First, the specific circumstances of this matter.
The victim Xiaoli met a man named Miao Jiawei through a blind date group on 20 19 1 1. They had a good talk and soon established a love relationship. In the process of falling in love, Miao Jiawei shaped herself into a perfect lover, telling Xiaoli that her parents are business owners and run a gym by themselves. After getting along for several years, Miao Jiawei began to borrow money from Xiaoli for various reasons, adding up to 90 thousand. I thought that after starting a business, the other party would be able to give it back to myself. I didn't expect Xiaoli to receive a phone call from a girl soon.
The other party said that she and Miao Jiawei lived together. After your conversation with me, both girls knew that they had been cheated. It was also found that Miao Jiawei was not the boss at all. Except for a suite in his name, there are only 30 girlfriends left. His daily routine is to borrow money from these girlfriends every day, and he realizes that Miao Jiawei is a liar. Xiaoli wants to unite these women to defend their rights, but it is difficult to move.
Second, what does this tell us?
This incident tells us that we must be vigilant in falling in love, otherwise it is easy to lose both sides. Nowadays, many young people neglect to find a partner for their work. By the time they knew it, they were old, so they started looking for all kinds of blind date groups. Some people find true love in this way, but not everyone is so lucky. The so-called perfect lover is just a means for swindlers to attract single women. Please don't be fooled by some illusions.