I am the mother of two children. The youngest son was addicted to the mobile phone network when he was seven or eight years old. Later, under my gradual guidance, he is much better now. Share a few methods with you, hoping to help you.
1. Parents should set an example.
Parents should set an example in controlling students' online time. First of all, parents should participate in the formulation and implementation of student plans as instructors and supervisors to guide and encourage students; Second, we should set an example. Parents should reduce the frequency of surfing the Internet, spend more time with students and increase the time of parent-child interaction.
2. Parents should give students appropriate warnings.
When a student can't control his time on the computer, you can confiscate his other electronic equipment, such as TV, video game machine, iPod, iPad, tablet computer and smart phone. Secondly, you can also unplug the power cord related to PC, notebook computer and tablet computer. Students can't play computer without your permission.
3. Cultivate students' interest.
In daily life, cultivate rich hobbies, such as reading, sports, music, etc. Enrich the psychological world of teenagers, resist the temptation of the online world with full hearts, surf the Internet rationally, and don't be surrounded by the online world.
4. Encourage students to seek a sense of accomplishment in reality.
Students are addicted to online games because of the sense of accomplishment they give. Parents should encourage students to seek a sense of accomplishment in reality, in study, in hobbies, in specialties and so on. Parents and schools should create an environment and opportunity for their children to seek a sense of realistic achievement.
In the process of students' growth, parents should not only meet their material needs, but also meet their spiritual needs. Treating students with internet addiction blindly by beating, scolding and blaming is sometimes counterproductive. You know, it is not only the students' problem but also their family's problem that students surf the Internet too much and don't study. If students show a tendency to indulge in the internet, parents should communicate with students more. At the same time, through outdoor activities such as sports and tourism, students can spend less time surfing the Internet and playing games, encourage them to keep fit and make friends, and keep students away from the Internet.