotland. Diana and her two sons enjoyed the sunshine and the sea freely and had a wonderful time for several days. Mezaka's holiday is not so much a bad ending as a place for everyone.
Have a tacit understanding
Since then, Charles and Diana have reached an agreement. In private, unless it's about two sons, it's definitely "you go your sunny way, I'll cross my wooden bridge", and no one cares who. In public, they also maintain the relationship of working partners, and of course, they are inseparable working partners. In February, after an eight-day skiing holiday, Diana left Charles and his friends and returned to London early. In March, Charles went skiing in Switzerland and Diana stayed at home. In April, Charles took Prince William and Prince Henry to Fort Belmore, and Diana lived in Kensington Palace. At the end of April, Charles went to Italy, nominally to see an art exhibition, but actually to visit Camilla; In May, Charles went to remote hebrides alone, where he worked with farmers for three days.
In autumn, the rift between Charles and Diana became obvious. Since the Queen, every senior member of the royal family has realized that their doubts and worries about the marital status of the Crown Prince and his wife are true.
Diana almost never stays with Charles. She goes out at night with everyone except Charles. When they were both at home, Diana also avoided the dinner hosted at home and never presided over the overall situation as the hostess. At first, Charles often suggested that she attend. Charles has never made such a meaningless attempt since 1987.
Diana didn't attend the party and didn't feel any loss by listening to Charles' self-righteous conversation with a group of "boring old men" She would rather drive alone, leave Kensington Palace, leave the peeping lens, leave the covetous royal family and come to her favorite beach on the Dorset coast. Suddenly, she came slowly, and the cool sea breeze swept her face, leaving her empty.
All the original hopes were dashed, and the compromise was still wordless indifference. She told herself that she must cheer up and find the real Diana and the authenticity that has been completely distorted and submerged in the past few years. She should start her own life.
Sacred mission
Diana is full of energy and devoted herself to various charities.
1991one day in July, Barbara bush, then the wife of the president of the United States, and Diana visited the AIDS ward of a hospital together.
Diana gave him a big hug when chatting with a patient who was too sick to get up. The patient couldn't help crying, and the President's wife and others present were deeply moved. Diana said that AIDS patients need warm hugs more, and she fulfilled her promise.
When she hugged the patient, she actually showed her value.
Diana cares about all the patients. She also has deep feelings for drug addicts, lepers, homeless people and sexually abused children. She pays special attention to AIDS patients because she feels that people do too little for AIDS patients.
In the five months of 199 1 year, she has been silently helping to take care of Eric Jackson, an AIDS patient, and spent the most ups and downs in her life.
Eric Jackson, full of energy and charm, is an outstanding figure in British ballet, opera and other artistic fields. In the mid-1980s, he was diagnosed as HIV-positive, and the open-minded and cheerful Ai Rui could not understand the cruel trick of fate for a while. Later, he became the vice chairman of the charity Crisis Relief Fund, where he met Diana for the first time and began to face the harsh reality. 1987, he confessed the truth to his girlfriend Angela Heroda for the first time. Angela is a member of the Royal Ballet. Facing her terminally ill friend, Angela is calm and calm, and with the full support of her two daughters, she tries her best to take care of Ai Rui.
In April, Ariel's condition deteriorated and she lived in her apartment all day, with Angela around. Since then, Diana has often visited them and taken care of their friends with Angela.
Love in trouble
Diana in Angela's eyes is "beautiful" far beyond the simple definition of beauty. Although the shadow of her unfortunate life haunts her, her rich inner world shines brightly. " Diana even brought Prince William and Prince Henry. She thinks that children should be prepared when they grow up.
Face all aspects of life, even death. Diana always brings Ai Lier a bunch of flowers or something like that and tells her what she did today. Of course, Ari could feel that Diana was not just pretending. The laughter, understanding and deep concern she brought were so real and touching. On Diana's 30th birthday, she wore a gold bracelet given to her by Ai Rui, symbolizing their unity and hardship.