People with high emotional intelligence talk to each other every day. Many people know the skills of chatting, so it is easy to turn chatting into embarrassing chatting, or simply kill chatting. In order to avoid this situation, the following people who share daily high emotional intelligence talk to each other. Let's have a look.

Daily conversation with people with high EQ +0! Learn 8 words quickly!

1, people ask if you can drink?

Wrong answer: no, no, I can't.

Correct answer: I am good at pouring wine.

2. When someone praises you for your high value.

You can answer like this: I like you to tell the truth seriously.

People say you are a little short.

Wrong answer: What do I care about you?

You can answer this way: no way, it's all at face value.

4. When someone asks you to praise you for being so talented.

You can answer this way: thank you. I appreciate your eyes more.

5. When someone asks if you are there?

You can answer this way: tell me one thing first so that I can decide whether I am here or not.

6. When someone asks how old you are?

You can answer this question: Everyone says I'm like 18 years old, about your age.

7. People say you have a tan.

Wrong answer: Black spots are fine and healthy.

You can answer this way: I got a tan on purpose because I don't want to be a "superficial" person.

8. When someone asks you how much money you earn every month.

You can answer like this:

For example, a little over 40,000 (4,000,0) or less than 50,000.

Talking with people with high emotional intelligence in daily life II. First, talk for the first time

1, naturally invite ripe

For people who are familiar with themselves, it will really cause others to talk about it. Of course, you can't go too far. Otherwise, others will think that you may be a little crazy, as long as you are a little approachable and easy to talk to.

For example:

(1) Big wavy hair with your velvet coat makes you look so elegant.

(2) The horoscope says that we are suitable for chatting today.

(3) Your clothes are very catwalk, and I think your clothes are very good.

Step 2 show yourself

Self-presentation can not only let the other person know about you, but also highlight your own characteristics and attract others' attention, so this way is desirable, but you must pay attention to seeking truth from facts and don't fart, so your impression in the eyes of others will be greatly reduced.

For example:

(1) Show the taste of life: I went out to eat with my friends, but I didn't serve yet, and I felt hungry (I lost a photo of a restaurant with a high space).

(2) Lifestyle display: I feel full of power now. I just worked out in the gym for an hour, and now I'm going home to take a shower.

3. Topic chat

It is also called not taking the usual path, that is, using the topic to completely attract the other person to chat with you, which is very important for the choice of topic. Different people choose different topics, so we must know each other's personality.

For example:

(1) Gentle type: Based on my intuition of fortune telling for more than 20 years, I feel that your personality is like a cat.

(2) Hot type: Your women's sixth sense is really accurate. We men seem to be naked in front of you.

(3) Stubborn: Although good-looking, there is a heart that does not give up easily under the good-looking appearance.

Second, examples of high emotional intelligence chat language

For people with high emotional intelligence, chatting is really simple and easy, but once you listen, you can make others want to chat with you, get close to you, and make people around you think you are a person with high emotional intelligence.

For example:

1. Seeing your photos makes me feel very literary, and literary girls are generally more romantic. Are you like this?

Every time you appear, I have a feeling of heartache. Every time you wear it, people always think that you are a great collocation teacher.

You look really good recently, and your work must be very smooth.

For people with high emotional intelligence, they fully consider each other's feelings when they speak, so they won't make others feel bored, and they won't think you are nagging, because they always talk and do things just right.

Third, examples of people with high emotional intelligence chatting.

1, black humor

Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. Someone asked them how they got together, and the chimpanzee said with emotion: Ape dung is all ape dung.

2. Monologue

If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset, flashing in every inch of your life.

Step 3 care

The lowest temperature tomorrow 1 degree, and the highest temperature 13 degree. If you care about the weather, you care about yourself. Don't forget to add an extra dress.

Daily conversations with people with high emotional intelligence 3 16 Humorous chatting skills, humorous routines for picking up girls with high emotional intelligence.

Many buddies are called "steel straight man" by girls. In the process of communicating with girls, I don't dig the needs of girls and don't understand their psychology. They don't know how to chat with girls. They can only chat with their own ideas, which leads to failure again and again.

Girls are naturally passive and are not good at actively opening topics. Therefore, as men, we need to take the initiative to take the responsibility of opening the topic and guide girls, so that girls will feel less tired and will be interested in continuing to chat with you.

16 Humorous Chatting Skills

Generally speaking, this thing is influenced by knowledge and thinking mode. Contact more interesting people, contact more new things, make yourself more outgoing, have nothing to do, and a sense of humor will naturally come.

To cultivate a sense of humor, we must first feel and be familiar with humor, so as to train our eyes to catch interesting things. Imagine yourself as a bystander of life, looking for harmony: the [funny] deskmate at school, the unruly [fuck] teacher, the second-rate roommate in the dormitory, Tu Tu Dixieba, Chaplin and Kubrick in the film industry, Douglas in the literary world, Shu Shujue Luo, Liang Bianyao and his third cousin in the Zhihu world are all endless hidden by the creator.

For example:

1 "I was still playing with my mobile phone when they fought" was changed to "I was still brushing my millet with flyme when they fought"

2. "I am also afraid, but the only weapon I can use for self-defense is a pen" is changed to "I am also afraid, but the only weapon I can use for self-defense is a red pen with a TM blue hat".

3. "Big Brother finally waited for you, and I saw menstruation jump for half an hour" was changed to "Big Brother finally waited for you, and I saw menstruation jump 17".

16 Humorous Chatting Skills

4. "You are disgusting, I almost can't help throwing up" is changed to: "You are disgusting, if it weren't for the 30-dollar burger king, I would have thrown up on the spot."

5. "Sister, can you give me 200 yuan first? The cost of living is a little insufficient these days. "Change it to:" Sister, please pay me back 200 yuan first. These days, the bosses in Shaxian County began to ask me why I didn't add salted eggs. "

6, "I like you very much, you can't like others" is changed to: "Don't go out and wander around, just stay in my world, okay?"

7. "I am an emotional man and worthy of your love" is changed to: "I will use all kinds of customs to make you move."

8. "You are stupid" is changed to: "Your IQ is as thin as the oxygen in the Himalayas."

9. "Don't be afraid of lightning" is changed to: "Remember to smile when you meet lightning. The sky is taking pictures of you."

10 "Why do you always take selfies" was changed to: "Why do you always take selfies? I have seen it countless times and my hands are sore. "

1 1, "Are you asleep?" Although you are sleeping now, my brain is still working overtime for you.

12, "I don't like you, so fat" was changed to: "I don't want to tease you, because you seem to be heavy, weighing on my heart."

13, "Hello" was changed to: "Hello, can I borrow a word" (humorous skill with high emotional intelligence).

14, "Call me next time you drink" was changed to "Treat me as a snack next time you drink."

15, "Look at you, why are you getting fat again" was changed to: "Look at you, you are getting fat again, do you want to exercise together to lose weight?"

16, "I want to sleep with you" was changed to "I'd better sleep with you, or sleep with you for short."

Finally, I suggest you watch and listen to jokes, buzzwords, jokes and classic cross talks. , and cover as widely as possible, and do a good job of accumulation. More importantly, we should know some humorous skills, such as big words and small sentences, exaggeration, changing concepts, homophonic and so on. With the method, we can create our own humor, so it will be much easier for high emotional intelligence to pick up girls and chat humorously.