First, make your behavior unpredictable.

This sentence has the same meaning as playing chess. If your opponent accurately predicts your next move from the beginning, then you will only be held back in this game. In the early days of love, the more you say and do, the more the other person will know about you and lose her interest in exploration. How to make your behavior unpredictable? Indifference means indifference

For example, yesterday you showed great concern for the person you like, and the next day you suddenly ignored her because of your busy work. For another example, you are very enthusiastic when you meet, and girls are very happy with you. When I got home, the chat became cold. At this time, the other party will panic and will take the initiative to come to you. In short, remember one sentence, there is no curiosity without the desire to explore.

Second, don't raise each other's value.

In this way, you can control the sense of demand. Now many boys like sneakers, but there are also many people who like them. As soon as it went online, it was robbed by everyone, resulting in the shoes whose original price was less than 1000 being fired two or three times. If you want to buy them, you have to pay an absurd price.

The reason for chasing girls is the same. As soon as you come up to send flowers and presents, you act as if she has to send them, that is, you are raising each other's value. By the time you wake up, it will be too late, because you are raising her value higher and higher. It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal. This is human nature. Therefore, brothers should make themselves more valuable. In behavior, they should divide their time between work, fitness and travel, and show their value in the circle of friends. Psychologically, they regard each other as part of many hobbies, not all. When you fully show your attitude and value, it is when she is attracted to you.

Third, reduce gains and losses.

Why do some boys always win in relationships? Because they underestimate the gains and losses, they only pay attention to the process and self-feeling, because these are things that they can control, and at the same time, they can make the other person feel their charm. And some brothers like to think too much. If the girl replies slowly, she will guess what the other person means. If a girl smiles at herself, he will think, does this like me?

I really meet too many boys asking me similar questions, which will not only attract girls, but also keep your mood in a state of fluctuation. Once the mood is out of balance, it is easy to do some low-value things, such as news bombing, gift giving, confession and so on. This will only make girls more annoyed and unwilling to talk to you, and eventually fall into a vicious circle. Brothers should remember that in the end, there is basically nothing left, and the normal mind can also be supernormal.

Fourth, dare to cut off the chat

The content of the chat is not in quantity. Many brothers think that chatting with girls is the easier it is to enhance their feelings. In fact, there are many examples, all of which are nonsense, and there is little useful information. Some brothers even hold girls until they are about to go to bed, which will only reduce their value.

Brothers, if you don't know how to judge, the chat should not last more than an hour. Besides, you can try to find an excuse when you are having a hot chat and leave directly, but don't be too blunt. You can also show the value by the way, such as "I have a meeting tomorrow morning, I need to read the information again", which not only shows the value, but also makes the other person feel uncomfortable, and also makes her feel unfinished, which has a strong impact on your next chat.

Fifth, boldly lead the relationship.

Some brothers may be strange. Didn't you just say don't expose your sense of need? Why do you want to dominate the relationship? The best stage in a relationship is when you are ambiguous to the top. If you don't do these things boldly, neither side will feel anything, and you can't make any progress in three to five years. You can be friends and brothers at most, but you can't be lovers. Here is a trick to get you into the couple mode in advance, such as the mood when chatting and the atmosphere when dating.

Finally, this is very important. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together.

What circle you are in actually determines what kind of person you are. If you spend every day with your inexperienced brothers and even ask them for experience, then I can say that you are hopeless. What you need to do is to make more friends with boys with rich love experience, which can not only improve your inherent thinking, but also enrich your heterosexual social circle more easily.