Chasing girls "three tricks"

Just look at it! ! !

I found that almost all my brothers have encountered these problems.

! First, be good at expressing your feelings.

Being good at expressing your feelings means telling girls.

Express one's state and feelings

It is the key link to chat with your sister. It's easy for brothers to overlook this point in chatting.

Always put the focus of chat on girls, and the content of chat will always revolve around girls, knowing that chat is about interaction! !

Unilateral catering can easily bring yourself into the ranks of suitors.

For the choice of girls, I lost the initiative and control. j

Therefore, when chatting with girls, we must learn to express our feelings and establish effective contact with each other by sharing our status.

... for example

I just ate a jelly, which reminds me of your lovely little face.

Telling girls what they are doing, establishing some contacts with girls at the same time, and creating a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere can better mobilize girls' desire to chat.

"Just came out from the gym, the feeling of sweating is really comfortable.

The way to share one's feelings is very suitable as the opening, which can convey one's own value information to girls very well, and he loves sports. He is a healthy and energetic boy, which virtually refreshes his good feelings in the eyes of girls.

I don't know what to say when chatting with girls. I always say, "Huh?

Learn to express negative emotions reasonably.

I know that many brothers will definitely have negative emotions when communicating with girls, but they will not express them, and then they have been suppressing themselves. When they can't hold back, they just explode, and then your relationship is over. Many bloggers are talking about how to cater to girls. There are three ways to resist:

First, negation plus humor.

The brotherhood, whose relationship is on the rise, said, "Why don't you go out so late?"

Then this negative way can easily lead to the dissatisfaction of the other party. Before you become lovers, it will only make the other party feel nosy.

So, when you can't change the result, it's better to change the way:

"Don't go out, have you forgotten the last time you were drunk?"

There was neither strong denial nor humorous teasing, which opened the topic of chatting with girls. Girls probably won't go out to play. Even if she goes out to play, she may call you and say something when she is drunk. I don't need to say that everyone understands.

Second, criticism falls into praise.

It is undeniable that most of the boys speak straight, and it is easy to criticize directly when they are dissatisfied, which often arouses the rebellious psychology of the other party.

Yes, and then the chat is over.

So criticism should be sandwiched between praise.

For example, a girl is late for a stage date. You can say that you are so late. If you want to dress up and meet me, I won't blame you.

Is this way better than just saying, "Why are you late?"

Third, problems are replaced by problems.

Especially in the warm taste period, brothers should pay attention. At this time, both sides are relatively high, and boys really want to get a positive answer to seek a sense of security.

So when you want to get the answer to your question, turn it into a question! For example:

"Why did you go out to play again?"

Going out again, are you in a bad mood?

On the other hand, asking her in a gentle tone will make it easier for girls to open their hearts, so that girls' emotions will not be intensified, they will be more acceptable, and they will even take the initiative to choose to communicate with you and think that they have left you out.

Finally, brothers should know that it is really not difficult to communicate with girls. When you want to express your dissatisfaction, don't submit to humiliation, but you should also pay attention to the ways and means.

Learn the above three expressions of dissatisfaction with high emotional intelligence, and girls will not resist, but prefer to chat with you.

Chatting and chatting, there is no topic, and I can't talk anymore.

Second, the use of emotion in chatting.

Many fraternities think they say, "Just make girls happy."

Of course, making her happy is the first task in chatting. There are many emotions. If you just make your sister laugh, then over time, girls' emotions have already belonged to the category of laughter, which will lead to fatigue and sadness.

So chatting with girls should not only make girls laugh, but also bring other emotions.

take for example

Chat content: This fruit doesn't seem too fresh.

Most people replied: "Now it is planted in greenhouses, and it is difficult to eat fresh strawberries in the original ecology."

It is common for many boys to talk to girls in a didactic and explanatory tone, which is a typical straight man's logical thinking. Such an answer [is too logical, it is difficult to arouse girls' emotions, and the result will only be the end of the topic.

Someone replied, "You didn't buy it yourself. You should eat it even if you have pain."

I think it's humorous, but I'm all wrong. Smart. This will only make girls feel that you are questioning and accusing her, and it is easy to bring negative emotional feedback to girls, which is what girls hate most.

Chatting is always serious, or trying to talk to women and give them advice.

"Then don't eat, I have contracted, and I won't give them any high-level reply: you stay, I will buy you a better one if you behave well.

Deliberately stimulate girls' emotions, eat all the fruits by yourself, and leave none for girls. Hearing this reply, the girls will definitely be dissatisfied!

R mood swings will also occur, disputes will lead to flirting, the atmosphere will come out, and the relationship will be invisible.

.. for example, 1

The girl said: I went to take a shower.

Just say: you go to wash first, and I'll get the bath towel. If a girl bothers you: What are you doing, rascal? Just say: I just want to take a shower by myself. What are you thinking about? Oh, I thought I was going to massage your back. Nice try. It's charged Ten yuan for dry grinding, salt 15, pedicure in 20 yuan. You pay the fare.

... for example 2

The girl said: your clothes look good, so you said: Oh, it's really delicious. Mainly the fabric is good. Feel it if you don't believe me. Don't work too hard. You're afraid you won't make it.

For example, 3

The girl said: When she is tired of working overtime, she said: Poor thing, these horrible bosses only know how to bully high-value people like us. Come on, take you to a big meal and see how he bullies you when you get fat.

Do you think this chat is fun? Girls are willing to continue to interact with you. Is it much more interesting than a dry question and answer? ! !

Always want to express your love through chatting.

83. Dare to make your own demands.

In the early chat, many brothers complained that "girls are indifferent to themselves and ignore them." Although they think she is having a bad life, they don't know whether to tell her.

I think many brothers are in a dilemma when they encounter this situation. In fact, the indifference of the girls who chatted in the early stage is also a test of whether you can persist. If you blindly compromise and tolerate, it will be difficult to pass the test, because compromise and tolerance are low-value behaviors, and grievances are endless.

Therefore, we must dare to put forward our own demands, dare to express our bad feelings, and don't have scruples.

Of course, you should be careful not to show your bad feelings too early, because it is easy for girls to show impatience and go straight over, which can be shown in the last two chats.

Of course, we must use humor, such as:

"How do you feel the chat atmosphere is a bit awkward? I don't even need to turn on the air conditioner. " If you are so cold again, I will ... with the power of breastfeeding. When the chat atmosphere is awkward, it is largely because of chatting.

Girls' demand points are not deducted correctly.

At this time, express your feelings and demands in a humorous way, then reopen the topic and guide the girls to join the chat and interact with them more.

Reading this article carefully will bring great help to your chat. The most useful thing I teach you is to change your thinking.