2. At least have a few buddies to find the friendship you grew up with when you were young and frivolous. Whether it is drinking and singing, or traveling around the world; Whether it is the spring breeze or repeated defeats; When we are together, we often shake hands with our friends and draw strength from them. After breaking up, one day remember to find an old friend who has lost contact for a long time. When you face the battlefield, men's friendship is your solid backing.
3. I have loved at least once. Burning love may not last long, but it is enough to light up the future of a boy's life. Once true love, a man's shoulders began to become majestic, because only for what he likes can a man's best qualities be developed and become a person who can entrust capital. Some people say that love makes people weak, but true love makes people strong.
4. Experience at least one setback, learn to bear failure and learn to resist. A man's bar mitzvah has nothing to do with his 30th birthday-marcom suddenly understood this truth when he was hunting lions in Africa. At this time, he was shot by his wife, who had been afraid of losing him. Hemingway didn't tell us whether he was killed by mistake-but the important thing is that a man is not afraid of losing anything, and his husband is an intellectual man who keeps his promise and walks calmly in difficulties, turning it into a brilliant foreshadowing.
Make at least one plan and stick to it. If possible, experience a military life and strengthen self-discipline and sense of responsibility in the constraints; A man's planning ability and execution ability determine his probability of success. He is brave and good at achieving his goals. Men's ideal is concrete success in reality, and success seems to be a major feature of men today.
6. Praise your family at least once a day and thank them for running a happy family with you. If there is an opportunity, listen to the baby's first cry, let the child take you to the growth of a new era, and let you feel mature and childlike. I often go home to see my parents and chat with them. At least I care about my parents like a child. Visit your teacher and tell your love. Only love and gratitude can keep your happiness fresh.
7. Cultivate at least one personal hobby and experience another lifestyle besides work and family. Find a suitable entertainment and fitness method; Treasure a special item; Take part in a carnival and feel passion and wildness; Hiking in the wild, staying for a few days and listening to the sounds of nature; Buy some lottery tickets and try your luck. All hobbies tell you that life is not just step by step, and there are still many dreams that cannot be realized. Please restrain your arrogance and experience all aspects of colorful life.
8. At least apologize to the humanity you have hurt, even if you have to choose. Forgive at least once, and those who let you down have the last resort; Re-recognize your opponents and find excellent qualities worthy of your competition from them; Accept and cherish everything that life has given you, and if possible, make up for the shortcomings of life.
9. Indulge yourself in traveling at least once a year. The world is very big, no matter how successful you are, you may stay at the bottom of the well-expand your thinking in the vast sea and famous mountains and rivers: flying around, flying around, what am I like, just a sandpiper in the vast world! . Go to cultural sites and follow the footsteps of history: recite poems correctly and enjoy yourself; Hanging on the ancient battlefield to feel desolate and tragic; Jump into the big picture and pity others.
10. Write at least one little thing to record the ups and downs of growing up. Write a small autobiography and see how much you can write; Imagine the last moment of your life. If tomorrow comes, you can feel life and death. Write down your will and see if you have made proper arrangements for your life, and if you have unfinished wishes, do it now, because as a man, you must have the opportunity and ability to do what you want to do in this life!
This is to respect a man, especially a married man. What will happen to him if he loses his sense of responsibility? The result will be clear, he has no patience for work; Treat friends; He lost his sincerity; He doesn't love children; He lost his loyalty to his lover; He lost his filial piety to his parents. Such a result, such a mentality, will be terrible. Married men have no reason to refuse their sense of responsibility. A person who loses his sense of responsibility will also lose a clear sky and a colorful world.
Men's social identity is different from that of women, who are responsible for promoting men and men are responsible for promoting the world; Most women will naturally assume the responsibility for family, husband and children, which is out of maternity, while men are not. If you don't give him a sense of responsibility, they are likely to run very fast and can't catch them if they want to.
A man should have a sense of responsibility, first of all, he should have a sense of responsibility for his family. Regardless of ancient and modern times, Chinese and foreign countries, as men, without exception, they must bear the responsibility of supporting their families. Even if society progresses and men and women are equal, this will not change. After the problem of money is solved, there are still mental problems. If you have no sense of responsibility for your family, this family basically does not exist, even if it exists in form, it has long since died out in essence. Because a man who has no sense of responsibility for his family can do anything and find any excuse.
