? My partner and I also met through online dating (although in the same city), and now we have been together for more than two years. Now I want to talk about this topic in combination with my own experience.
Whether online dating is reliable depends on people.
? The network is just a virtual reality after all. You can't know who is behind the opposite screen, whether it's a man or a woman, whether it's beautiful or ugly, whether it's Neptune or someone who really wants to take off the bill.
Love concrete people, not abstract people. Luo Xiang
? This may be the reason why most people don't believe in online dating. To some extent, online dating is also an abstract thing. Abstract people, people who are shaped by communication and imagination, and people who stand in front of themselves and communicate are still different. In addition, distance and freshness are two factors that make online dating inferior to true love. Everyone communicates through the screen every day, and the only way to keep love is typing, or telephone, or video.
? Maybe I am lucky, because my high school classmate is my junior high school classmate, so he is equivalent to the role of "matchmaker" among us. My partner and I can also know what kind of person the other person is, including but not limited to what he looks like and what he likes to do at ordinary times. Therefore, it is more topical for him to come to the scene later.
? Running around can stabilize online dating feelings, but not blindly.
? But for those games where a friend knows each other and both of them are in different places, and usually only rely on typing and voice communication, I think we still need to be more cautious and rational, not blind and hasty. We can try to regard online dating as a way to get to know each other, but we still need to know each other carefully before we can get out of online dating and become real love.
? In my opinion, if you really confirm the relationship online, it is best to meet in reality at least two or three months later. Because this period of time will test online dating, once the novelty passes, you will know whether your ta really loves you. If so, it's better to meet. If not, break up. After all, this is also a place where online dating is considered unreliable.
? My current partner and I have been chatting for almost a year before coming to the scene, but after all, it is very convenient to take the subway for only one and a half hours at a time. The first feeling is that true love is stronger than online love, which makes people feel more secure. Instead of cold typing and chatting, we can really do what we want to do together and see the scenery we want to see.
? In short, whether online dating is reliable or not depends on whether the person who is online dating is reliable or not. If you and your online dating partner know each other well and everyone thinks each other is suitable, then a rush will stabilize your relationship. For other online dating objects who only have a cold chat and know nothing about each other, it is really unreliable.