Husband has no other use except making money, and in-laws will only open their mouths and give orders.

Who doesn't know that it is hard to take care of children at home, and 24-hour rest is not respected.

No matter how tired you are at work, it will take eight hours. No matter how hard it is, it is also a job.

What is a child? It is a continuation of life, a piece of meat falling from the stomach.

When children need company most, bite your teeth and be a housewife and sacrifice yourself. I don't know if you will regret it later.

But if you stick to your work and let go of your children, you will regret it.

I mean you, but it's too wide.

Just resigned and took care of the children full-time at home. It has been ten years now.

Can't I work? Don't I want to work? Am I Mrs. Guo?

Neither!

Before I became a mother, I also worked very well. I used to have great ambitions and tried to do every job well. I'm just an ordinary family, and everything is on my own.

Excuse me, what's the difference between taking children, taking yourself and taking someone else's home (for example, going out to be a nanny and taking a new moon)?

The only difference is that it is paid to bring children to others, and it is free to bring children to yourself. In fact, it is still the same thing.

Is it because you earned a little salary and brought a baby back that your value is high?

That family saved a nanny's money and created value.

Between taking other people's children and taking my own children, I chose to take my own children. What's the matter?

You earn five or six thousand, save five or six thousand, and we're even.

Everyone has different views on education.

Some people think that children should grow up independently, so that they will not complain that their parents are too strict, and they will not look down on their mothers because they have no job.

Some people think that mothers going out to work can reduce the family burden, not only complete the staffing of an independent woman, but also save a lot of assets for their children.

Others think that children need more companionship, so that the parent-child relationship is more harmonious. Dad's job is more important and his income is higher, so let mom take care of the children. They think that even if there are no big assets left for children, love and spiritual food are their greatest wealth.

It's just different perceptions.

Some women, from nine to five, live in the same city as their husbands, and husband and wife can work at the same time. When their parents-in-law or parents retired to help with the baby, they began to worry about why others should take care of the baby at home.

Not every woman can find a nine-to-five job, not every woman will live in the same city as her husband, and not every woman has in-laws or parents to help with the children. Some husbands are doing very hard work, so tired that they are always worried about death. How can they have the strength and energy to take care of the children together?

There are also some women, their parents-in-law are at work and their husbands are at work. Everyone has a good income, and no one cares about the children. Why do people go to work?

A friend of mine, her husband's annual salary is hundreds of thousands, her father-in-law's annual salary is hundreds of thousands, and her mother-in-law's annual salary is hundreds of thousands. Why do you think people don't take their children? .

The same woman, the stay-at-home mother didn't accuse you of going out to work, but you took care of others and took care of the baby at home. If you study with this curiosity, maybe you can get more certificates and get a degree.

I feel that there are two kinds of treasure mothers who are willing to take care of their children at home. One kind is a treasure mother with superior family conditions and good economic conditions, who doesn't worry about money and doesn't want to work hard from nine to five. The other is that there is no one to take care of the children, and she is not at ease with letting her aunt spend money. No matter how much money she earns, she is forced to give up her job and take care of her children at home.

Our children, this year, my sister lives privately in the first grade and my sister is in the second grade. I used to go to work all the time, and my father was helping me pick up the children. Last year, my father felt overwhelmed and went back to his hometown when he was old. I also want to go to work all the time, but it's not realistic. Our class only has one day off every week, from 8 am to 5: 30 pm. My sister arrives at school at 8: 0015 in the morning and finishes school at 5: 00 in the afternoon. It's too late to pick up my sister now, and it will take about half an hour to go to work. My sister goes to church every week, finishes school at three o'clock on Friday or Saturday, and has to pick her up (my husband has a long business trip). Finally, I had to be a full-time nanny again and again. It is estimated that I will never go to work again, and I will gradually be out of touch with society. After all, at my age here, the average unit doesn't want 40+ housewives. So I envy those families who have in-laws or parents to help take care of their children. There are gains and losses. Now that I have enough time to spend with my children, I can finally participate in various school activities. I also have time to cook all kinds of delicious food for my children, and I don't have to look at the face of the leader. However, no one paid me [covering my face].

Because children are left unattended, housework is left unattended, and children are left unattended. In fact, housewives are the most tiring and worthless jobs. It's okay to meet a husband who can understand you, but if you don't understand him, you will eat him and use him. Many women have to find ways to make money, which makes them more tired!

Taking a baby full-time at home can also bring benefits, such as: Tik Tok, Aauto Quicker, etc. You can take part in activities and get benefits.

Is it a lot? There are so many rich people. Garbage problem

Tell me about me. I am a full-time nanny.

I was a left-behind child when I was a child, and I basically grew up with my grandparents, so I don't want my children to see their parents several times a year, just like I did when I was a child.

Because today's children are very expensive and education is very urgent, when the elderly can't bring them, they have to bring them themselves. Otherwise, they have spent a lot of money looking for a nanny, but who knows if they are looking for a person or a ghost?

Everyone has different reasons ... some young people think they are "comfortable" and are afraid that the old people will dislike all kinds of minor problems; There is also the nanny said on the internet now, which is even more worrying; Or the husband can earn enough; It is also possible that your income is not as high as that of a nanny, so just bring it yourself; Or maybe you just want to watch every detail of the baby's growth.