Recently, Gina happily exposed photos of her 7-month pregnancy on the Internet. Gina in the photo is still beautiful and charming in a long pink dress. She was an unintentional move, trying to share the beautiful moment with everyone, but the copywriting of the big V blogger who forwarded the photos caused a hornet's nest, which caused a collective explosion of netizens.
Exquisite and girly? Are you sure this is an adjective that most pregnant women will use?
Now it is praised by the public as sweeping away the sense of girlhood, and the deformed aesthetics of all ages are white, young and thin, which violates the natural growth law. Has it begun to spread to pregnant women?
Therefore, the majority of female netizens who don't buy it are frying pans: don't kidnap white and thin women with girlish feelings!
What is "girlish feeling"? Search engines tell us that it is pure girlish feeling.
It is not a derogatory term in itself, but a description of the pure and immature state of girlhood. I don't know when it started, and this has become the aesthetic standard of indiscriminate killing of men, women and children.
From stars to ordinary women, they all began to pursue "girlhood". Because once you are not as young as others, even if you are what you should be at that age, you will be ignored or even ridiculed and become a foil to the person who looks like a girl.
Zhou Xun's performance "Ruyi Royal Palace of Love" was ridiculed by some audiences: "Zhou Xun is old, and the girlish feeling is gone", and it was also searched in Weibo. Later, Yang Mi, Angel, Yang Rong and other stars were pulled out to discuss their "lost girlhood". The release of female stars is also inseparable from "full collagen" and "full girlish feeling".
After 95, after 00, they all debuted, even after the seal. Female stars born after 1985 are still playing "beautiful girls". This is the interweaving of initiative and passivity, referring to a deer as a horse.
There is a joke that men's aesthetics are the most exclusive, because they like girls who are 18 years old, no matter how old she is.
Therefore, in order to cater to this aesthetic view, many women have been trying their best to keep "18-year-old face" all their lives, as if only in this way can they please men and prove their charm.
Such a false "girlish feeling" is a surrender to abnormal aesthetics and an unfair ruler hanging over women's heads.
Age and experience are the best gifts that time gives everyone. The charm and beauty of women have always been colorful, not just from the perspective of "girlhood".
Remember Sebrina's thought-provoking starry speech?
At the peak of his career, Sebrina chose to return to his family and have children. The trip took five years. She gave birth to two children. Being pregnant and having children not only added a responsibility to her, but also added a lot of fat.
In addition to obesity, there is relaxation. Starting from the facial muscles, the sagging and the sagging places are sagging. As the saying goes, after three years, the baby's memory has also declined, and he can't even remember his bank card password.
When she tried to get back in shape and was ready to start again, she found her career in a very embarrassing situation.
As the saying goes, 40-year-old is not confused, but she is more and more confused about her life. Obviously, she has reached the most mature state of an actress, but there are fewer and fewer dramas suitable for actresses of her age on the market.
This is the confusion faced by a middle-aged actress and a new mother.
As ordinary people, it is not easy for us to get pregnant in October at the risk of unemployment. If we have to face the harsh aesthetics of the public and ask us to maintain the posture of "slim girls", that is really sick. Sorry, I can't.
Years have given us wrinkles and loose skin in the corner of our eyes, and also precipitated a unique temperament. Isn't this a kind of beauty? We should learn to appreciate our own beauty, not just live in the eyes of others.
Marguerite duras, my favorite female writer, once said in Lover: I like your weather-beaten face better than when you were young.
Duras's charm stems from her unruly personality and desolate and warm writing. Time has carved wrinkles on her face, but her inner beauty has been recognized by more people and will continue to be passed down.
Nothing is eternal, and no one can never grow old.
The beauty of women is never limited to girls. Women of all ages are blooming their unique charm.
Perhaps there is no longer a girl's innocence and liveliness, but there is a calm and shrewd precipitation of years; There is no longer the shyness of a girl, but the enthusiasm of a woman.
Know yourself correctly and keep a calm, confident and calm mind. This is the secret of lifelong beauty.
Live in the present and look to the future.