Sometimes we don't smoke, but when someone offers us cigarettes, we will pick them up.
Sometimes we don't drink, let others raise their glasses, and we will cater to them;
Sometimes I don't want to eat midnight snack when I exercise, but when my friends call us, I will go to dinner and eat a few snacks that are light or won't gain weight.
Why do we slowly become what we don't like? Because we call these sports, even the exchange and entertainment of relationships, social activities, and no one needs social activities.
However, if you want to find out the people who are most reluctant to socialize, I belong to this category. I am a person who neither talks about wine nor is polite and perfunctory. With the increase of enterprises in recent years, the people contacted by enterprises are becoming more and more complex, wider and wider, and the circle is becoming more and more changeable. I am also slowly trying to learn this road.
Did we change our lives, or did life change us? Did we change the world or did the world change us?
In fact, in a sense, I prefer to face us, be changed by the world, by society, by the surroundings, pursue the ultimate rationality, and be changed by my dreams.
We also began to learn to attend various occasions, wear all kinds of clothes and say all kinds of things. Sometimes we really don't know who we are, and sometimes we really don't know ourselves.
We have done many things that we have never done before. We have challenged jobs that have never been challenged before. We have engaged in tasks we have never done before, and we have met people we never thought we would meet.
Socialization must be artistic socialization, and it must be a platform for wealth resources with nobles. The turning point of life is inseparable from the relationship.
All social activities must have a goal, either to pursue happiness, success, career or wealth. Any social activity has no purpose.
Even if we have a drink with our best friends, have a cup casually, have a cup of coffee casually, and chat casually on the roadside, in fact, we are all expressing our inner feelings and getting this kind of inner companionship, so any social interaction is not so-called aimlessness.
But social communication can be divided into effective social communication and ineffective social communication. Effective socialization means purposeful socialization, knowing a person, knowing a circle, going to a party and walking into a dinner party. Even if it is a birthday party, we design it with a purpose.
Ineffective socializing means that participating in this activity will only consume your throat, affect your internal organs, hurt your health, even call a group of evil friends to meet a group of worthless friends, and even consume us. It's called ineffective socializing.
Some people get interpersonal relationships after socializing, and eventually interpersonal relationships will become wealth. Some people take part in an activity and get to know some interpersonal relationships, but these interpersonal relationships will eventually consume us and even turn us into debt. Today we are talking about effective social interaction.
Both men and women should put some gifts in the trunk. This gift will be given inadvertently in your life. You don't know who to give it to. Maybe he will appear at some point, maybe not for a long time, but in the car, in the office, take a small gift with you.
Remember, all this is to improve social relations with others. What gifts can I put in? You can put tea, candy, an umbrella, a few bottles of wine, a few cigarettes, and local specialties or toys bought together from other places.
What can I put in the office? You can put a few books, new unopened books, some very tasty pens and signature pens, and you can give them to your friends inadvertently. Then you can bring some ornaments, including necklaces, rings, earrings and watches, and take them off at a certain moment and give them directly to each other. This is a very effective and warm social interaction.
I have really met a person who never treats people when eating, never pays the bill when socializing, never asks for dedication when meeting others, and never implants his own mind and psychology. He always plays a person who asks for it. If he doesn't question his socialization, he won't succeed.
His circle must be a circle of failure, because the rich treat you as a younger brother, the talented people of your sister also treat you as a younger brother, and the resource people of your sister also treat you as a younger brother and sister. You just help to open the door, help to pick up food with chopsticks, and help the followers who fool back and forth.
This kind of person in other people's world, you will always be a passerby, you can't get into his core. So remember that rich people socialize, and those without money socialize more. Rich people can be stingy.
Because everyone knows that he is rich, his occasional atmosphere will touch each other, but people who have no money want it, because you have no money, and you will not be poor to any extent, because your atmosphere will make friends with people in your life and bring you fate.
Rich people are stingy. You misunderstand that he is not stingy. He is mean to you. Because your value can't be exchanged with him, he won't share anything of greater value with you.
