I believe that people can be changed. If you want to change others, you must first try to change yourself. Don't always think that a leopard cannot change his spots. Sometimes, as long as you have confidence, people can change. Maybe it's for friendship, maybe it's for love, maybe it's for family. Look at others with a developmental eye. Especially for people who love each other. Maybe you can't tolerate some mistakes of the other party. If you love each other, give him a chance to change. However, while strictly demanding the other party, we should also be strict with ourselves and correct some shortcomings that the other party cannot tolerate. Never be strict with others, but be tolerant of yourself. Doing so will make the other party sad and disappointed.

Be convinced that any pain and adversity are meaningful and try to find out their meaning. The pain you are suffering now is not meaningless. Life is unhappy, nine times out of ten. It is inevitable that people will encounter a lot of pain in their lives. Pain can make people decadent, but also stimulate people's fighting spirit. Pain tempered people's will, so that people will not be easily defeated by difficulties.

Without seeking perfection, part of beauty is beauty. Pursuing a perfect life is everyone's dream. But does this perfection really exist? We spent our whole lives pursuing that perfect moment. Is it worth it? Everyone has shortcomings, and everything will have shortcomings. Look at people and things and see the bright side first. If you think this person is worth paying, I promise you that I can tolerate each other's shortcomings. Don't always stare at the ugly side, so you will never find happiness and never have a good mood.

If something makes you unhappy, then you should try it bravely. Even if you fail, you will know the result, just like confessing to a girl you secretly love. Even if someone refuses, you won't feel sorry.