1 leads to depression
Friends who have been single for a long time are generally weak in social skills and their abilities are getting worse. They don't want to take part in various activities, go out and get in touch with outsiders. Over time, their temperament becomes more and more withdrawn and difficult to get along with, and they will live in their own personal world and be prone to depression. So, put down your cell phone and go outside to meet some new friends.
Bad habits lead to diseases.
Everyone has worldly desires, and in adolescence, things between men and women are always inevitable. If a person is single for a long time, then it is conceivable that there is no sex life. In order to meet their own needs, more men and women choose stretching and other behaviors to solve their physiological needs. As we all know, a little affection, a strong emotion, will have an impact on the body or mind. So, for health, find a friend who has been single for a long time.
3 the risk of cancer is increased.
Studies in New Zealand have found that single life is similar to smoking, which can cause a series of diseases and even cancer. And the director of a cancer hospital in China. Dr. Xu said that for single women, or women born after 35 years old, the incidence of breast cancer is much higher than that of women born before 30 years old. Well, girls, find a suitable man to marry. Health is very important.
4 irregular life and rest
A married person basically has a stable job and life, but also has to go to work, take the children to school and so on. Friends who have been single for a long time have rich nightlife. It may be that several bachelors go out to drink together and stand up at night, or girls watch soap operas at home until late at night. The next day, they were in poor spirits and couldn't get up. When I got up, I was in a bad state, giving people an impression of laziness.
5. Life expectancy is shortened
According to American research, the average life expectancy of single women is 7- 15 years shorter than that of married women, and that of men is 8- 17 years shorter. China's figures are really shocking. As for the reasons, it is easy to cause various diseases, and the other is various psychological problems, or depression, or delusion. And it's easy to do something abnormal. Cherish your life and stay away from being single, everyone!
6 susceptibility to Alzheimer's disease
Part-time brother checked the information and found that a survey published in the British Medical Journal showed that people who have been single for a long time are prone to get Alzheimer's disease when they get old. Even if you get married later, the influence of being single for a long time still lurks in your body, so, friends, take advantage of the opportunity of Singles' Day and take off your bill quickly.
7 do not pay attention to behavior and image
Friends who have been single for a long time seldom care about their behavior and habits because they don't often participate in various activities and often stay at home. Boys will wear shorts and a pair of slippers at home. If something happens, they will buckle their feet. Some people put them on their noses and smell them. Mmm, it tastes sour and refreshing. Girls don't want to dress themselves up, and they dress casually at home, which can't reflect their feminine beauty. Over time, it will be eclipsed and enter a vicious circle.
This question is more troublesome to answer. There are too many singles now, and everyone hides their psychological needs and does their work silently. In the dead of night, sometimes I toss and turn and can't sleep at night.
Men have more choices and can't do illegal things. Sometimes I try to get to know some girls through company dinners and friends' parties, hoping to get in touch with someone who is suitable for making friends or getting married; Some people go to dating sites, cast nets widely, fish carefully, and slowly warm up their feelings through telephone or video chat until they blossom and bear fruit. This is how many people find girlfriends.
Some men communicate with female netizens through online chat, and some will meet in reality, which is rushing; Some go to watch various live broadcasts and try their best to win the favor of the anchor. It's best to meet, but if you can't meet, treat the anchor as your own goddess. Add a beautiful scenery and color to your lonely life.
In order to do business, there are also men who struggle for their lives, but only a few people are rare!
It is really easy for single women to find men, as long as they are not too picky. Because there is no prince charming in my heart, women will go to fitness, beauty and tea ceremony to improve themselves. Wait for the person you want to come to you.
How do long-term single people solve their psychological needs? Haha, interesting. People who have been single for a long time generally have their own set of rules, that is, each village has its own ingenious ways. Sometimes the problem of psychological needs is due to the changes of time, environment and material and some factors that they feel need to change, so the conclusion is their own needs, but most of these people often have their own inner deficiencies, fear of being hurt, and their self-esteem is particularly strong. Actual self-esteem is everyone's virtue. At the same time, it is also a self-enclosed sharp knife. This sharp knife is next to the heart, and it doesn't dare to laser what it wants. What is dignity? We have to wait before the big right and wrong. People under the eaves have to bow their heads and respect the facts. If I am ugly, I have to work hard. I have to give up my dignity to chase my girlfriend. Sometimes dignity is to fight for what I want. This is courage, not retreat, not defensive dignity, especially in personal needs. It is often a kind of timidity, and sometimes it will miss many opportunities in life. My lifelong regret is that I am not brave. Maybe maybe maybe, too many possibilities? So he took his own life. Be brave, you alone!