Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?
Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.
If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?
Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.
Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.
If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.
Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!
By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.
First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)
1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.
The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.
M thinks you are a self-motivated person.
Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible.
Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.
It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
Not too formal, but not too casual.
Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.
Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.
Step 4 look mature
A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.
Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)
1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.
Chasing people.
Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (
Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.
Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.
Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to do something, the girl must have psychology.
Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start with ambition,
When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.
Step 2 start with a low profile
First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.
You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. Anyway, don't say "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then this girl won't have a chance to "refuse" you-why don't you go after her?
Reject you? !
This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to get married after three days of knowing each other
Give you full contact and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.
Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.
Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. I have a good friend who told me to chase girls.
The key to children is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).
Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.
Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.
4. Create opportunities appropriately.
I said before, don't let things turn into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get a chance to get close to girls. this is
It depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and try to turn the waiting rabbit into a chance encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find out the most suitable one.
Invite the other person to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.
5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.
Some people are eager to chase girls and like to give things to others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.
As the saying goes, "you get something for nothing", you are putting pressure on others by giving something like this, and others will feel indebted to you, so they will.
Find a way to repay you If you can't, find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you a favor.
If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive one.
Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people instead of.
Is to turn it into something to take home.
Third, what is a "girlfriend"?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.
You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good, talk about everything"
Friend ",on a sunny afternoon, you" accidentally "pulled her hand; "On the willow tip, you suddenly attack.
Kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.
friends.
I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious.
: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!"
So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend.
Only in this way can you express yourself to others and it will come naturally. Many people don't understand this problem and always think that people promise to be themselves first.
Girlfriend, and then what? What? I can only say.
He is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".
3. Have you ever had to confess?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.
At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky, similar to the severe backwardness when playing Go.
The other side was forced to release the "winner". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.
4. Don't export the word "love" easily.
I often see "bold confession". To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "love
"Is a sacred word, meaning pursuit, commitment, and even a responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.
1, not every MM can catch up.
There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you
Study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, so you can't catch up with either twin.
Look at the problem from another angle. A small rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school will earn you every month, even if she is good to you.
My gift () is willing to be a cow and a horse for you, and you won't fall in love with her. If she cries every day,
Listen, you must be bored.
So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.
2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.
Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MM are really snobbish (a few).
If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time" and never mistake others for yourself.
Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".
(Time: I just started to contact MM)
1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.
The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.
M thinks you are a self-motivated person.
Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future and you are not satisfied.
Be content with the status quo, and you will have long-term plans. In a word, your future is not a dream.
2. Be confident and responsible.
Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.
It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
Not too formal, but not too casual.
Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.
Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.
Step 4 look mature
A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.
Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)
1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.
Chasing people.
Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (
Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.
Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.
Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to do something, the girl must have psychology.
Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you start with ambition,
When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.
Step 2 start with a low profile
First of all, we should position the relationship as "friends", which is originally "ordinary friends"
About gift giving:
As long as it is sincere, it is the best!
Give her a day of meticulous care!
The truth is best seen in plain!
Let her feel the warmth you brought her in the cold winter!
I believe she will be moved by you!
Come on!
My answer is not necessarily accurate, I hope you will forgive me.
If you like a person, but you still can't make up your mind, is it a lack of opinion? Like a person, you don't have to love her. But the premise of loving someone is to like her. Love can easily be transformed into love, but it is difficult to say it after love; Because like is tolerant, and love is selfish. Like is a relaxed and indifferent state of mind, but love is too heavy; Once love is spoken, it becomes an oath and a promise. Love is a double-edged sword. If you pull it out, you will hurt others if you are not careful. Don't pull yourself out. People who have been hurt by love always have an unhealed wound in their hearts. On a moonlit night, you miss your friends far away. If there is only faint joy and warmth in my heart, it is like; If it still hurts, it's love blessing you: everything will be fine, and all shall be well.
What if we can't make up our minds? To tell the truth ~ ~ such a man is not very likable ~ ~ ~ hehe
You should know what you want ~ ~ There is never a perfect answer ~ ~ `Even if you experience some mistakes, it's a life experience ~ ~ Ask your heart before every decision ~ ~ ~
Make up one's mind (guess idioms) indecisive
I want to change careers, but I can't make up my mind. It's so tangled
1, do a line and love a line, and at the same time, you may change your views or expectations about your original job because of various "pressures" at work. Thereby generating boredom.
2. It's normal to be emotional. You're not the only one. It is difficult to find a job because of the fierce competition now. If you change your job or job, you have to start all over again. Even if you don't start over, you should work harder. Time, energy. . . It will consume more, and you may be bored again. . .
3, engaged in the automotive industry, sheet metal workers are originally high-paying jobs. Since I have been engaged for nearly a year, I must have a certain level and mastered some skills and methods. If you give up halfway to learn painting, it's not that you don't. It's just that you have thought that you can learn sheet metal skills first and then continue to engage in painting. . .
It is estimated that this is a matter of your personal mentality, and "all kinds of reasons" are just your excuses. For young people, especially men, you should be stronger and not be suppressed by anything, difficulties or life. In this way, how can you fulfill some responsibilities and obligations in your life, such as getting married and honoring your parents? . . . Let alone realize one's physiological dreams.
Think about it, spend more time with friends and adjust your mood. Or take a few days off to relax, and maybe you can return to normal work in a day or two. . .
The above contents are for reference only. . . Thank you. .
Good luck. . . . May all your wishes come true. . . !
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I'm so tangled that I can't make up my mind. I beg your help. It is reasonable to say that you are not suitable for raising children. Because your hearing is not very good, and your child cries at night, you will not develop at the first time. Personally, I suggest that you can leave your children at home and come back often in the future, or you can take over your mother-in-law and rent a bigger house to live with, so that you can take care of the expenses at home when you work. Your husband's money is commendable. You can often see children,
I'm starting to hate myself. I can't make up my mind about anything. I will repeatedly cultivate my ability to face and solve problems. Next time I encounter a problem, I will make a decisive choice, even if I am wrong. The important thing is that you have learned something from it.
People who can't make up their minds, or people who can't make up their minds, are not necessarily independent, depending on the specific situation. If they have been like this for a long time, they are independent.
Make up your mind.
staggering
I found myself walking in the direction of waste wood and couldn't make up my mind. I still love your age range, your living and working conditions. Let's talk about my experience: I've been on the road of waste wood before, and I know it's wrong, but I just don't know what else I can do or change. Even if I want to, I'm too lazy to carry it out. I put it off day by day until one day I am scolded and criticized. Although I still didn't have any clues to change the status quo at that time, I decided to start with fitness and get a fitness card to ensure my health. I also like to do equipment exercise to relieve stress and have time to think. Once again, I signed up for the training class I've always wanted to learn. Any hobby training class can keep me busy. Then I have friends I haven't contacted for a long time, and I plan to travel, relax and get in touch with new things outside.
You can also start with the little things you've always wanted to do but haven't done yet, take your time, do them one by one and set small goals one by one. The most important thing is that you can control yourself and be self-disciplined. This is also a habit that you gradually develop. After a long time, everything can become a habit, and then you will find that life is beautiful!