A man in Beijing made a female enemy. In order to make his girlfriend have a better health, he spent 30 thousand yuan to hire a male personal trainer for his girlfriend. Unexpectedly, his girlfriend ran away with the coach. The Legal Evening News' criticism of this incident is also "jumping". Instead of finding out after marriage, it is better to comfort the young man in criticism.

Once the incident broke out, netizens were surprised, and many people expressed sympathy for the young man. Originally, as a male friend, I gave money to my girlfriend, gave her money to exercise or did other things. This is all a sign that I love her, but the other party took my money, enjoyed my efforts, and finally fell into the arms of others. This is really a "fatal blow" to people in love.

But as the Legal Evening News criticized, it is worthwhile to spend 30,000 yuan to meet someone before marriage, especially in the traditional society of China. It is really unacceptable for a man to find out that his other half has betrayed him after marriage. In contrast, seeing each other before marriage and leaving are the best results.

Think about the tragic marriage events of some celebrities that have been revealed on the Internet. I didn't see through a person thoroughly before marriage, but I was cheated by the other half after marriage and even threw myself into the arms of others. Even if we break up at this time, we still have to divide the property.

This is the most refreshing thing for many celebrities. Compared with them, this young man only paid 30 thousand yuan, or was it really worth it before marriage? .

Moreover, it is not too much to be abandoned by love, or even betrayed. The reason why she can stay with the coach is that she learned fitness that day, but it is not impossible for her to learn swimming or acting one day and then change her mind to be with other "teachers".

So, think about everything from another angle, don't push yourself into a "dead end", why lose the determination to survive for someone who doesn't love me. Moreover, love is not a marriage, and it has not yet become a legal couple. At this stage, it is obvious that the other party still has the right to choose a couple.

Love doesn't mean choosing you. Everyone must be soberly aware of this fundamental concept. In the early days of love, you should know that even if the other person suddenly chooses someone else before marriage, it is her freedom.