But you, don't think so much, your friends don't know the answer, and neither do you. What's so strange? If your roommate doesn't blame your friend for not knowing the answer, he won't blame you for not knowing the answer. Therefore, there is no such thing as throwing a pot. I don't know the answer, and it's nobody's pot. If someone asks your roommate to ask your friend, your friend must know. If someone asks your friend to explain to your roommate, you must know.
In fact, I think you should adjust your mentality and not think so much about everything. I know you are afraid of society and introverted, but others are not as bad as you think. Don't walk into a dead end of anything unless you really take it personally. Take this matter for example! Actually, it seems quite normal to me. If you know, say you know; if you don't know, say you don't know. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Don't dwell on this kind of thing, or it will get stuck. Do you know what it means to be cheated by a friend?
I have a best friend who plays well. We have known each other for ten years. She used to work in Beijing. She resigned and went back to her hometown some time ago. She plans to work in Suzhou next year. She wants to use these months at home to keep fit and lose weight. She was originally dragged to help her as a consultant. As a result, the staff of the fitness center plausibly said that if we were together, there would be a discount. We will organize a group to go to fitness for half a year, and each person will pay 2400 yuan. Then my best friend urged me to go with her. I said I would think about it. We have an appointment 10 1 day to give the result when her maid of honor comes back. As a result, the day after the goods came back from the fitness center, I chatted with others on WeChat. The staff was also very cruel, and made a discount, saying that as long as we organized a group to exercise for three months, one person would receive 1200 and the other two would receive 2400. My best friend took a look. I was shocked to receive her WeChat. The goods even paid the money, saying that even my share was paid. Let me give her the money back later. Just say it's not a pit, right?
Actually, I really don't want to go to the gym. I always feel that I can't get through this hurdle in front of so many people. During that time, our family spent a lot of money and lent money to others. I really don't want to spend 1200 on projects that I'm not interested in, and I have to go to the hospital for regular review. Plus, it's winter and it's so cold outside, but she actually paid me all the money.
She said that when she came back as a bridesmaid, she would sign a contract with me and open a card. Because of this, I feel particularly stressed. 1 October1day When I went out to play with my husband, I was in a trance directly in the car, and suddenly I was in a trance. One minute we're talking and laughing, and the next, it's like this. I was suddenly in a trance when I was watching TV at home at night. I was in a trance twice in one day. The doctor said nothing, maybe I was under too much psychological pressure. There was nothing else during that time. You can imagine how stressed I was at that time.
What's more, just the day before we agreed to sign the contract to open the card, I finally got up the courage to tell her what I really thought. I realized that she lied to me that she paid for me just to force me to compromise and exercise with her. The reason she gave was that she wanted me to exercise for my health. She told me that she wanted to do more than 100. But no matter what she said, I couldn't go. In the end, I cried all over her. She said that she thought her friend was really upset because she was out of control. Obviously, at first, everything was under her control, but in the end, I suddenly lost control, and she couldn't stand the gap, so you see this is called a pit.
In fact, I am also the kind of person who sometimes has opinions about others, but doesn't say anything in his heart, but I don't think it's a good thing to wronged myself, so you don't need to dwell on this situation any more. When people ask you questions, just say you know, and give them some popular science. Just say you don't know if you don't know. No one is qualified to accuse you of not knowing. You got it?