Miss Wen/Wen

Some netizens said: 35+ female stars are the most timid people in the entertainment circle.

They dare not laugh, because they are worried that the wrinkles around their eyes are too obvious;

They dare not appear without makeup, and the photos must be exquisite;

They try their best to maintain and inject regularly, just to keep the so-called "girlish feeling". .....

However, for 45-year-old Ma Yili, it never seems to be a problem.

A few days ago, I accidentally saw a group of pictures of Ma Yili, which surprised me.

In the photo, she is dressed simply, and even the freckles on her face are clearly visible.

Plus, the angle of death selfie is from bottom to top, and I didn't react at that time:

Is this really Ma Yili?

I have to say that in recent years, Ma Yili has become more and more casual and self-released.

Impression, since the article derailed, Ma Yili's every move was put under a magnifying glass.

The media and people who eat melons are always obsessed with capturing the haggard and gloom after her marriage broke down from every gap.

However, two years have passed since their formal divorce, but Ma Yili has become more and more open.

She made several new plays, watched them, opened a studio and became a boss.

After returning to being single, she is more free and easy than ever.

And her confident smile seems to declare war on the world and her past self:

What is divorce? The second half of my life in Ma Yili has just begun!

In the eyes of many people, Ma Yili, like Luo Zijun, plays the script "A yellow-faced woman with a baby at home becomes a strong woman".

But, you know, she is not a charming little white flower.

But she is her own "big woman" from beginning to end.

1976, Ma Yili was born in an alley in Shanghai, and her parents are ordinary workers.

The poverty at home made her understand the hardships of life from an early age.

"It is better to take an umbrella yourself than to let others take an umbrella." The parents taught her the truth and made Ma Yili make up his mind:

"We must rely on our own efforts to lighten the family burden."

15 years old, while others are still playing coquetry under the umbrella of their parents, Ma Yili has stood on her own feet.

At that time, she was still in middle school and signed up for the variety dance team of Shanghai TV Station.

All the money earned from the performance was saved by her to pay for tuition and daily expenses.

The time spent in the dance team is an unforgettable memory for Ma Yili.

She not only danced for Aaron Kwok, one of the "Four Heavenly Kings", but also fell in love with acting.

Thus, a "literary" seed took root in Ma Yili's heart.

Ma Yili's road to performing arts can be described as "smooth sailing".

1993, Ma Yili, who is still in senior three, was selected by the director to star in the film Liu Haisu.

The following year, she was admitted to Shanghai Theatre Academy with excellent results.

Later, she starred in a series of movies and TV series, which not only achieved economic independence, but also became the economic pillar of her family.

Ma Yili is really known to the public because of that phenomenal costume-Princess Zhu Huan.

In 2002, Ma Yili played Wei Zi in Zhu Huan 3.

Ruby Lin's version of "Wei Zi" Zhu Yu is ahead, while Ma Yili's performance is far from "beyond".

But her gentle appearance and delicate acting skills have won her the love of many audiences.

With the fame brought by Wei Zi, she appeared in a series of TV series:

Jiang, who dares to love and hate in "Qiao Family Courtyard", is the partner of Chen Jianbin, an old opera player, and has not made a fool of himself.

She is a beautiful woman in "A Royal Guard". She has a miserable life and struggles all her life.

It is the fearless Mei Xiaoyao in "Seven Samurai";

Of all Ma Yili's works, my favorite is the TV series Struggle.

In Struggle, Charlene Marilynn Dangelo played by her is full of personality and stubborn pride.

A short hair is clean and neat, and everywhere he goes, he exudes an independent and confident atmosphere.

And her temper of "resolutely pursuing her love and preserving her dignity in love" has also touched countless audiences.

From 17 to 45 years old, Ma Yili played various women and contributed many classic roles:

Xia Wenxin, a female college student struggling in a vacuum love record, is a lover in a black hole;

Sun Fang, a humble nanny in Looking for You, and Luo Zijun, a fashionable divorced wife in My First Half of Life. ...

These women are different in appearance, temperament and education.

But Ma Yili's performance can make the audience ignore that they have the same face.

Let us see everyone's flesh and blood and human feelings, as well as the lines and textures left by life on them.

Unlike the smooth sailing, Ma Yili's love life is full of twists and turns.

She had a relationship with director Guan Hu, and the ending of the story was that Guan Hu married his best friend Liang Jing.

She and the article are also attached to the drama.

They met in "Royal Guards", fell in love in "Struggle" and got married in 2008.

Married that year, Ma Yili was 32 years old and the article was 24 years old. The outside world is not optimistic about this "sister-in-law love" with disparate conditions.

