Many women in China have foreign boyfriends, but only a few men in China have foreign girlfriends. American women believe that this phenomenon is because China men are not interested in foreign women or China men, and China needs a sense of control, while foreign women are not as easily controlled as China women.
The general impression that China men give American women is that China men are quiet and shy, not as crazy as western men. It seems that men in China lack experience in dealing with women, and even less exercise.
China men are more serious, while American men pay more attention to body image. China people are too diligent. Apart from work, China people don't seem to know what the meaning of life is, and they don't know how to have fun in their leisure time. Some American men think that China men are less attractive than them, mainly because they are not as big as American men.
According to statistics, an American woman has 300 chances to see what a woman should look like on TV, magazines, newspapers and so on every day. One of the characteristics of this is that women should be passive.
American women believe that inexperienced women are less likely to find men in China. On the contrary, women who have been to many places and made many different boyfriends and are experienced are more likely to accept men from China. Because women have experienced a lot, they know that race, physical differences and so on are not important to men. , but character.
China men who are honest, energetic, positive, kind, intelligent and funny are easily attracted by American women. Not all women value money, but some women do like money, and rich men are more popular.
On the streets of the United States, women with oriental faces and men with western faces can often be seen holding hands, but men with oriental faces and women with western faces can rarely be seen holding hands. For this phenomenon, the common voice in China is: American women despise China men. And the real voice given by American women, in fact, the evaluation of China men is not so unbearable. At the same time, also find out some common faults of China men, such as:
First, most men in China don't like sports in their spare time.
In their leisure time, most men in China usually like four people to get together to play mahjong and three people to fight the landlord, while American men like outdoor sports. Because of this, muscular tough guys can be seen everywhere on the streets of the United States, while the most common men on the streets of China are either as fat as bears or as thin as monkeys. American men follow the principle that life lies in exercise, while China men follow the principle that life lies in laziness. In fact, sometimes men in China should not be blamed for this, because the great pressure of work and survival makes men in China have to lose too much leisure time. With the worship of money, more men in China are very interested in all kinds of games involving money. China people's understanding of fitness is equivalent to losing weight, because when I go to the gym several times, I always hear the voice: You are not fat, why do you go to the gym?
Second, most men in China would rather miss the strange woman they like than take the initiative to strike up a conversation.
Men in China are very reserved. In the face of women who fall in love at first sight, they would rather miss it than take the initiative to strike up a conversation. Even some men are more open and bold. When chatting up strange women, they either roll their eyes, or they are called crazy, or they are labeled as hooligans. In this way, it is not that China men are not brave enough, but that China culture is full of implications, which has been experienced by generations of China people. Countless affairs or rotten peaches are missed in China every day. There is no need to judge whether this yearning is right or wrong, because China people still believe in fate in their emotional world. In the face of a mistake, China people will comfort themselves like this: what is given to me will come sooner or later, not mine. What's wrong with missing? It also stems from the fact that China people are more emotional and don't give up casually, so they dare not love casually.
Third, China people work too hard and have lost the joy of life.
People in China are crazy about money, so people in China have to be workaholics. Workaholics give people the impression that they can do great things in their daily lives. Because of this, men in China often use excuses such as "I'm working overtime" and "I'm in a meeting" when facing their wives. Women in China are usually convinced of these excuses, which shows how popular "overtime" and "meetings" are in China. It's not that China people love work so much, but that bad work means no good life. China people who are so busy may never be able to afford a house in the city where they work and live, while China people who are not busy may just be wishful thinking about housing. I would like to ask: If the housing prices in China can return to a reasonable area, I believe people in China will also love to enjoy life.
Most men in China lack humor and pay little attention to their own image.
Most men in China will remain very serious when they speak, even so serious that when others chat with themselves with humorous words, they will take jokes seriously. Everything has become because of the repression of teachers and parents since childhood. But men in China like to lie most, not because they don't want to be honest, but because honesty in many things can't be praised or understood or forgiven, so they can only please each other with lies first. In addition, men in China don't care much about external beauty, and think that external beauty is a bit sissy, while men in China advocate changing their image with money and social status. So men who don't wash their faces, comb their hair and brush their teeth in China can be seen everywhere. Even some successful men don't pay attention to taste in clothes. The so-called taste basically stays in the pursuit of the brand, regardless of whether it conforms to one's own temperament.