Once, I made an appointment for dinner with everyone and chatted with the girls in the group. The male friend sitting next to me glanced at my mobile phone and said, "Hey, you girls, it's really good to get together and chat, but chatting is just a boyfriend's husband falling in love and breaking up." Is it interesting? "
I looked back at him. He really doesn't understand girls nowadays.
Do you think love is really the whole of our life? Do you think we have to talk about men as soon as we speak? Maybe we read some emotional articles and wrote some small insights, occasionally talking about predecessors and incumbents, but we really just read and wrote a little. You may sometimes be curious about emotional raiders, or share a guide to tease men, which is limited to curiosity and sharing.
Do you want us to really study each other's thoughts and devote ourselves to a secret love and a strong love? Sorry, I really can't do it.
Maybe he is interested in how to make the boys in the front row look at himself more, and he also tries to attract the attention of the handsome boys in the next class. But now that kind of blind research, it is better to do belly rolling, running and practicing a good vest line.
Our chat group is called "I love vest line" and we share some fitness experiences every day.
Men? Boyfriend? An ambiguous object? There is nothing more exciting than "the vest line is a little deeper today"
Why? I'm so tired because I'm teasing! Do true feelings have to be provoked? No, playing those language games, playing those IQ and EQ competitions, everything is played out, and not many people play with love. Anyway, there is no result, and I am not interested in enjoying the so-called heartbeat, palpitation and heartache. It is better to spend time studying the rules of teasing men and women and make yourself like yourself.
Squat up your ass if you want, hold up your stomach if you want, pull your back if you want to look good in a skirt, yoga, jogging, dancing, pilates, so many ways, you can even practice lying down ... wherever you want to look good.
Sometimes sending a few photos of some achievements in a circle of friends is really not a show, nor is it to show others how healthy their life is. This way of life is out of date in the eyes of others.
But that, wow, I really love myself more and more. Narcissism, yes, because getting closer to your goals is really great!
Show it to men? Show it to women? It's really just for myself.
In fact, many people in the circle of friends are complaining that they are single, and they always ridicule themselves as single dog. It's not that they can't find a partner, but they don't want to find one. Because there are so many interesting things in this world, anyone can be as happy as finding a boyfriend and girlfriend.
Take my cousin for example. If she wants to hit me, she is really old, but why has the window been empty for so long?
I just said I wanted to find a boyfriend the other day. As a result, I play archery with my friends when I have time, run for an hour when I am alone, learn guzheng with my friends when I have a little time, or think about planning a trip. She is so busy, where can she find a boyfriend? Where did you get the time to think about which boy you want to flirt with today?
Forget it. I have to find time for myself. In this way, people who love themselves and satisfy themselves don't have to find men to fill in the blanks.
There is a girl my age in the vest line group. We met while dancing. Her job is Korean translation. It turns out that fleshy people may not be the type that male gods like, and talking to male gods is always ignored. One more word from the male god will make her happy all night. Sexy? Sort of. I dare not say anything to show my mind, nor can I make the conversation seem indifferent. It took me a long time to press the send button carefully. I really want it, but it's not easy to say a few words. Then one day, after waiting for the male god for a long time, there was no movement, and she suddenly felt bored. She looked in the mirror and thought it would be nice to be a little tighter. On a whim, she ran downstairs.
The feeling of pain and sweating is much better than teasing the male god, and it has been out of control since then.
My fitness instructor also asked me, why don't you find a boyfriend?
I'm too lazy to watch.
Find the right person around me. Let colleagues and classmates introduce you? Let the family arrange a blind date? No, no, no, the time cost is too high, and the result is uncontrollable.
Because I am busy loving myself, taking care of my health, dressing and matching, making money and reading books, the return on each item is more practical and reliable than focusing on finding a boyfriend.
Seriously, if you really love yourself wholeheartedly, you can avoid a lot of annoying troubles.
For example, too many people around you can easily affect your bad mood, your good friend does something that may make you angry, your colleagues speak ill of you, your classmates are a little isolated ... Let the world change, I only love my vest line. As for paying too much attention to those messy things, it is not on your agenda at all.
Even my good friend, a sweet girl who is always thinking in love, now goes to fun run every night when she is free. When she comes back to lie down and read a book, it is always easy to breed emotions when she is bored. Now she doesn't even have time to "work", and even if she does, she's too lazy to "work". She always wants to prove whether the other person loves herself or not, and the more she wants to prove it, the more contradictory it becomes.
Now, how much do you love me Not as much as I love myself anyway.
Your world is so quiet.
"If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come." In fact, I don't like this sentence, because it is a bit vulgar if it is not used well. But this sentence is so right.
"attract bees to attract butterflies" means to do it yourself. No fragrance, no beauty, can't attract them. Instead of trying to find a way to have something to do with someone, it is better to let yourself have something to do first, even if nothing happens.
However, the best state is not "a woman likes herself", but really loves herself from the heart, which is the first armor of self-protection.
When you really love yourself, no one can hurt you easily.
So falling in love doesn't matter? It is also very important, but it has become a small matter, not the whole of life. Lonely people have another way of being lonely. Lonely people are lonely but not lonely.
Your skin is white and beautiful, you have a waist, you can write poetry, you can draw, you can dance, you can Sanda, you have read books, you have endless money, and you can't be promoted. Are you afraid that no one will love you?
So do boys. You have six-pack broad shoulders, fashionable clothes, fleshy clothes, great skin and cool hair, rich people, a good job and promising prospects, and you love reading and traveling. Who are you afraid of not loving?
If you are still afraid, no one will love you and no one will like you. Does it feel better to look at the bank card and touch the vest line?
Every girl is a demon. She wants to cultivate Wang with half love and half sexy ID:chun9276.