But regardless of the age gap and criticism, Ma Yili resolutely took the article by the hand and walked into the marriage hall.

Love is love, and she follows her own choice.

Later, their daughter was born.

The article nicknamed his daughter "Wen" and showed his love for her to the world in this way.

He satisfied Ma Yili's dream of love, while Ma Yili helped the article start the spring of his career.

The article once said:

"I never felt very awesome. The best thing in my life is that my woman's name is Ma Yili. " .

"No one in the world loves Ma Yili more than I do."

However, less than five years after saying this, the article took Yao Di's hand when Ma Yili was pregnant.

Those sweet words that I once said turned into a slap in the face, and I slapped them hard in my face.

On March 20 14, the article and Yao Di's extramarital affairs were exposed by the media.

This scandal that shocked the whole entertainment circle cast a thick shadow over Ma Yili and Wen's marriage.

At that time, countless people were waiting for them to come to an end with the mentality of eating melons.

But no one expected that Ma Yili chose to forgive and ended the matter with 13:

"Although love is easy, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished."

At that time, some people lamented their misfortune and others were angry.

Even many people think that Ma Yili looks strong, but she is still a little woman who bears the burden of humiliation.

Even her phrase "Do it well and cherish it" was passed down as a laughing stock and became a hot word on the Internet for a time.

To tell the truth, even now, I still admire Ma Yili's strong heart.

No matter how complicated her forgiveness was, her actions and choices left enough feelings for her family.

After the "see you on monday" incident, Ma Yili and the article lived in peace for five years.

However, when everyone thought that the relationship was over and the two began to live a long life.

On July 20 19, Ma Yili announced the news of divorce without warning.

"In the future, every student will be happy" makes many people unable to understand:

Obviously, I have chosen to forgive. Why are you divorced now?

But Maili said:

"Women don't live to please others. I hope you live for yourself.

Everyone has only one chance to love, struggle and make mistakes bravely in the first half of his life, but please remember that he must grow up! "

This is Ma Yili.

From marriage to divorce, she has never been influenced by other people's opinions. All her choices are just "I like it".

This time, she chose divorce, that is, she found the best and most wanted lifestyle for the rest of her life.

Ma Yili once said in an interview without hesitation:

"I hate the role of crape myrtle, and even hate it.

Although she is gentle and traditional, her whole world revolves around men, which I can't do. "

That's true.

After the relationship with the article broke down, she didn't feel sorry for herself like a "dissatisfied wife" and didn't rush to find the next one.

Instead, I put all my energy into my career and life.

She started shooting all the time.

In the first half of my life, in the distance, I searched for you, explored the beauty of cheongsam and blossomed in Shanghai. ....

Among them, Sebrina's Finding You won the Huading Award for Best Actress.

In the 24th Magnolia Award, she beat Yolanda, Sun Li, Hao Lei and others and won the title of Queen in one fell swoop.

When not filming, she stays at home and is an ordinary Shanghai mother.

Go to dance school with your daughter and grow up with your children.

In her spare time, she will try to loosen the clockwork by herself.

Grow flowers, watch the clouds on the balcony, call a friend, eat on the street and enjoy life.

She became more self-disciplined, began to exercise and began to learn boxing.

She opened a studio, became a boss, and did not forget to participate in various public welfare undertakings.

While being strong, we will continue to use our own strength to infect and help more people.

Of course, as powerful as Ma Yili, there will be times when it is fragile.

20 19, 43-year-old Ma Yili posted on the internet that she was in a bad state after divorce.

She said:

Today's Ma Yili is the one who is willing to face the truth and forge ahead at any stage of his career and life.

She once said:

So in the round table school, facing Tao's question, "When do you think the golden age of women is?" .

She can confidently say: "40+"

Ma Yili is 45 this year.

At the age of 45, she bid farewell to her unhappy marriage in a plain and dignified way and started the rest of her life in her favorite posture.

At the age of 45, she did not have a midlife crisis, but lived more thoroughly and clearly.

She has experienced a lot before she has a better understanding of life.

Only in this way can we play the woman who started her life again after a marital accident in My First Half of Life.

With more experience, I have more expectations for the future.

Only in this way can we release more powerful and mature energy in our works.

After much experience, I became more independent, and let us see her now and the beauty of firmness and confidence in her bones.

Go to water poverty, and then sit and watch Yun Qi.

More and more powerful and independent;

Live for yourself forever, and you can always live to be the truest and most powerful yourself.

* Author: Miss Slow _Gloria, slow time columnist, atypical post-95 Sagittarius. I want to travel around the world with my camera, and I also want to take my dog to live in seclusion in the mountains. I like eating, playing and chatting. It's my pleasure that the words are liked by you.