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What should I do after being blacked out by a girl?
If you want to make up for being hacked by a girl, the first step is to give her a brand-new impression. Recovery must begin with repairing the image.

Show a brand-new impression-psychological construction

1. You should reflect on your mistakes, especially your mentality. Don't be so easy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, learn to control your emotions, or you will still show a confident image. Even if you can start over with her, she will look down on you.

2. How to enrich your life instead of thinking about how to please her and kneel down. Find a skilled barber to get a handsome hairstyle, get together with different friends, enjoy all kinds of food, go to some interesting places to play, exercise and build up, and sign up for a vocational skills training class. What really attracts girls is not self-confident flattery, but your own charm and lifestyle. Different displays have different attractions for women.

Show a brand-new impression-action power

1. You can take the initiative to add her back, such as sending her a text message (if you don't have a mobile phone number, you can ask her friends or colleagues), hoping to be friends with her. You don't want to lie on her blacklist all the time and feel like a sinner. Now that I think about it, I was too naive to respect you. Now I hope to get your understanding.

2. Make a chance encounter and then talk to her as a friend. If she is willing to chat with you warmly, you can talk more. If her attitude is average or even cold, just be a little better, just exchange a few pleasantries and ignore her.

The key to repairing the relationship is to give her a new impression. No matter in image or mentality, when her impression of you changes, you can break the ice again, you can cultivate comfort with her again, gain her trust, and then find an opportunity to ask her out alone and treat her as a new girl.