No matter what it is, it must be that when you get along with you, you let the other person down on something. She really couldn't stand some of your actions, so she left you. Just like Han Yuan, he was busy with his work and ignored his girlfriend's feelings, so he broke up.
So after breaking up, you must think clearly about why the other party left you, why you didn't do well enough, and what problems you have when you get along. After all these are thought clearly, you can sincerely reflect on your mistakes with the other party and propose how to correct them in the future, so that the other party can be moved by your sincerity and come back to you.
2. Make an appointment with the other person once, sincerely apologize to her, and let the other person give herself another chance to be nice to her.
Some people do not want to be separated from each other after breaking up, so they will take some extreme measures, such as stalking or threatening each other with some words. It's no use doing so. In fact, you don't need to appear in front of her again and again. You only need to ask each other out once and sincerely apologize to her.
If you sincerely ask her to give yourself another chance, I believe that as long as she still has you in her heart, she will eventually be soft-hearted under your true feelings. In fact, many times, couples choose to leave, not because she doesn't love you, but because of your attitude towards her and accidentally hurt her.
3. impress the other person with your practical actions, not just talk about it.
My friend Xiao Wu once successfully saved his girlfriend's heart after breaking up, but just a few days after reconciliation, her girlfriend broke up with him again, saying that this time it was a real breakup and she would never look back. The reason is that Xiao Wu said something to her face and didn't put it into action afterwards. His girlfriend couldn't see any change in him and was completely disappointed with him.
In fact, after breaking up, in addition to facing each other's mistakes, say something nice to her, and the most important thing is to make them feel that you are changing for her. For example, if you say that you will lose contact with the close opposite sex, don't say it directly, but pull them out in front of each other. Only in this way can she really feel that you really want to correct your mistakes and make her want to change her mind.
4. Don't take it back by force.
In the face of your separation, don't force it back. It doesn't make any sense. If you insist on doing this, I can only say that you can only drift away. Also, some people talk endlessly, even crying and asking each other why and why they separated. In fact, do you think asking such a question will get a real answer?
This will give each other more pressure and resentment, and this attitude will also give you a heavy blow to your mind! "Give up and save", then the other party will think that you are not a threat, and at the same time, it can also make the other party form a psychological gap. If you cooperate with the self-improvement of secondary attraction, it will also make the other person regain curiosity and interest in you.
Step 5 change yourself
If you want to keep someone, you can change yourself first, but this change will only be seen by him when you think you are big. When you let him feel your unique charm, you save a person. For example, sometimes you will arrange a surprise that you have carefully prepared. There are only two of you here. If you keep everything in your heart, then you will keep such people.