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I was born a few years before you. Why should I take care of you?
? With angry words, she once again refreshed my understanding of human nature and the bottom line of my tolerance for her ~ this time we had a complete cold war. Even though I know this is not the solution to the problem, I still can't control the spread of my anger. Probably only in this long cold war can I slowly cool down, but at the same time, is my warm heart also cooling down? .

? Biological, sister. Growing up, many people can't believe that we are sisters, and our personalities are too different. I practiced Taekwondo in junior high school and won the second place in the province. Since then, I have been out of control. I left home, dropped out of school, became a fitness instructor, and joined the MLM organization of Quanjian. My mother who runs a fitness club doesn't want to recognize it. This pile, a period of black history, can't believe that this was done by a child of only one twentieth. Well, it's just a little bastard who has the courage to dare to fight and dare to do it. Broken is a little bastard who has no brains and does nothing.

? After what she experienced, my work and life basically stabilized. As a sister, my sense of responsibility often makes me want to help her, but I can't admit that she is fooling around. So I contacted her to study in a junior college, brought her here to study, and got back on the right track (I think).

? At first, they were basically obedient, but after getting along for a long time, they showed their true colors. First, I changed my job for various reasons every once in a while, and then I changed my boyfriend unnoticed. It looked really hard. I didn't want her to go through so many hardships and humbleness at the bottom of society, so I contacted my friend and found a job at the front desk of the law firm. I want to have a nine-to-five weekend, and my job is very attractive. However, within three months, I resigned for various reasons. One Friday night, we had a big fight in Zhongguancun, and even I was so angry that I smashed my coke can, and it turned out. At the same time, I have a warm mind to take good care of her and help her find a stable job that I think is good ~

? After this incident, we lived peacefully for a long time. Of course, she went to do her favorite telemarketing job. There are no weekends, and she gets off work at about eleven o'clock every day. She looks upset, but she has no motivation to help her change. Because I know I can't change it. I didn't know that she talked about a boyfriend until the other day. It seemed serious this time, but she refused to bring it to meet. Our contradiction broke out again.

? In the early morning, I had a nightmare. I woke up from my dream and dared not sleep alone again. Open your eyes in the morning and ask her to come and stay with me at night. Contact for a day during the day. Well said. In the evening, I was still thinking about my holiday after work. Go home and fry what she wants, and wait for her to come. I didn't reply at 8: 30. I called and said I wanted to have dinner with my boyfriend. I came after eating. So I said let them come over together, just in time for the festival, and have dinner together, so I agreed and said I would arrive in an hour. When she got the call at ten o'clock, her boyfriend wouldn't let her come over. In this sentence, my little temper exploded in minutes. When I needed her most, I waited all day, and I couldn't accept this sentence. So she hung up the phone directly, and she probably felt my anger. WeChat sent a message saying that she wanted to chat with me, which undoubtedly added fuel to the fire. I ended the battle by deleting WeChat ~ Obviously, on the question of whether he is important or me, I lost, and they only knew each other for about two or three months ~ This time, I heard him laughing at me on the phone for not sleeping by myself, but he didn't let my sister accompany me, and his staff was broken, so I couldn't accept and forgive him in my life. This time, let me completely despair of her emotional problems and never want to take care of them again. Probably all the suggestions I think are good make people feel hurt her. I'm only responsible for eating and controlling, and I don't care about anything else ~

? I think what makes me most angry about this matter is that a cabbage I carefully cared for was coaxed away by sweet words, but this bastard didn't pay any price. I am very angry. I paid so much energy and lost to a man who only knew her for three months. I was so angry that she turned me down when I needed her most. I was angry that she lied to me all day and at night in my early years.

? As of writing this article, she has added my friends several times, but I still can't convince myself to let go. Speaking of which, I was born only a few years before you. Why should I consider everything for you? Why should I accept your repeated injuries? Why? It's time to change my elder sister's bad habits. I really shouldn't think about perfection in everything, regard myself as a responsibility, regard myself as a savior, and finally end up with resentment.

? When I finished writing, I suddenly put it down ~ I left all the bad emotions in the years ago. After this year, you are still you, and I am still me. Even if I am a relative, there are not so many things in this world for granted ~

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