On the morning of June 65438+1October 1 1, it was suspected that Hao Yun's wife sent a long article on the Internet accusing Hao Yunjia of violence: This is the fifth time you attacked me! In front of the children again!

Since then, Hao Yun's family violence has been made public. Hao Yun responded to this matter at 65438+ 10/2.

Hao Yun directly admitted the domestic violence, saying that they were fighting for the custody of their children, and some quarrels broke out in the middle, but they didn't hurt their wives.

12 On the same day, Hao Yun's wife wrote an article in Weibo to refute Hao Yun and revealed that Hao Yun was not only a domestic abuser, but also a recidivist. This is his second marriage, and his ex-wife was abused by him.

Thus, the fact that Hao Yun betrayed his marriage was revealed.

Hao Yun was immediately labeled as a "domestic violence man" and "love rat", and there was a lot of abuse on the Internet.

On the afternoon of 13, Hao Yun sent a lawyer's letter to deal with this problem. As the saying goes, "a straight body is not afraid of a crooked shadow." Hao Yunfa Weibo said: "Silence does not mean confession."

And Hao Yun's agent, on the night of 13, responded to Hao Yun's family's violent betrayal of marriage. The agent said that there was no domestic violence in Hao Yun, only "abuse".

It is said that in another fierce struggle, his wife injured Hao Yun's left ear.

The reason for the struggle is that Hao Yun's wife betrayed her marriage and stayed with the fitness instructor many times. Hao Yun was found holding a screenshot of his wife's mobile phone to leave a certificate, and there was an argument. Subsequently, Hao Yun's agent exposed the screenshot of Hao Yun's wife chatting with the fitness instructor, which was unsightly.

Once love turns against you, it is so unbearable. Just like Dangdang, which has been making a lot of noise on the Internet not long ago, they are ruthless and expose each other's sins, as if the other party is the biggest enemy in this life.

In the end, such a farce is the best of both worlds. Why bother?

They are all people who once loved each other. When they don't love each other, why don't they quit with face? Blessing each other is a good way for everyone and the best maintenance for children, isn't it?

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In fact, in this marriage that is about to be completed, the child should be the most injured.

When Hao Yun's wife accused the father of domestic violence, she also sent a photo of the child sitting in the police room. Children are still young and may not understand why their parents are like this.

However, when he grows up, he will see this information. How should he face it? My parents are people who betray their marriage, and my life has become gloomy since then.

I remember watching a movie "Kill" before, which tells the love story of the butcher's son and the pianist.

Jiang Yuee, a beautiful girl in a small town, came across Li Kun after experiencing emotional failure, and they fell in love at first sight.

Later, Li Kun Jr. and Jiang Yuee got married in a flash and gave birth to their son Xiao Lei. There are still problems in married life.

There was an irreparable emotional rift between the two. Li Kun Jr. suspected his wife's various behaviors, and Jiang Yuee also confessed serious premarital secrets to her husband.

After Xiao confirmed that his wife had betrayed his marriage, the two also decided to divorce. In order to seize the custody of the child, the two men fought in court.

In court, Jiang Yuee claimed that the child was not a little child's own flesh and blood, and asked for DNA paternity. Wang Xiaojuan, who knew the whole story, found little Li Kun and told her the truth about the birth of the child.

After learning the truth, Li Kun Jr. was seriously stimulated. He went back to his hometown and took out his ancestral pig killing knife.

In the film, Li Kun Jr. was deeply influenced by the shadow of his childhood, and the brand of family background grew in his heart. Although he is tall and handsome, he married a beautiful girl and thought he was a face-saving person.

However, when he knew that the child was not his own, he could not help but have the seeds of hatred.

Of course, the film didn't end in death, and men learned to let go and grow up in the process of entanglement.

Therefore, even if marriage can no longer be maintained, even if there is no love, we can't hurt each other.

Think about children, think about the past, please choose to leave with face.

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The original intention of marriage is love and obligation. When love is diluted by years, it will be maintained by obligations. If all this fails, marriage will still be a long cold war. Fighting and betraying marriage are serious injuries to the body and body.

A reader once left me a message saying that when she married her ex-husband, her ex-husband said countless words of vows of eternal love to her, but both of them knew in their hearts that marriage needs two people to work together to continue.

As they feared, married life is not as simple as they casually said. When they began to quarrel about the daily necessities and vinegar tea, they suddenly found that apart from hating each other, it seemed that there was not much affection at one time.

At that time, the reader didn't understand. At the beginning, the person who told me so many vows of eternal love, how could it change after saying it?

When they fell into an argument again, her ex-husband informed her that not only he had changed, but even the readers had changed imperceptibly.

Her ex-husband said, "You become unreasonable and unreasonable. You once lost that clever and naive girl. "

When this sentence is finished, the reader falls down on the sofa, with tears streaming down his face. After their emotions calmed down, they ended their marriage by war.

If there is only mutual control, mutual complaint and mutual pain in marriage, once you have been jealous of me, you will become enemies who kill each other at ordinary times, and a noble marriage separated by love will become an embarrassing battlefield, then choose to separate.

Since I don't think it is necessary to insist, no matter ordinary people or glamorous celebrities, they are all ordinary people in the end, aren't they? Every ordinary person with feelings will face different emotional entanglements.

Therefore, it is not a shameful thing to end the unpleasant past.

Every marriage has its own story.

As bystanders, everyone in Hao Yun's "reversal farce" has the mentality of "not watching too much".

Anyway, I still hope that this farce can end peacefully in war and leave each other with the last face.