When a man decides to hold hands with his lover for life, he should secretly sign a contract with his lover in his heart, not for a long time, but for life! When you are young and embarrassed, she is the most delicate rose; This flower, because it loves you, gives you the brightest day and fully supports you; Now, you have got rid of naivety and developed; And flowers, however, have passed the most brilliant time and began to decline; At this time, please be kind to your woman; Because, in her heart, you are her past, her only, her all; Her hope, her love. Please be kind to your woman. Because marriage is not a child's play, we can't bet on feelings, let alone treat feelings as commodities in the free market. If we can casually abandon married couples and be willing to be dew couples with passers-by, what's the difference with animals? After being married to the person you love for more than ten years, looking back on the past days, we should say thank you to each other in our hearts, thank you for your mutual support and tolerance over the years, and thank you for the regrets left by each other, because there is no need for you to disguise and hide each other for so many years, and you have lived a real life. It is precisely because of these practical shortcomings that your emotional life has a fighting spirit, and fighting is the shadow of each other in every corner.
From a psychological point of view, men are rational and women are emotional. Once a woman falls in love with a person, there is no reason, but as a man, if he is the man in charge, he must be cautious about feelings. Don't hesitate to turn around for an affair. As the saying goes, it takes two hands to clap, so stop in time. Don't hesitate to turn away even if you are in tears. The reason why many people suffer is to indulge themselves a little bit and slowly sink in; Most men are manly and don't want to see people who love them cry. As a result, faced with two women and children, they couldn't stop. Why come to this!
Love is a kind of honesty and needs to pay a price. If you don't love or can't bear it, don't open your heart easily. Dull, seductive and lonely are not reasons to love others. There must be love in your heart, but please don't say and don't believe those descriptions in Qiong Yao's novels. There is no eternity in the world, but responsibility is the most important. Love before the age of 30 is true, but most people don't really grasp the ability, so you should learn to do what you can. Not much love, but good. You know, although there are more men than women in this society, women are actually more lonely and unbearable than men. You are appreciating, not belittling. Mature love is often better.
The so-called plaything weariness, men must not put too much energy on the relationship between men and women, especially extramarital affairs, otherwise you will have to pay back everything you overdraw in the future. A person must have hobbies, but he must distinguish between light and heavy. No matter what he has done, he should urge himself to find an opportunity to start being an upright person. A man must have a sense of responsibility, whether at work or in life. A responsible person can make others feel safe and make others feel that you are an upright person. Don't hurt the people who love you, especially the kind women who accompany you in the lush years, because there are not many kind women in this world, even if you don't want to have them, please keep her beautiful heart.
Don't envy those men who turn women into shoes, don't envy those men who take the wrong number of women to take part in accidental amusement, and don't concentrate on those so-called coquettish women who are good at dealing with men. Too many jokes make you waste time, energy and money. The most painful thing for a person is not that love can't find a foothold, but that there is no love in his heart. When you turn the words "I love you" into the easiest sentence you can say, it will be difficult for you to find true happiness in the world of love. Love is unfair. There is always one person who pays more than the other. Don't feel wronged, let alone feel elegant, no one can understand. Because you pay for the people who love you, but also for your own love. It is very valuable to pay for love, so learn to be proud of yourself. Because of your efforts, you have a home, or you have the crystallization of love, these are the results of both of you! You should know how to cherish it, it belongs to both of you, and this love can't be erased or changed in this life!
Let each other be innocent, even in a small corner. Not naive, but sometimes simplicity will make you happy. So don't be too picky and harsh, life is not perfect. Every couple in every family is like this.
A responsible man is a mature, steady and trustworthy man. He may not be rich, but he must be kind and considerate, dare to face any changes, and have his own discretion in grasping the world; He may not be good at words, but he must reveal his frankness between the lines; He may not be romantic, but he will hold his beloved in his arms when she cries, hold her hand in the dark, hold an umbrella for her in the rain, and put a coat with his body temperature on her in the cold wind; He may not be strong, but he definitely knows the responsibility that men should bear to support a warm world for relatives and friends; He can be affectionate, but never promiscuous. Everyone has worldly desires, love is gentle, like the sea, and never regrets; If you don't love, you will never drag your feet and make mistakes.
This is a man's responsibility.