1. Self-ripe

For people who are familiar with themselves, it will really cause others to talk about it. Of course, you can't go too far. Otherwise, others will think that you may be a little crazy, as long as you are a little approachable and easy to talk to.

For example:

(1) Big wavy hair with your velvet coat makes you look so elegant.

(2) The horoscope says that we are suitable for chatting today.

(3) Your clothes are very catwalk, and I think your clothes are very good.

Show yourself

Self-presentation can not only let the other person know about you, but also highlight your own characteristics and attract others' attention, so this way is desirable, but you must pay attention to seeking truth from facts and don't fart, so your impression in the eyes of others will be greatly reduced.

For example:

(1) Presentation of life taste: I went out to eat with my friends, and I felt hungry before serving (I lost a photo of a high-profile restaurant).

(2) Lifestyle display: I feel full of power now. I just worked out in the gym for an hour, and now I'm going home to take a shower.

3. Topic chat

It is also called not taking the usual path, that is, using the topic to completely attract the other person to chat with you, which is very important for the choice of topic. Different people choose different topics, so we must know each other's personality.

For example:

(1) Gentle type: Based on my intuition of fortune telling for more than 20 years, I feel that your personality is like a cat.

(2) Hot type: Your women's sixth sense is really accurate. We men seem to be naked in front of you.

(3) Stubborn: Although good-looking, there is a heart that does not give up easily under the good-looking appearance.

Second, examples of high emotional intelligence chat language

For people with high emotional intelligence, chatting is really simple and easy, but once you listen, you can make others want to chat with you, get close to you, and make people around you think you are a person with high emotional intelligence.

For example:

1. Seeing your photos makes me feel very literary, and literary girls are generally more romantic. Are you like this?

2. Every time you appear, I feel heartbroken. Every time you put it on, people always feel that you are a great collocation teacher.

You look really good recently. Your work must be going well.

For people with high emotional intelligence, they fully consider each other's feelings when they speak, so they won't make others feel bored, and they won't think you are nagging, because they always talk and do things just right.

Third, examples of people with high emotional intelligence chatting.

1. Black humor

Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on a bench pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. Someone asked them how they got together, and the chimpanzee said with emotion: Ape dung is all ape dung.

2. Monologue

If one day, you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side, no matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset, flashing in every inch of your life.

nurse

The lowest temperature tomorrow 1 degree, and the highest temperature 13 degree. If you care about the weather, you care about yourself. Don't forget to add an extra dress.