1, lost the same freedom as before
Before marriage, women can go out with their girlfriends to taste delicious food and try on beautiful clothes from time to time, but after marriage, they should take care of their families seriously, take home as the main life track, and take care of everyone's life when facing the extra-large families around them. Get up early in the morning and go to work, and clean up the mess at home at night.
2. Lost the original living habits.
After marriage, facing my husband and his extended family, I used to like sleeping in and watching Korean dramas at home. I want to change my habits, leave my parents and bury my youth in my marriage.
3. Lost a friend
After you get married, you will find that your friends are getting fewer and fewer, and your former friends are gradually disappearing. You know those people in the husband's circle.
4, lost free and easy
It is natural that I have to work and take care of my family. My mother-in-law said a particularly funny thing: men are doing great things outside. Women are born to do housework. I don't think this kind of prejudice is a case.
You have lost your grace.
Before marriage, you can be an elegant princess, with thousands of pets in one. After marriage, a chicken feather can turn you into a bitch in a minute.
6. You have lost your hobby.
You can arrange your life according to your own preferences before marriage. After marriage, you should weigh the pros and cons according to the preferences of your husband and children. I often go to cafes and gyms before marriage, and go to children's playgrounds the most after marriage.
Over time, you will find that you are no longer yourself, but your wife and mother. You have to worry about your child's development and whether your husband will cheat, but your own thoughts are gone.
Couples who conceive in October, give birth to the future and teach their children day after day need patient education in the face of disobedient husbands and children. When they look back, they are only 40 years old, but they have already entered old age. A woman in marriage gives up everything she has accumulated and goes to a man's house. A man should not let her be a nanny, but should love her with his heart.