Men are visual animals and women are auditory animals. Girls naturally like boys with good eloquence and sweet mouth.

If you can't understand her needs in the chat, talk about the topics she is interested in, so that the topics between you can keep flowing in the chat. Even if you finally catch up, girls will leave you because you are bored.

Most fraternities are obsessed with the topic of chatting, because the topic is logical, traceable and convenient to extend.

But there will be a very big drawback. If you tell a girl logic, even if she is interested in you, you will eventually tell her to death.

Logical and traceable, which means there are no surprises. Without surprises, how can girls have the mood and interest to chat with you?

We talked here, some brothers are anxious, mentor, but I don't know how to talk to girls about their emotions!

Here, I want to share some chat skills to help you improve quickly:

First, take yourself as the opening remarks.

Tell me more about yourself. Girls don't like the questions that men keep asking themselves. Just like checking your hukou, talk more about attracting girls and change the first-person you into me.

Change "What are you doing" to "I just finished working out and my blood is boiling".

Boy: I haven't been to the gym for several days, and I feel fat all over.

Girl: Hey, I've gained weight recently, too. We must control it these days and try to be as thin as 90.

Boy: I've been on a diet recently, too.

Girl: I want to cry for this kind of person who likes to eat meat.

Boy: Neither of us is happy-until eternity passes.

Girl: When I lose 90 pounds, I must go out for a big meal when I come back and continue to lose weight.

Boy: Remember to take me with you. If you want to be fat, you have to pull a mat.

Girl: Haha, OK.

Actively share things about us with girls. "I am also controlling my diet recently" tells girls that we are men who have standards and requirements for ourselves, thus increasing the attraction to girls.

Besides, you can also share your experiences, your stories, friends around you or stories you have heard. In short, take the initiative to chat up girls. And in the early stage of chatting, boys should bear more than 90% of the content of the topic, because this is the source of your attraction.

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Second, take her as the opening remarks.

If a girl cares most about herself. If you make the transition yourself, girls will feel that they are not involved, and girls will feel that it is none of my business, so the topic should be related to girls, so that girls can actively participate, so that there can be interaction.

Boy: I think your picture is quite small.

Girl: Beauty effect

Boy: Haha, that's not necessarily a good foundation.

Girl: Thank you.

Boy: Haha, you just want to send me away with a thank you.

Girl: What else does little brother want?

Boy: I thought there were spicy strips.

Girl: Little brother likes spicy strips.

Boy: Haha, I dare not eat recently, otherwise the gym can't save me.

Starting from the girl's body, the topic "I feel quite small when I see your photo" is because I talk about the girl's own topic, so the girl's attention will be very concentrated.

Interact with girls by saying "thank you, you have to send me away", and then have a comfortable and pleasant chat.

Remember, the best topic for chatting is around you and her. Switch topics back and forth, then you will naturally avoid embarrassing chat and naturally have a good chat.