A family of three went shopping and came across an outdoor rock climbing venue. Bobby gave it a try and thought it was ok, so he signed up for a class to continue his study. Two years later, I accidentally posted a rock climbing video of Bobby on the video platform. So many people like to watch it, so keep shooting. During the epidemic, he accidentally enrolled in a basic programming class, but Bobby found something he liked, so he continued to work hard. Every accident accurately captured Bobby's interest.
Bobby's education is more like a good result of many accidental events.
9-year-old Bobby has nearly 300W fans on the whole network. The video content is mainly the picture of his rock climbing, and his movements are clean and neat, which is called "Mount Tai" by netizens. With the growth of age, Bobby has a little psychological rejection of shooting videos, and many of his father's shooting can only be "black-box operation".
"If one day he really doesn't want to shoot, maybe we will stop." Bobby's father said that he would fully respect the wishes of his children in the future.
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2019165438+1October 24th, my father posted the first video on Tik Tok with the account of "Brave Bobby": Seven-year-old Bobby took part in a rock climbing competition and threw himself in his father's arms crying because he didn't get the ranking. This is the first time that Bobby's father found his children so competitive.
This is also the second year for Bobby to learn rock climbing. After accidentally touching rock climbing outside the mall, Bobby basically takes two and a half days off to practice in the club every weekend. High-intensity exercise is a bit cruel for children of several years old. Every time Bobby doesn't want to train, "we will encourage him and sometimes give him a symbolic reward with material."
Before the outbreak, the best prize he won was the third place in the speed of the fifth National Junior Rock Climbing Championship. Bobby's father put all these certificates in the club. He is not sure whether they have been saved on the computer at home.
The reason for their success is that they never wanted Bobby to follow the path of an athlete. Learning rock climbing is only to cultivate a sport that can be adhered to. Participating in the competition is more about helping children set learning goals and avoiding self-entertaining learning.
During the epidemic, the club was closed and there was no place to practice rock climbing. Bobby's father dug up the "family climbing equipment" he had already bought and turned his own 15 square meter gym into a simple climbing room.
In the early stage, I just installed a climbing board hanging on the wall, which belongs to the mini climbing wall. Now the three walls presented in the video are all equipped, and they are all slightly improved later. The coat was designed and customized by Bobby's father. "Every family's room structure is different. In the actual production process, we must plan the route according to our own specific conditions. " Judging from the use, he feels that it will not have a great impact on the wall. In his opinion, it's just a few holes. I don't want to use it in the future, just change the wallpaper.
In a simple climbing room, Bobby climbs once a week. Judging from the video recorded by dad, Bobby is super familiar with the route, and the difficulty is almost zero, but he still enjoys the happiness brought by sports happily.
Now, Bobby has learned another sport at the same time-swimming. "Children's sports should not stick to any form. As long as children want to learn, they can and should be allowed to try." Bobby's father hopes that the children can keep exercising in the future, because all the efforts made at this stage will be presented at some point in the future.
At the Tokyo Olympics, rock climbing was listed as a competition for the first time. Lucky arrival, bobby. At the age of 9, he was selected by the Aauto Quicker platform to shoot the poster of "Helping the Olympics". His photos were broadcast in eight cities across the country. "We are very happy and proud." Dad Bobby thinks it is very meaningful to cheer for the China Olympic athletes.
Shooting in Beijing, the promotional film needs some performance scenes, and there will be quick emotional changes such as laughing and crying. This is not what Bobby is good at, so he needs constant guidance when shooting. "But we look very happy." Bobby's father hopes to broaden his horizons through these opportunities, and also give him the opportunity to contact different industries and people, providing more possibilities for future choices.
"He is not very good at acting in front of the camera." Bobby's father discovered this very early, because Bobby was unwilling to cooperate when shooting at home, and the videos posted on the platform were basically operated quietly. Therefore, 90% of the video content is rock climbing, and most of them are based on the back, only occasionally interspersed with a few Bobby's daily life.
Bobby's father said that these accounts don't make money, and it is more meaningful to share the record of Bobby's growth. Before June 19, 2020, Bobby's father's circle of friends shared his daily life, and then the links of various video platforms occupied all.
All video accounts are maintained by Bobby's father, and Bobby basically doesn't know the traffic he owns. At school, sometimes classmates will say, "So you have so many fans." Bobby's state is no feeling. In his opinion, he is just an ordinary child. Making videos and fans are all adult things, and Bobby is largely a passive participant.
Regarding whether to continue shooting videos in the future, Bobby's father said that he fully respected Bobby's wishes. Moreover, they are more inclined to learn from Bobby, and they may continue to participate in some meaningful activities.
Bobby in the video is a small climber, and his flying speed is full of infinite vitality. Bobby in life is a quiet little boy who doesn't talk much, giving people the impression that he is more inclined to be an indifferent boy.
Rock climbing consumes bobby's unlimited physical strength, and the programming has the function of returning blood. Bobby's father doesn't understand why his son likes programming so much, and he doesn't have any relatives or friends who work in this field. During the epidemic, Bobby learned elementary programming online, which was his first contact with programming, and he became very interested. Now, Bobby's parents have signed him up to continue his studies after work. Every time he learns programming knowledge, Bobby can stay still for an hour and concentrate highly. In the process of studying, Bobby's parents will try not to disturb him and keep him absolutely focused.
"We didn't deliberately cultivate his concentration. It felt like a chain effect brought by learning rock climbing." Bobby's father said that every climbing training needs to maintain a high degree of concentration, because in the process of climbing, it is necessary to mobilize hands, feet and eyes to cooperate with each other, and a little distraction will slow down the speed.
In a recent 1 hour interview, Bobby's father stressed: "We must cultivate a sport for our children to keep him going. This is a matter of great interest. "
For Bobby's education, his parents' status will be more Buddhist. When the school doesn't provide after-school delay service, Bobby reads books, plays with building blocks and goes to bed every day when he comes home.
Bobby is a super self-disciplined child, and his academic performance ranks high in the class. "The only way for our family is to encourage education." Before the implementation of the double reduction policy, Bobby's father enrolled Bobby in Olympic Mathematics and English classes. After the double reduction policy, the school will be hosted until 17: 30 every day. Bobby's father is very happy. The children can check and fill in the blank of the day's study at school, and the teacher can help them, avoiding the trouble of "torturing" their parents at home.
"I don't have any special requirements. I just hope he can go to the best junior high school here. " Bobby's father seems to have a firm goal behind the Buddhist system. "If Bobby's performance continues like this, there is still some hope."
When children's self-awareness is not strong, parents can help arrange some things. Parents should respect their children's wishes when they are independent, able to judge right and wrong rationally and like it or not. Bobby's father has goals and respect in Bobby's growth, and children and parents can finally complement each other.
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