Lei Qingyao was not born with only one arm, but when she was three years old, she had an accident and suffered an electric shock, which made her lose her arms forever. But instead of being immersed in the pain of losing her arms, she accepted herself frankly. She was 23 when she joined the program.
Be generous, bravely pursue your love and bravely show your love.
As a disabled person, it is a courageous thing to be able to participate in dating programs and find love. In addition, she is kind, strong and independent, which also attracts some boys. Finally, she succeeded in holding hands with a boy who came specially for her in the program and left the program with everyone's blessing. However, not long after the end of the program, rumors of their breakup appeared. Later, it was also confirmed in Weibo, which made many netizens feel sorry. Many netizens questioned the male guest's hype, but after all, they just had a brief understanding on the program. After stepping down, I found it inappropriate, and it was not surprising to break up.
However, Lei Qingyao was not affected by lovelorn, and her life was very happy. Sometimes it will appear in some large-scale activities, endorse some advertisements, and create your own company life, which can be said to be interesting. Now Lei Qingyao is 30 years old. I went to see her Weibo. Now she is more mature and elegant. I often run for fitness, Weibo punches in, and occasionally travels with friends. Weibo uploads some videos. Judging from the video, I am still so optimistic and lively.
As for her lack of arms, fans and friends will also ask her if she cares about other people's strange eyes. Recently, she replied in Weibo: "First of all, everyone lives for himself. If he cares about others, he won't have himself. Life is expensive. Don't waste it I feel uncomfortable when others treat me differently, but I will forgive others, not because others deserve to be forgiven, but because I don't want to be angry. Accept what you can't change, because you have never seen the world. Now it seems that they don't live as wonderful as me. How can I care about them? People who are as good as me and better than me will only like and appreciate me. Being "noticed" by others is also a very lucky thing. Who cares if he is different! Anyway, I am happy and others are free. " It can be seen that her 30+ mentality is really good!
I have always felt that girls are easy to feel insecure. Some girls are lucky to find a boy who loves her very much, and the boy will make up for the girl's insecurity. But love can't be found if you want to find it. Before you meet true love, I think the only way for a girl to feel safe is to make herself better, increase her self-confidence psychologically and put her mind right. I saw a sentence on the Internet that a girl's sense of security actually comes from her preferences. But before you meet your Mr. Right, please give yourself a preference!