One is the beautiful Yiyi. She met two people, Wang and Zhao. Wang is a white-collar worker in a foreign company, mature, smart and rich, which is her type. Zhao is a civil servant, generous and sincere, and belongs to a family-oriented man. She asked me whether I should follow my heart or be realistic. True love or true love? According to my understanding of her, she will definitely choose Wang, otherwise she will still be as unwilling as before. She said that she felt that Wang was too self-centered and rich to catch, and she was very upset. The problem is that he is her king, but she may be his spare tire. In fact, everyone has Wang and Zhao in their hearts, and even Sun and Zhu. It depends on your mentality when you choose, whether to choose a challenging king or a steady Zhao? What's more, if you choose a king, but the king may not accept it. So, she was even more upset and asked me to go to a bar every day to talk about her troubles.
The other is a beautiful young woman, Shiyu. Although the children are in primary school, she is still very distressed. Shiyu's husband works in an office and is also a small leader of the unit. He is a handsome young man. However, a few days ago, I found that Shiyu's face was not very good, so I asked quietly. Shiyu was depressed. She told me that she thinks about her ex-boyfriend every day now, which can be said to be to the point where she doesn't think about it. I criticized her rudely: "What are you doing? Are you full? There is nothing to find. " She hit me back: "You have never had an unforgettable love, you don't understand." Ha ha! I am speechless, maybe I really don't understand.
Later, I learned that Shiyu's ex-boyfriend is now a CPC cadre in a province. He once loved and deeply loved others, and later failed to be together for various reasons. When she told me about her ex-boyfriend, she was radiant and enviable. She said, "Somehow, he is not handsome either. He is as thin as a bamboo pole, and sometimes his trouser legs are rolled up. He looks untidy, but I think he is handsome ... "
I read an article by a writer friend. His description of love and marriage can be described as perfect, romantic and pure, which intoxicated me and made me fantasize. But if you savor it carefully, the feeling of love and the fear of marriage are also faintly reflected between the lines. The general meaning is: "men and women love each other and combine." However, just because of understanding, we will eventually break up because of understanding, so love doesn't have to get married. "
Have you ever been hurt by love? People say that the deeper you love, the more unforgettable you are, and the more afraid you are of love. It seems unreasonable to refuse marriage for fear of being hurt.
Analyzing the anguish of my friends, I think it is not enough for a woman to satisfy all her imaginations of love in marriage. Men also follow this reasoning. Therefore, in a monogamous society, people who are troubled should tell stories about red apples and green apples to comfort themselves!
It is said that 500 years have passed in exchange for this life's acquaintance. Love is like a battlefield. Those who love suffer from loss, and those who want to love are timid. It is a sad thing to watch handsome boys and beautiful girls strut into their own marriage auditorium, come out with smiles and tears, and forget each other in the rivers and lakes.
The world is so big that it really answers the phrase "wonders are out there". The reasons for happiness are the same, but the reasons for misfortune are different. In this era of rapid development, how should our female compatriots choose to fall in love and get married? Perhaps, with the continuous development of society, people's ideas about love and marriage may change even more!
As soon as I heard the name "Rong", I naturally thought of the word "beauty" "Clouds want clothes, flowers want capacity", perhaps because there is a girl at home, and her father named her "Xiaorong".
In fact, seeing her face, I believe her father's foresight even more. Rong is really charming and amazing. She has a Zhang Yanli face in the bright flower season.
Rong is the wife of my husband's friend. We often get together, chat, eat and sing, so we get to know each other.
I heard about Rong before I met her. Her ex-boyfriend told me himself.
Meilirong works as an accountant in the town supply and marketing cooperative, and her ex-boyfriend works in the town construction company. These two units are just opposite. A beautiful girl lives alone every day and can't help but attract the attention of single men. Over time, the two people gradually became familiar with each other. From this, I began to fall in love and then moved in together. Living together is simple and happy. If you are not careful, Rong will get pregnant.
Things are not as simple as Rong imagined. Construction workers are not recognized by Rong's parents. They clamored for land and resolutely demanded glory. Then they quickly found a handsome young policeman and asked them to get married. The frail Rong succumbed to her parents' arrangement and soon married a police officer.
Rong forgot the past and lived a housewife's life with peace of mind. Rong is beautiful and happy. Her happiness stems from having a handsome, capable and small-headed husband.
However, Rong's ex-boyfriend is different. First I got lovesickness and mild schizophrenia, and then I resigned. He spent several years in healing. The physical pain can be healed, but the wounds in his heart cannot be healed. Even if I get married, I still drown my sorrows in wine all day, and I still call it "Rong" in my drunken dreams. ...
When Rong's ex-boyfriend described his relationship like this, his face was slightly sad, and his dementia eyes were full of confusion and helplessness.
From a young girl to a mature woman, from the prime of life to being a wife and a mother, Rong's life has gone on and on, and her child is 8 years old.
Life is not always full of sunshine, and happiness is not like flowers. Handsome Zhou Xiao wants to be a leader. He works hard day and night in the unit. Unfortunately, he was infected with hepatitis. In order to make progress, he had to go out to socialize, drink and sing at regular intervals. Sometimes people with so-called "like-minded" will be invited to live at home, chat and have a drink. Of course, he concealed the fact that he was ill.
To tell the truth, I can't imagine the pain in my heart at that time. She takes care of Zhou Xiao day after day, preparing clothes and socks for him every morning, preparing Chinese herbal medicines for him at night, and pouring foot washing water for him before going to bed. She silently pays for her husband, and all her troubles are borne by herself. Rong is an ordinary woman, all her love is only for her husband, and all her tolerance is only for her favorite person.
