In fact, this kind of problem is most likely to be encountered when men and women meet at the beginning and have no emotional foundation, because she has no understanding and trust in you, let alone responsibility.

I think you who are reading this article have similar confusion, so today I will teach you three chat skills and ask her to call you back in seconds.

0 1

Control words and time

It means: don't let her say: a few words, but you typed several long strings.

Because: the number of words actually represents a hidden value, and the potential image given by a few words is that he/she is busy.

Busy is a valuable expression of being needed, rooted in the subconscious.

So when you knock a few strings, you are actually expressing a negative meaning: you are not busy at all, you are worthless.

The result is that she is valuable, you are not valuable, and the value is not equal, so naturally we can't talk about it.

So what should we do?

You need to strictly follow the following points:

1. Controls the number of words. You should try to keep no more than five words up and down.

2. Control times. If she replies to you, you must never reply.

02

Don't always ask questions.

Classic trilogy: Are you there? What are you doing? Do you have a minute?

If you play like this, not only will she not reply to you, but she will also find you annoying.

Because you ask a question, it is equivalent to throwing the next chat responsibility to the girl, and she will take the responsibility of answering the question next. This is actually a kind of pressure. Chatting with people at ordinary times is to release pressure and relax, and the result opposite you is naturally ignored.

Solution: Chat with girls and never ask questions.

You said you wouldn't ask questions, so how should we talk?

I'll teach you a new method called "State questioning method".

For example:

Question: What did you eat today?

Statement questioning method: You can smell the meat through the screen. Have you finished eating meat today (bad smile)?

Chatting in this way can not only get the answer, but also arouse her emotions, killing two birds with one stone!

Doing so can make the chat full of ups and downs and scenes, rather than a blunt question and answer, and girls are naturally willing to reply.

03

Learn to keep her appetite.

Just as you are impatient if she doesn't reply to you, you can wait for a few minutes and dozens of minutes without sending a message after she replies to you.

Example: (Continue the previous one)

She: How do you know? Today, I ate braised pork cooked by this girl herself.

You go out for a walk and wait for half an hour before you come back: I just went out for a run and saw a man and your back. It seems that I have adopted a positive attitude ... (Laughing and crying)

What are the benefits of this?

1. You kept her waiting for 30 minutes, which fully aroused her appetite.

2. Refused to answer her questions and kept her own framework.

You show your value through statements.

4. Another sentence aroused her curiosity.

Flexible use in all aspects of life, you can go to the gym or travel. And the purpose of doing this is to build trust with her. What girl talks too much to strangers?

Master the above three chatting skills, and you can get through the primary stage of getting to know each other. When you talk to each other more, get to know each other, your value is fully recognized in her heart, and mutual trust is established, this problem will gradually disappear.

That's all for today. If you want to learn more advanced skills, please go to the "Li Ge Love Guidance" content of WeChat official account to update ing~