I am convinced. Many things happened in 2020, and so did my life. Sharing my growth experience in the past few months is a comeback for myself, and I hope it will inspire everyone. It is no exaggeration to say that this time has changed my life direction. What have I done in these four months?

Always full of hope, passed the interview of the national teacher qualification examination. Daily success diary has been recorded for 1 19 days. Exercise three times a week and stick to it until now.

At the same time, run the official WeChat account, Baijia number and headline. The official WeChat account has been working in the white shift for 40 days, and now it is a weekly shift. Headlines get yellow v and original in one month. Baijiahao successfully passed the novice period and opened the dynamic delivery function.

Take part in reading camp. As a training camp for the class Committee. Work to take care of my baby's life after work, work and study are very fulfilling and satisfying. The most important thing is that my life is no longer confused and my direction is more clear.

Anything is possible.

First, by chance, life has changed a lot.

As mentioned in the book Anti-Vulnerability, anti-vulnerability means that when you know that the Black Swan incident is bound to happen, one of the abilities you must possess will get better, not remain unchanged or get worse.

1, in front of me:

Before, I felt that my life was very calm and I could study, but I was basically content with the status quo. I am busy every day, but I don't know what I am busy with.

The same is true of work. I don't have a clear goal, but I feel that I have a good day, but I don't know how to spend it. Every day is monotonous and confused about the future.

2. Now I am:

I understand that the quiet years of ordinary people are all illusions. Ordinary people have many risks like others, and natural and man-made disasters are enough to destroy a family.

My most important achievement is to define my life purpose and have a life direction.

Now, my goal is to have enough ability to protect the people I love and the people I love, by realizing financial freedom, because 99% of things can be solved with money. The specific way is to achieve reading, because writing is the best way to achieve zero-cost entrepreneurship, and of course, financial management.

I want to be strong. Only when I am strong can I successfully meet challenges and solve difficulties.

Change is a good thing.

Second, do what you want to do.

Laura Vanderkam, an expert in time management, mentioned in the TED talk "How to Manage Your Free Time Effectively" that the ideal of life is not realized by saving time. When we strive to realize our ideals, time will naturally be saved.

Have you ever had such a time? I want to change my life now, but I still haven't taken action. I want to read a book, but I never take the time to read it. I want to stay healthy and lose weight, but I'm too busy to do it. I signed up for an online course, but I didn't finish it for various reasons. And so on.

I'm too busy.

Psychology divides people's understanding of the outside world into three areas: comfort zone, study zone and panic zone. Do you really have no time, or do you really don't want to do it so much, and subconsciously want to stay in the comfort zone? The hardest part is the first step. As the saying goes, everything is difficult at the beginning.

But if you don't start and take the first step bravely, how can there be a change? I don't have time to exercise and study, but I have time to brush my circle of friends, brush Weibo, watch Tik Tok, brush Taobao and follow the drama. Are you the same?

These are all time, which we have neglected. Every step we take is our own choice. We want to change and improve, but choose to spend time on these meaningless things, ignoring those we really want to do.

Realizing this, I deliberately paid attention to my time and gave up the drama that took up most of my time to brush my circle of friends.

Time has really come back. There is half an hour in the morning, half an hour on the way to and from work, nearly an hour at noon, and at night the child falls asleep for at least one hour. So much time can be used, of course, you can use it to do what you really want to do.

When we want to change and try to make ourselves better, everything is not a problem, and everything can be solved.

Love yourself and be yourself.

Third, outstanding peers make faster progress together.

Xunzi. Persuade:? Pengpengli, don't help yourself straight. White sand is nirvana, and it is black. ?

Indeed, the environment is very important. Walking with excellent people is like the world opening many windows in front of you. I was fortunate to know many excellent friends, and my thoughts became clearer in the communication with them. If a person gropes for progress, there will be a lot of gains, but if he is really tired, there will be many detours. Learning from the winners is the fastest path.

As Picasso said:? Excellent people imitate, great people copy. ? Finding the role model you want to be the most and imitating it accurately is the best way to achieve your goal.

Reading opened a new world in front of me. I know there are so many ways to read, and the channels to realize reading are not only writing articles, but also listening, recommending and opening manuscripts.

Of course, Nabokov's kafa helped me the most. With the accumulated card, I wrote four micro-headlines with more than 300 words in 90 minutes and posted them on the headlines, catching up with the first batch of communications and successfully obtaining the yellow V certification.

At that time, the micro-headlines were full of harvest, and I was always on the road. At present, the headlines and Baijiahao have just settled in for a month, and they are all profitable. Not much, but very happy. When they got the yellow V, they also specially wrote an article.

I often remind myself of Do not forget your initiative mind and remember why I insist. For my friends, I want to say, whether you have been waiting for a long time, are too bored, want to find something to do, or want to break through yourself, settle down when you come, and stick to it since you started.

Now that you have learned it, study hard, not asking yourself what you learned today, but asking yourself what you learned today. Don't waste your precious time. Time is life.

The most important thing is to persist in learning and output. In fact, writing is the most effective output. Stick to learning output, and you will see the effect one day. Our efforts will not be in vain, this is my personal experience.

Let's cheer together and try to be better ourselves. The last sentence is for everyone, and for you. It's not the difficulty that makes us give up, but it's the giving up that makes it so difficult.