"Now the circle of friends is getting more and more boring. Over and over again, just a few people send friends. "
"My college roommate's circle of friends, in addition to fitness, is fitness ..."
Another boy immediately to the fun, said:
"Do you always send photos of your own fitness?"
"I tell you, this kind of girl who likes to make friends is so lonely and sleepy."
"I always send my own fitness photos. At first glance, it is single dog, without the nourishment of men. "
"As long as you look for her for three consecutive days, you will be spoiled, you will be intimate, and you will win it in one fell swoop!"
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Serious girls never ask for a tutor.
A few years ago, Sun Li was scolded by netizens for posting a group of photos.
Once upon a time, Sun Li was very keen to share his life in Weibo, including photos of fitness activities.
Until one day, she sent some photos, and the personal trainer helped her stretch and help her do lifts. ...
As a result, Sun Li was ridiculed by netizens in all kinds of words. ...
Someone bluntly said, "I think this coach is having an affair with the empress."
Someone insinuated: "Brother Chao is really big-minded, so my wife is not jealous."
In everyone's eyes, Sun Li's photos committed "three sins":
First, good girls don't take private lessons.
Second, there must be something between a woman and a man.
Third, it is touching that girls themselves are mean.
Once a netizen was exercising in the gym, and a mother and daughter passed by.
The mother said to her daughter, "Girls should not be so stingy when they spend money to let others touch them for nothing."
In fact, the daily work of this private tutor is responsible for correcting Sun Li's wrong posture in sports and cooperating with her to complete some difficult training movements.
Sun Li never thought that an ordinary fitness photo of himself could make netizens make up a drama, and he was ridiculed by the group so miserably.
Since then, Sun Li has never shared his photos of fitness exercises in Weibo.
In the documentary "Slut Reputation Phobia", there is such an interview.
The director asked the man: A man has had sex with dozens of women. What do you think of him?
The interviewee said: I think he is very powerful.
Then, the director asked the men: What would you say if a woman had sex with dozens of men?
The answer of these people is: I think she is a slut.
These people and their double labels are particularly good at using the label "slut humiliation", which seems to be specially designed for women.
Perhaps, in the eyes of such people, what girls do is wrong, and being a woman is the original sin?
If you are a boy and have a tutor, they will say: Brother, a lot of happiness.
Once you are a woman and have a tutor, they will only say: You are a slut.
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It's your fault to wear less.
On the evening of September 18, 2065438, Miss Zhang, who lives in Wenzhou, had too many things to send to her hometown, so she called the courier to pick them up.
As a result, after opening the door for the courier, the courier touched her without saying a few words and sexually assaulted her.
When the courier quickly fled the scene, he saw Miss Zhang chasing downstairs. He also said: "I like you and I will be responsible for you!" "
At that time, there were many comments that ruined the three views under the news: "This girl earned it, don't be dissatisfied!"
Others said, "Flies don't bite seamless eggs!"
After the video of a woman being beaten up late at night in Dalian was exposed, there were still some people on the Internet who said chilling words!
"It takes two hands to make a sound", "It takes only one slap to make a sound" and "Sexy".
"In fact, I also want to do this, that is, I have a wicked heart and no thief courage."
All these remarks are full of contempt and disrespect for women.
Even today, the "victim guilt theory" is still the real idea in many people's hearts.
A few months ago, the wife of Zhao Douchun, a criminal in Su Yuan case, said in an interview: He is fine if he doesn't drink, only when he drinks.
As for the victim's family, she said: I don't care and I don't want to know.
In her opinion, everything is the fault of the wine, everything is the fault of the outside world, even the fault of the 8-year-old girl, but the husband is not wrong.
Did you find it? The wife's point of view is very similar to that of some netizens. The criminal's wrong behavior comes from the "outside" and even the victim.
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Some people are more like ghosts than monsters.
In India, a girl wore a short dark blue skirt, about to the middle of her thigh, and put on a ginger coat to go out.
I was humiliated by an aunt I didn't know. "It's a shame to show your thighs." "Women are raped because of women like you."
Finally, the aunt turned her head and said to seven male customers who were dining in the restaurant, "If you see such girls, rape them."
When a girl is violated, many people's focus is not on the perpetrator, but on the contrary, it is said that the victim girl is at fault first.
Dressing cool is debauchery, being close to others is a hint, and even touching your hair can be interpreted as seduction.
We often hear such words:
"You are harassed because you look good, and you are too ugly to be harassed."
"Girls shouldn't go out at night. Who will be responsible for the accident? "
"Dressed like this, is not to seduce a man? ! "
It is this kind of words, this kind of logic, which encourages the prestige of the bad guys.
Just because you wear too little, look too beautiful, wear too much makeup, go out at night and wear a short skirt ... You deserve all the treatment you get.
Some people really kneel for a long time and forget how to stand.
There is a saying that hides a knife in a smile: "A hundred ghosts walk in heavy rain at night, and some people are more happy than ghosts."
Some people are more like ghosts than monsters.
In fact, we are really not that far away from evil.
Even if nothing happens around you, you can feel the malice of some people from the internet.
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts six in a timely manner. The impact of these words is no less than substantial harm.
What's the difference between those who say these chilling things and those who really commit crimes?
Write it at the end
If we say that the "slut humiliation" expressed by the opposite sex is just a different position and a narrow gender.
Then, the same-sex "slut humiliation" is inserted into everyone's heart.
But I always believe that only a small number of people are "indiscriminate" towards women.
It is shameful to easily judge a person as "wild coquettish" just from his dress and experience.
Is it the original sin to be a woman, and to bear these injuries, you have to be on tenterhooks all day?
However, the world is not so safe, and there may be traps hidden behind the beauty, so many girls begin to learn how to protect themselves early.
What else can we do?
What we can do is: learn to shut up. I know today's article will be scolded by many people, but I'm not afraid.
Don't judge others easily, let alone take the scars of the parties as jokes!
Watch, the world is terrible, we just want to grow up safely.
The material comes from Netease News, Urban Youth Picture Book, Weibo,
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