Homosexuality, like ordinary people, has beauty and ugliness. The reason why you have the idea that homosexuality is handsome is the same as that handsome men and beautiful women are more likely to be famous, so you think homosexuality is handsome.
Most comrades are sensitive. Not that he is sensitive, but that he is gay. This is not the same concept.
Extreme zero will have some characteristics and be more feminine. But ordinary comrades are not easy to identify. Because no one wants to get into too much trouble because of this identity.