Ding Tingting, a sophomore, has a lot on her mind these days. She is not only a recognized beauty on campus, but also has been among the best in academic performance, and has just won the first-class scholarship of the school. Supposedly, she should be happy every day Only one or two close friends know that her troubles come from love. Yes, she admitted that she seemed to fall in love with Yang Guang, the president of the student union in that school. Everyone can see Yang Guang's pursuit of Ding Tingting, but he is not generally keen on Ding Tingting. For example, as long as Ding Tingting casually says whose books are good-looking, in a few days, Yang Guang will buy all the books of that person and send them to Ding Tingting. For Yang Guang, whose family background, personality and appearance are impeccable, Ding Tingting certainly touched her heart long ago. However, Ding Tingting is a good girl. She once promised her parents that she would never fall in love during college. She hopes that she can keep her promise. However, if Yang Guang's pursuit doesn't respond, she is worried that she will miss Yang Guang in this life. Because Ding Tingting is very clear, many girls in the school are actively attacking Yang Guang. Should I fall in love with Yang Guang? Ding Tingting's heart is full of contradictions. Love is like a flower in spring. When the conditions are ripe and it is time to blossom, it is useless to artificially prevent it from opening. Generally speaking, as long as you are physically and psychologically mature and meet the right person, you can start dating. During college, most people basically have the physical and psychological conditions for falling in love. As long as you meet someone worthy of your love, you can consider falling in love. An authoritative survey shows that 83% of college students have a strong desire for love. So it is understandable to fall in love during college. First, love is also an extremely important course in life. We should start this course well from college. Love needs ability, and the ability to love includes: love others, let others love, and love yourself. A person who doesn't know how to love others is immature and selfish; At the same time, you should also know how to make the person you love love you and how to make others love you. Very simple, you should be excellent, you should be worthy of love; Finally, remember to love yourself. If you fall in love with someone, just pay attention to each other wholeheartedly and forget yourself, you will eventually lose yourself and love. If the person you love doesn't love you, as long as you work hard, you should let go, not be a confidant. Why insist? After all, the feeling of love delights your heart and enriches your mind. Thank the person you love for bringing you happiness, and keep trying to find someone who can fall in love with you. This is the greatest ability to love. Second, we should have a correct view of love. Writer Hugo said: "there are two lives, the first time is on the day you have life;" The second time was on the day when love was born. "People will know themselves in love, improve themselves, develop themselves and surpass themselves. It is also very important to learn to protect themselves and protect their physical and mental health. Prevent unwanted pregnancy and actively prevent sexually transmitted diseases. Third, pain and love often go hand in hand. In the name of love, pain must be taught well. It is easy to be infatuated with love when you are young. When you see that the other person is yourself and completely integrated with the other person, you will feel a great sense of happiness. Although this is a beautiful realm, I am more likely to get hurt and feel pain because I am too involved. When two people fall in love again, after all, they are two different individuals, and it is likely that disputes will arise because of different concepts or misunderstandings, which will seriously lead to lovelorn. If you can learn to correctly handle disputes between lovers and deal with lovelorn love, it will be easier for you to come out if you encounter anything unsatisfactory in your later life. Four, the three elements of good love: morality, sincere love and common growth. The so-called moral first is that love is exclusive and the love of several boats is condemned. However, because of psychological immaturity, college students are sometimes easily attracted to other opposite sex and fall in love with several people at the same time. Then, the morality of love refers to the purity and selflessness of love, the pursuit of fame and fortune, and it is equally contemptible to regard love as a tool to satisfy certain desires. The so-called true love, love is the combination of sex and love, but sincerity and prudence are the premise of love. Only love without sex is incomplete; Sex without love is not true love. The so-called mutual growth, love is a selfless dedication and altruism; If you really love someone, you can't help wishing that you are cute and worthy of love. Love will give people the motivation to make progress. Fifth, pay attention to the process and give consideration to the results. It is a beautiful thing that campus love can blossom and bear fruit, but if the two parties in love break up for various reasons, they should also treat it correctly. Bacon said, "No truly great man is crazy about love. "Although love is beautiful, it is a personal feeling after all. Excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of people themselves. It is wise to treat love rationally.