I remember that my husband and I had two small frictions because of Rong. The reason is the same.
My husband said: "Rong's chin is thick and convex, and he is a blessed person." She prepares clothes, socks, medicine and foot washing water for her husband. That is virtuous, enviable! "
I said to my husband, "Kill your heart! Tell me to bring you foot washing water every day? Go and marry a nanny as a wife! "
The public security bureau began the annual military competition, running, shooting, camping and training. Zhou Xiao gritted his teeth and took part in the 3000-meter race, and finally fell on the playground. ...
Good Rong walked around and returned to the original situation-a person.
Rong's ex-boyfriend and his family live next to the county vegetable market. Rong has to pass by every day to buy food, so we should meet.
The ending of Half-Life is: Gu told Shen that we can't go back. Can they go back in time? I thought about it and asked.
There is a kind of Tianya called Zhichi and there is a kind of Zhichi called Tianya. The farthest distance in the world is the mind, and the nearest distance in the world is also the mind. Close at hand, close at hand!
I don't believe in fate, it's just an excuse to pursue or escape, and I don't believe in fate, it's a more lazy slack. I only believe in life, plain life and real life.
Rong's story is not finished yet. What kind of mentality does she have now? I don't know.
three
When I got off work and walked to the intersection of the community, an agricultural tricycle drove by, and a woman and a man were driving next to him, weren't they husband and wife? The woman leans on the man's shoulder affectionately, smiling and smiling, with a happy face. Looking at the carriage, it is a big trash can surrounded by snakeskin bags. It turns out that they are scavengers.
They walked all the way to the trash can at the door of our residential unit. The man got out of the car, sat on the stone bench in the community, took out a kettle and poured it slowly into his mouth, but his eyes kept looking at the woman with a warm smile on her face.
The woman took out an iron brazing rod, smiled foolishly, and smashed the sellable waste into the trash can. I looked at a woman in her thirties. Her smiling face is round and not ugly. She has a satisfied face and can't see any vicissitudes.
This reminds me of another couple. Every morning, I get up at six to run. The small town in the early morning is shrouded in white morning fog, only a few tall buildings in the distance are faintly exposed. Out of the dark community, bright street lamps shine on the quiet and empty streets. The gray light seems to have sprinkled a layer of silver powder on the ground, and only the broom of the cleaner sweeping the street can be heard in the distance.
At a garbage dump where I run, every day I see a garbage truck parked at the garbage dump on time, and a man and a woman are loading garbage. This was supposed to be a man's job, but I saw that woman loading garbage for that man. She is not tall and physically strong. She wrapped her head in a headscarf that couldn't see the color clearly, only showing her eyes and shoveling garbage into the car in the cold wind.
Perhaps this is the so-called people living at the bottom. They do repetitive and hard work year after year. Summer stinks and winter is bitter, but they have no regrets. They are still lively and happy, and the happiness that overflows from their hearts is written on their faces.
There are few touching things in real life, but the mutual affection of these two couples touched me and raised a feeling similar to sweetness in my heart.
Poor, but happy, caring for each other. Sometimes I think that people are really contradictory, pursuing material things and enjoyment, but lacking nothing, but sighing all day, feeling bored and feeling that life is meaningless.
In this world, this is the living habit of trees. Birds have a free sky, the rich have their troubles, and ordinary people have their happiness. ...
four
Life goes on, the story goes on. The life in the story, the story in life, is folded into different shapes and wrapped in different moods. It is always gentle in the sky and far water with a touch of sadness or happiness. The past is like smoke, life is like a dream, and the years fade away inadvertently, leaving many unforgettable memories-nostalgia, hatred, melancholy, sadness, trouble, pain, happiness and joy.
I think love, simply put, may be the feeling, passion and enthusiasm of loving someone. But as the wheel of history rolls forward and the times change with each passing day, time has given love more connotation. As a result, people began to feel confused about love, and love became a mystery in the hearts of generations. Throughout the ages, romantic celebrities have written countless answers for love, but no one can fully understand the meaning of love. Yes, there are thousands of stories on the road to youth, and most of them end in tears. Let this hazy story turn into a cup of bitter wine and exist in my heart. However, in the years of youth, even if it is a glass that breaks when touched, or it is still an illusory mirage, you should chase it rashly and devote yourself crazily, even if it is heartbreaking pain, at least love has been in full bloom in your life.
Marriage is when two strangers come together. It's easier to fall in love than to get along. After the passion, all that remains is their true character and temper. The combination of people with different environments, backgrounds and preferences may itself be imperfect. How to face this imperfection, accept it, and try our best to reconcile and run in depends on our mentality. Looking at it from another angle, a happy marriage is practical in plain. In dullness, there is no love, and love is contained in every moment of dullness. A truly happy marriage is like soup, which needs to be simmered slowly to be mellow and delicious. On weekdays, we gag and tease in the noise, or have a variety of amorous feelings, or elegant and subtle, or considerate, or Leng Yan is threatening ... Most of them are for outsiders to see. In fact, true love, there is not so much romantic love, nor so much witty love words. True love is rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, raising and educating children, serving the elderly on both sides, and bleeding on the hands of lovers-even a small wound will make you feel distressed. ...
Therefore, the essence of love is selfless. She just interprets it in different forms, so there are so many different endings. ...