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Is it really a pity that you haven't been in love in college?
Yes, I'm sorry. Because falling in love in college has many advantages.

1, improve emotional intelligence, and early maturity leads to growth.

Falling in love can improve emotional intelligence. If you stay with another person for a long time, you will become more considerate, gentler and more responsible for them, which will promote your faster growth and maturity. Besides, love is an important part of life. After work, it may be impossible to talk about a love affair without considering anything because of busy work and age, so the university should talk about a love affair.

2.*** Learn and progress, and become excellent together.

Falling in love in middle school may affect learning, but it is not entirely the case in college. There are countless examples of couples getting scholarships together and taking postgraduate exams together. In fact, making friends in universities can promote the progress of learning as long as they are used seriously, because since they have entered the same school, their ability level is almost the same, and they may have the same topics and goals. We usually invite libraries to study together, and then make progress together and become excellent together. This is a wonderful experience.

3. Enrich the daily life of the university

Universities generally take dormitories as a small group, and everything is done in the same dormitory. However, because there may be many people in the dormitory, there will always be some minor contradictions when a group of people get together, and sometimes it is difficult to achieve unity, so although they are together, they naturally cannot reach the point of intimacy. And if you have an object, the object can become your bosom friend. Two people are congenial, and you can talk about everything with the object at ordinary times, and one more person will share it for yourself, stay away from home and take care of yourself. During the holidays, we can also watch movies, eat and travel together, all of which are wonderful.

4, can satisfy the curiosity of immature psychology.

Now that life is good, people's physical development is accelerating. Like-sex repulsion, opposites attract. Our education in China and China has never been conservative. People are wrapped up when they are born, and men and women don't know what each other looks like. Coupled with psychological growth, therefore, junior high school students' subconscious curiosity about the opposite sex gradually rises. When you go to college, it will naturally swell. There is still a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will work hard for it!

5. Being in love can make college students' personality more sound. Love doesn't always have a happy ending. How to deal with lovelorn or the relationship between the two sides in love is something that everyone will experience. In the university stage, it is obviously beneficial to the formation and perfection of personality to experience some experiences in this field first. In American middle schools, schools encourage this kind of communication between boys and girls, with the aim of making them more mature and sophisticated in dealing with emotional relationships, able to bear injuries and enjoy happiness.