People who have no money are atmospheric, which is a false atmosphere. Because people who have no money are atmospheric, they can't go anywhere, so remember in social activities, especially those who are not rich enough.
More importantly, learn to build your own higher-end circle through social interaction. Praising others is a kind of socialization, leaving a message to others is a kind of socialization, and sending a warm thank you to others is a kind of socialization.
Calling people to say hello is a social activity. When you see someone asking for help in a circle of friends, you can quickly give support. This is a kind of socialization.
Sometimes a social interaction comes from a bag of fruit, a watch, a dinner party and a phone call. From a sorry, a thank you, a I love you, a grateful to have you.
So remember that social interaction is big and small, and initiative is the key. As long as you take the initiative, your social relations will change. Not long ago, there was a copy in Tik Tok, and neither you nor I knew each other. You took the initiative, and the story between us began.
This is the secret core of actively establishing effective social interaction, learning to share gifts, special products and links with others. You invested dozens of dollars, hundreds of dollars, thousands of dollars, far away. It's not worth much attention, but because you will get more rewards for this action.
Let me share an effective case. When the hairy crabs come down, eating them in this season is definitely a luxury. We divided the hairy crabs into two boxes, and I asked my assistant to share them with more than 0/00 people across the country.
I think very important guests, my clients are president, chairman, principal, dean, brother, teacher and my big clients. A box of hairy crabs is about 1 0,000. We always send two boxes of hairy crabs, each box 12, that is, more than 2000 pieces will be mailed to customers all over the country.
Soon after the seeds are planted, you can see feedback from all over the world. Some people say thank you, some people ask your address, and some people keep interacting with you and asking what you are doing recently. Someone invited you to travel in the past, and someone said that they would come to see you. Look at your popularity
Dear readers, have you ever thought that you only invested 2000 yuan, and what you get is heartless wealth, now, tomorrow, the future or the rest of your life?
The most obvious case is that one of my former clients in Xinjiang did not cooperate for two years and received my gift. He was very, very surprised. He takes photos when he receives them, and takes photos when he is steaming at home, sharing them with his family and sharing them with his friends circle. I also want to thank Ming Ge for his concern.
Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? He gave me millions of dollars, but received thousands of dollars in gifts. Such a surprise, such an expectation, such a relief, I was moved at that moment.
I also deeply blame myself. How long has it been since I gave a present to a client? How long has it been since I gave gifts to my brother, sister and boss investors? This increased my motivation to share this gift.
As a result, he called me three days ago and told me it was convenient for Brother Ming to make a phone call. I called back and we talked for 30 minutes. The next day, I immediately allocated the money to cooperate with me and started the agency in Xinjiang. Dear readers, what do you see? Feel it.
As long as you take the initiative, the relationship will change, because others will appreciate your efforts and will naturally be willing to encourage you, stand on your side and support you.
I gave gifts to my investors, and my investors obviously interacted with me a lot. I give gifts to big clients, and big clients obviously approve. I gave gifts to the teachers of these big coffees who I haven't contacted for a long time, and so did the brothers of the big coffees. They praised me clearly and invited me with interactive comments.
Whether it is Beijing, Shanghai, Shenzhen, Guangzhou, Chengdu, Hangzhou, Wuxi, Suzhou, xi 'an, Beijing or the black people in the northeast, there will be different people establishing interactive relationships with me.
Students, how long have you been dating people around you? How long have you not established effective social interaction, and how long have you not taken the initiative to pay, pay, pay and contribute?
Learn to be grateful, learn to love people around you actively, especially those with effective resources, remember that everything can be paid, and those who are still unclear, remember and share with gifts.
Maybe you can't see the return right away. Please believe that people are doing and the sky is watching. You pay, he benefits. You have established a very delicate relationship with him, and he owes you a favor.
Believe in God, believe in God, believe in Buddhism, and he will make others pay for you, so walk in love, actively establish effective social relations, make your social life valuable, live with dignity and become atmospheric.
"Effective social interaction" comes from a friend. Thanks for reading it.
I am Fang Qun, hoping to help you meet a better self.
I'm finished. I look forward to your praise and comments. Let's be excellent together!