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"With the money to raise children, I will live a relaxed and happy life." What the hell happened to those dinks?
For those Dink families who are not very good at economic planning and old-age savings, the name Dink family is just a fig leaf, which covers up many self and family problems. When you are young, you may live freely because you don't have children's expenses, but when you are old, you will face an embarrassing situation because you don't have enough savings. In addition, the parents of these Dink families will face long-term loneliness. However, for those who are rich in wealth and rich in inner world, life in their later years is no different from that of other elderly men and women. ?

First, it will be easy and happy to support the elderly with the money from raising children. Nowadays, with the change of people's concept and the increase of life pressure, Dink family appears more and more in daily life. In the traditional thought of the past, it was great to have three unfilial sons and daughters, which deeply influenced millions of families in China, but now there are countless young people who don't want children. For these young people, the great pressure of life makes them unwilling to have a baby of their own after marriage.

In fact, the idea of the Dink family is easy to understand. From ancient times to the present, the cost of cultivating an excellent child can be said to be quite large, whether it is food, clothing, housing and transportation as a child or education expenses for a little older. In the eyes of these Dink families, instead of spending money on a child who is not sure to teach well, it is better to spend money directly on themselves. As the saying goes, it will be easy and happy to support the elderly with the money from raising children. This is the life principle upheld by the Dink family.

Second, whether the Dink family is happy in their later years depends on their ability to plan ahead. Frankly speaking, the idea of the Dink family does have some truth. When they were young, the Dink family used most of their family income to improve their quality of life, instead of catering to the traditional concept of having a child. From the perspective of personal enjoyment, it will really make yourself and your spouse live more relaxed and happy.

But from a longer-term perspective, the difference between the Dink family and the general family is mainly reflected in the later life. After all, with the continuous growth of people's age and the weakness of various functions of the body, the human body has become very fragile, and ordinary families still have adult children to help them out. I'm afraid the Dink family can only face all kinds of trivial things and troubles in life by themselves. In this case, if we spend too much money and pay too much attention to consumption when we are young, I am afraid that the Dink family will fall into a difficult life because of the lack of income sources.

Third, the choice of different lifestyles needs to take into account certain actual conditions. In fact, in a sense, having children and cultivating children is equivalent to a disguised investment, and it is the time to reap the return on investment when you are old. Although it is personal freedom to choose a different lifestyle, you must have a long-term vision to look forward to your future life and make plans in advance, so that you can enter the next stage of your life without hesitation.