It is said that women lack a sense of security. What is a sense of security? To some extent, security is a feeling and psychology that can be assured, relied on and trusted. It includes both spiritual and material aspects.

People usually have eight kinds of sense of security: emotion, physical safety, social relations, legal protection, stable income, social welfare, house and living environment.

Once something is missing, it will make people feel insecure, so if the other person is a character, will girls feel secure? Don't! They may also feel insecure because the other person has no deposit.

If you want to be a person who makes women feel safe: you must be in good shape, rich and infatuated, that is the overbearing president who lives in idol dramas.

So I think what you're trying to say is: Why don't girls like muscular men?

1. Aesthetic differences

Besides, everyone likes beautiful things. Of course, girls also like boys with figure, but they need to be within a certain range. If it exceeds this range, girls can't appreciate it.

Just like when you go to an art gallery to see a master's painting, you can't appreciate it at all. Because the aesthetic standards are not at the same level, the aesthetic standards for boys' fitness are super tough guys like Schwarzenegger and Stallone. The aesthetic standard of girls may be Eddie Peng Yuyan Yuyan's, wearing thin clothes and taking off flesh. (Ask which girl doesn't like Eddie Peng Yuyan Yuyan)

The better you practice, the more same-sex admirers you have!

2. The misunderstanding of muscular man

Because the thinking of men and women is too different, their views on one thing are also very different. Men think that their muscles are a symbol of charm, while women think that men are just muscular, lack emotional intelligence or are too violent.

Just like "women have long hair and short knowledge" and "big breasts and no brains", it is a personal subjective feeling and more of a misunderstanding.

Unless you have a chance to show your muscles to women, you can also show your humor and emotional intelligence. Well, congratulations. This woman will be fascinated by you.

You can't ask everyone to like it.

If someone likes something, someone will not like it. Not everyone likes it unless you are "money". So "why some girls don't like it" is completely normal.

Put yourself in the other's shoes: Beyonce's figure with big breasts and hips is obviously sexy. Why don't some boys like it? Or why not?

As long as someone likes it, someone appreciates it. Because among so many people, you only need to find that one. If everyone likes it, it is too selective.

I don't know if a muscular man can make girls feel safe, but what I know is that whether a man can make girls feel safe depends not on his appearance, but on his personality, which is related to his experience.

Only a person who is responsible, responsible and understands the sufferings of the world will know how to make a girl feel safe. The sense of security is not just talk, nor is it always waiting for her, but what you will do when she needs it, and you can't rest assured.

A man has muscles, but he is just a man who can only talk but not do practical things. Even if he has strong muscles, I don't think girls will like him.

Muscular men feel safe, but some girls don't like this kind of muscular man. My neighbor, Min Min, broke up with the muscular male PE teacher who had been chasing her for three years and married a gentle history teacher instead.

Min Min said that the PE teacher was in good health and muscular. Stand by and watch him. Thieves and robbers have never met. He is tall and safe. But he only likes sports and asks her to go to the movies. He will choose to watch martial arts movies and war movies, while Min Min is bored to death. Min Min doesn't like sports. He always said that Min Min was lazy. I have no feelings for this muscular man. Since knowing the new Sven history teacher, Min Min has found her lover. He often asks her to watch romantic, warm and romantic dramas. He knows that Min Min doesn't like sports, so he takes her for a walk every day. Walking with him after dusk, he will say some sweet words to make Min Min happy, which makes Min Min very happy. Slowly, Min Min's heart got help from Sven's history teacher. Soon I married Sven's history teacher. After marriage, it is also sweet.

Boys with full muscles do give girls a reliable feeling, but the feeling itself is illusory. Look at your eyes. If you don't look at your eyes, you can't look down.

Every girl's aesthetic standards are different. Some like muscular men, some like thin boys, some like handsome ones, and some like rough ones. In short, we cannot generalize.

For girls, a sense of security is really important, which is also one of their criteria. But this is just one of them. Finally, there are other points that make girls like you or dislike you. If the muscular man can't bring her more other advantages, then the probability that she likes you is really low.

And generally speaking, muscular men are generally big-chested and brainless, not that they have brain problems, but that their emotional intelligence is relatively low, and they don't understand girls' minds, let alone win girls' hearts.

As a boy, you can be unattractive or not very rich, but you must understand the inner activities of girls and learn how to talk about her and attract her. Girls are attracted, not chased.

However, many muscular men are empty but useless, and they always can't understand what a girl says and her true intentions. Emotional intelligence is terrible.

Girls nowadays are more realistic. She can't always give you a chance to get in touch with and understand her, but a muscular man can't always understand her. Girls will naturally dislike you.

With empty muscles, no emotional intelligence and no sense of humor, boys who are so boring should celebrate the New Year. It is better to let them leave early and find the next goal.

Why do women discriminate against muscular men now? Xiao Ao asked many female friends around him and summarized the following points:

One: too violent.

A friend told Xiaoao that boys who feel particularly muscular are prone to violence, and they will be particularly insecure with such boys and may be bullied at any time. Liv wants to say whether there is a tendency to violence, which has nothing to do with body shape, okay? In the gym, Leo often sees some gentlemen in suits go to the gym. Can you say that these people are violent?

Two: no sense of security

A friend said that the muscular man looks dangerous, and Xiao Ao agrees. When Xiao Ao sees a particularly strong person, he will have a little awe, but it is definitely not fear, but real respect. Because only fitness people know what they have paid. When you have been in contact with muscular men for a long time, you will find that they all have a delicate heart. After a long time, you will feel more secure because of their strength.

Three: "Too many things"

Most people's first impression of muscular men is that life will be particularly picky. If they don't eat this, eat that and drink this and that, they think it will be particularly troublesome to get along with muscular men. Actually, it's not. A person with a good figure has very strong self-control, but he won't make any demands on others. If you don't interfere with him, he won't interfere with you.

Fitness is responsible for your own health, and everyone's pursuit is different. Some people want to practice as much as possible, but in Xiao Ao's view, as long as they are healthy.

We shouldn't judge a book by its cover. People who don't exercise may never know how much pain and pressure a muscular man has to endure to achieve today's achievements. When we see muscular men, we should respect them and always remember that respect is mutual. You respect others, and others will respect you.

It's not that I don't like it, but how many muscular men are there? According to the proportion of the population, how many are at most one in a thousand? Can you find a muscular man? I have worked in a gym in Beijing for many years. There are 20 million people in Beijing, and there are at most more than 10,000 men with good figure. Walking on the street for a day, you can meet a few. How many people can you meet on this day?

IQ comes from the brain's thinking, numerology is extremely rich, you can climb stairs and climb towers, glory the world and live a happy life. Generally, muscular men have been people with low IQ since ancient times, as the saying goes (those with developed limbs have simple intelligence). Beauty lies not in muscular development, but in the sense of beauty suitable for women.

Because the sense of security does not come from muscles, but from the inner individual needs.

Your argument itself is problematic. Who told you that muscular men feel safe? In contemporary society, for most comrades, money can bring a sense of security. So your direction and idea are wrong.

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