Is it an air conditioner that can be turned on from morning till night, a table full of snacks and happy water, a game keyboard and mouse that has been saved for two months, or a small balcony that is stinking by cats brought back secretly?
University is a place full of freedom and yearning.
Here, you have enough time to learn new things and make new friends.
But there is one place that may be the terminator of these good wishes, and that is the university dormitory.
The biggest difference between college life and high school life should be the freedom of time.
In high school, there was a fixed study time every day, and every class and homework were clearly arranged.
After you go to college, you can almost freely arrange and allocate your study time and life time.
Without the constraints of schools and teachers, many students will stay in the dormitory day and night after entering university life.
Why do most college students like to stay in the dormitory? I consulted three friends around me.
● Jason, male, sophomore:
Because it is comfortable! It's really comfortable to stay in the dormitory, no one cares, no pressure. The terrible thing is that when this comfort becomes the norm, you won't feel anything wrong, because the people around you are also like this! In freshman year, as long as there is no class, everyone will play in the dormitory for one day. When you are hungry, order a takeaway and continue to open after eating. Not without reflection, but everyone is like that. If you don't follow the trend, you will become the "unsociable" one. Sigh ~ ~
Zero, female, graduated for 2 years;
Why do you like staying in the dormitory? Because single dog doesn't deserve a date! In college, all three roommates had boyfriends, and I was the only one who was single. In fact, I don't want to stay in the dormitory and watch them video chat and sprinkle dog food every day, but I don't have an appointment and I have nowhere to go. It's cold in winter and hot in summer, so you should put on makeup and change clothes when you go out. Might as well stay in the dormitory.
●CL, female, graduated for 5 years:
It's been so long since graduation that I don't remember much about my college life. You suddenly asked me, and I thought about it. It seems that most of my college life is also in the dormitory. Because it is convenient to live in the dormitory, you need air conditioning and WiFi. Another important reason is that you have to spend money as long as you go out because you are poor. For me who only have 1500 yuan every month, there is no better choice than staying in the dormitory.
I summed up what three friends said, and found that the reasons why they like to stay in the dormitory are: poverty, singleness, weather, internet temptation, being influenced by host friends, maintaining the relationship between host friends, and making comfort the norm. ......
When I was a freshman, I liked to stay in the dormitory when I was not in class.
On a hot summer afternoon without classes, I connected to wifi, blew air conditioning, watched movies and read books, and stayed for one day.
At that time, I felt that such a day was really happy as a fairy.
But time flies, and a year has slipped away from your fingers.
The prime of life no longer comes, and it will be difficult to wake up one day.
When you ask me if I still remember my freshman life, besides the turtle-speed WiFi signal and noisy air conditioning, there is also a cup of happy water on the table that makes me fat day by day.
College life is very colorful, but I wasted a whole freshman's precious time.
Because of the abundant time, we should make good use of every minute, try more new things, explore things we like and better shape ourselves.
For example, fitness, part-time job, participation in club activities, learning a musical instrument, making more friends in different fields, or talking about a love affair.
On the internet, there are often two different people in the same dormitory, with the title "You eat to death in bed, and I work part-time for more than 10 thousand a month."
Personally, I don't advocate that students put too much energy into part-time jobs. Of course, the primary task of college students is to learn and shape themselves.
But poverty is not the reason why you stay in the dormitory. This is why you should go out more, meet more new people and things, and explore more possibilities.
As long as we walk on the road, we will meet all kinds of interesting people, but interesting people will not come to us automatically.
When you walk out of the dormitory and breathe the fresh air of mint leaves on campus, your thinking and vision will be greatly improved as never before.
Before entering university life, many people will tell us how tense and difficult the dormitory relationship is.
So much so that we always want to spend a lot of time in the dormitory, get along with friends and cultivate feelings after entering university life.
But will the relationship get better if you really get along more? Actually, it is not.
On the contrary, reducing your time in the dormitory can sometimes promote the harmonious development between roommates.
Under the same roof, there will always be some quarrels.
Do these conversations feel familiar?
When to get up in the morning, when to turn off the lights at night, how often to take a shower, how much the air conditioner is turned on, and how late to chat with your boyfriend/girlfriend at night, these are all unavoidable trifles in every dormitory.
Distance produces beauty, which is not only applicable to the relationship between lovers, but also essential in the relationship with friends.
Keeping a proper distance will make every roommate look cuter.
If gregarious is the beginning of depravity, then the dormitory is the gathering place of gregarious.
The dormitory is simply a paradise for the "fallen".
Have you ever had such a spiritual OS?
Comfort yourself with this so-called gregarious reason, which really makes people feel very practical and seek so-called peace of mind by hiding in the dormitory. This is the collective effect.
The collective effect of this collusion will produce a great sense of identity and security in your heart, and make you subconsciously think that this comfort is reasonable and correct.
The more comfortable, the lazier. Once you get used to this kind of comfort, the consequences will be unimaginable.
Step out of one third of the dormitory and look at the scenery outside the dormitory!
Look through the books in the library, pat the beautiful scenery on the road to the school gate, leave your footprints on the runway of the playground, and don't let the hard-working age be buried in the grave of the dormitory.
Dormitory is the end of dreams, not the starting point.
We often see on the internet that "college will be easy after passing the college entrance examination", which makes us mistakenly think that college is for "muddling along" and does not need to study hard.
Again, as a college student, learning is definitely the primary task, and it is also the most basic learning goal to ensure that the course will not fail at the end of the term.
In my sophomore year, I had a roommate who got up at 6 o'clock on time every day, got up in the dark to wash and change clothes, and then went out to study in the library.
Actually, I woke up at 6 o'clock, but I can't devote myself to my study at once.
I want to fight with the sleepy god (for short: staying in bed), to understand current events (for short: brushing my mobile phone), to make a cup of tea, to have breakfast, and to muddle along. I won't be able to leave the dormitory until at least 8 o'clock.
When we came back at noon, the other two roommates in the dormitory were still sleeping. When we wake up, we will play with our mobile phones, order takeout and go back to sleep after dinner.
In order not to be affected, I usually go back to the dormitory for lunch break at noon and then leave the dormitory in the afternoon.
Most people's self-control is not strong enough, especially in the dormitory, which is full of temptation.
There are too many temptations in the dormitory.
When you want to concentrate on your homework in the dormitory, everything in the dormitory will reach out to you.
You can't help but wander around, eat snacks, brush the drama, or just lie in bed and fall in love.
On the other hand, the existence of overnight friends will greatly affect you.
For example, you are reading a book, your roommate is playing games, blowing hair, playing movies loudly, and making videos with your boyfriend/girlfriend. ......
However, as long as there are more than two roommates in the dormitory doing things other than studying, no matter how much you devote yourself to studying, it will be affected to some extent.
Learning atmosphere determines learning efficiency to a certain extent.
If you want to concentrate on your studies, I suggest you go to a quiet library!
Why is there a bed in the dormitory? Because the function of dormitory is to sleep.
As we all know, people are iron and beds are magnetic.
No college student can escape the adsorption of the bed.
So, in addition to sleeping, out of the dormitory!
The world outside the dormitory is much more interesting!