When and why did this change happen? I know very little about it. Later, I came home after a short holiday. When she went to visit me in other places after work because of my poor health, we accidentally slept together and chatted in the evening. I pieced together a general idea.
After attending the health school, she became a nurse directly. I talked about a boyfriend and a doctor in her clinic. Afraid of not being used to working meals, the doctor will make them at home in advance and bring them to the unit, and heat them in the microwave oven at noon and send them to her department.
Going back to the dormitory after work, you have to cross an alley opposite the hospital without street lights. There are not many people in that alley, and drunken people often pass by at night. Once she went back to rest after the night shift and met an old man at the other end of the alley. Usually I will notice him when I go in and out of the community and know that he is a resident of the same community. He leaned against the side of the road and looked as if he had fallen.
I wanted to help, and the old man spoke first: "Girl, give me a hand." At the same time, an aunt in her forties and fifties passed by.
She hesitated. "He is such a big man, I can't help him. Why do you only call me a person? And he won't say that he comes out at night to exercise, will he? "
She asked her aunt for help. Aunt left without looking back. A person is a little scared and afraid to go forward. She suggested that the old man hold the fitness equipment next to him and get up slowly. The old man kept going to help, but the girl found his eyes interesting and ran away in fear.
"This girl is so immoral!" In the dark, I only heard the old thief scolding her. She's not the only one passing by. Why is she immoral?
She called me and said that her legs were shaking when she ran back to the dormitory.
After hearing this, the doctor waited for her to get off work together every day and watched her go back to the dormitory until the light in the room came on. Strangely, they never saw the old man who fell down again.
I used to think that the elderly are vulnerable groups and often sing the horn of "respecting the elderly". Although I still believe that good people are the majority in the world, human nature is the most fragile, and I dare not bet her personal safety. It's not that people are unkind, but that good people are afraid.
The salary of doctors is much higher than that of nurses. Every time he gets paid, he will set aside a part of the subsidy for her as pocket money. When a woman needs him most, he is like a spring rain, timely and measured, and also like a spring breeze, gentle and nourishing her moving youth.
Through her story, I have a hunch that this is a godsend. The rest is a natural wedding, taking some forms. After getting married, they plan to resign from the clinic together, open their own private clinic and live a stable life of their own.
Later, I never thought of it again.
When taking her boyfriend home, her mother saw that the doctor was seven or eight years older than her, and felt that the age gap between them was too big, so she didn't nod her head in agreement with this love. Slap the doctor and throw the gift he brought out of the house.
I heard that the doctor didn't give up in the end, and tried again and again to no avail. Her mother kept her at home and wouldn't let her work or go out. For the sake of the doctor, she ran away from home in a rage, escaped halfway, and was caught up by her mother and beaten. What else has gone through here? I can't ask.
The ending was that the two broke up in discord. A match made in heaven makes a doomed love.
Rebellion against parents turns into fear of marriage and feelings. It was about that time that the seeds were planted in her heart.
In my impression, she will always be that young child and will never grow up. At home, she is always quiet and docile like a cat. Maybe she joined the work earlier than me, because the world is cold or worldly, and her mind is premature. She often enlightens me in human feelings like her sister, and she can spare no effort to help me in money.
She is such a person who is good at accepting change, so she can always avoid things skillfully, just like an antelope, and she is flexible.
She told me it was a long time ago. However, she couldn't help crying.
She said that she heard that he was urged by his parents to marry a girl who had not been dating for a long time. I heard that they will have a child soon. I heard that his clinic is still open. ...
For a long time, my QQ status was: "The world has never stopped, everything is ordinary." It is most suitable for use here. Once you miss something, it becomes a permanent loss. I am the most helpless and impressed when I can't get what I want, which makes all the people who turn around and look back cry.
That feeling became a hidden pain in her heart. She went wandering alone and didn't tell her family her regrets. It seems that only by going from one city to another and then waving to the four seas can people be freed from a kind of grief.
She finally met another boy of the same age who was willing to settle down and give enthusiasm. I'm not young now, and it's a little late to talk about marriage than my peers, and my mother is no longer picky. When they met, she never expressed her dissatisfaction verbally.
What I thought was going well was blocked at the bride price. She sent me a message saying that it doesn't matter whether she is married or not, and it doesn't matter where she goes.
Marriage is a matter agreed by both adult men and women, and there is no need or possibility for a third party to participate.
I talked about a boyfriend, and my mother said, "No, you are still young." Marriage can't be sloppy. "
At first, she never gave me a good look, but I was sensitive because of an unfriendly look close to someone. Quarrel, against my will, I went my own way, but I didn't fly with me in the end.
I'm over marriageable age, and my mother never calls without urging me.
It is said that my best friend Nana married the boyfriend she talked about in college, and now it will be the crystallization of their love. My mother has changed.
My mother said, "People only know one thing at school. Why don't you know? " You see, "for your own good" parents are so fickle.
My mother told me that you should not be too demanding, just about it. It's the same for anyone. Life is sloppy.
But I clearly remember that she taught me more than once that the other party should have a house and a car, a stable job, progress and hard work, and parents should not be unable to take care of their children when they are old. Besides, being tall (I really don't understand, what you should care about when you get married is not whether he is good enough for me, whether he is attentive to me, and what does it have to do with height? )。
Finally, I found out that I want to be simple and simple, and her requirements are higher than mine.
I really know that they want me to get married in order to make my life complete and meaningful in the traditional concept. The endurance I have cultivated through my strong will clearly reminds me to be calm and not to lose my temper.
Knead an innocent man and woman on the orders of parents and matchmakers, which is not graffiti; Blindly making an appointment to get old just because of impulse is not graffiti; Only if you don't get married, you'd rather have nothing and pursue the spirit * * * will you be accused of sloppy life.
If life is like a play, then marriage is a play in a play.
I heard that someone compared marriage to "a toad jumping into a well"-you can catch water, but you will never get out. Modern people are not so serious about marriage, but it can heat up quickly. Marriage is a complete joke. As usual, the beginning of the play is very sweet. How many of them were destroyed by daily necessities?
Qian Zhongshu wrote in Fortress Besieged: "People in the city want to escape, while people outside the city want to rush in."
Life is a ubiquitous "besieged city", leaving and leaving, leaving and ending, without the game, there will be eternal confusion and dilemma. Not only refers to Fang Hung-chien's marriage, but also refers to some sad factors in human nature, that is, dissatisfaction with his own situation.
However, in addition to real friendship, those who came to the wedding also came to punch in. It says "a hundred years of harmony and happiness", in fact, they paid for the theatre.
Does love have a happy ending? Simple, frugal, willing to live an ordinary life with each other, just simply accompany each other to get old and accept the appearance of getting old. Even if you are old and sloppy, you can still laugh and tell jokes.