But I don't know how to answer this question, probably because my parents are more open-minded. I told them that I spent hundreds of dollars on Lan's diary, and my mother rolled her eyes and said "Go to hell", but that didn't stop me (my family is not very rich, and my income is even lower).

However, in order for parents or others to understand themselves, it is good to tell them exactly what they feel and think. Don't beat around the bush, don't beat around the bush, tell them that I spend money around them because I like them, because they are my belief, and I can also spend money in other places, but I think spending money around them is more meaningful than spending money on food, clothing, housing and transportation. Because of the existence of my love beans, it gives me the motivation to study hard and live well, and gives me the courage to go forward and not be afraid of the dark. I spend money on them, not only because I like them, but also because I want to tell them that I love them and I have been supporting them with sales figures. Giving is mutual. Aidou gave me so much. What is wrong with me giving them money? Are parents happy to be a person who only knows how to ask for returns?

Of course, be gentle with your parents. If they don't understand anything, forget it. Some things really won't be understood by the closest people. If parents object badly, tell them that they owe the money and pay it back after work.