0 1 The premise of a good couple is to be good friends first.
Except for some blind dates and people who fall in love at first sight, most couples will go through the process of understanding.
I used to talk about everything, as if the second person in the world was talking less and less, and he dispersed when he walked ... Different opinions or hobbies turned close comrades who should be shoulder to shoulder into enemies who were wary of each other.
Suspicion, doubt, abuse, betrayal, until one side resolutely quits …
In fact, life is just a journey, each to its own cause and effect, each to its own saint. Walking together is a fate and a blessing. Don't be too demanding.
The combination of the three views is a rare quality companion; If we disagree with each other, we can also be ordinary friends. Eat together, go shopping, sleep, watch movies, * * * enjoy fireworks * * * enjoy the moon, the moon and the Milky Way.
Sometimes, being plain is also a blessing.
Don't try to change your shortcomings, try to accept them.
Some people want to reform each other as soon as they enter marriage.
For example, men are required to hand in their salary cards, check their mobile phones at any time, all passwords are transparent, they must report where they go to see who is doing what, and they will not talk back if they don't fight back. Mom will fall into the river with me, save me first …
Like a slave in love, there is no humanity at all.
For example, women are required to be beautiful, spend less money, be frugal and not dress up. I can work in white, be filial to my parents and give birth to a big fat boy in my hometown. ...
Is this a wife? I think it's Superman.
If marriage wants to be stable and long-lasting, it must run sustainably. Don't treat people as donkeys of the production team. We should allow human nature to be multifaceted, accept advantages and disadvantages, and don't always think about change.
Make people become people, not gods, or you will lose more than you gain by forcing people to collapse.
If it's not a matter of principle, don't be too serious.
Even a model love partner will have the idea of strangling each other a thousand times in his life.
Besides, those ordinary couples, who can avoid contradictions? But as long as it is not a matter of principle, then turn a blind eye.
There are so many black and white ones, don't go online easily. For example, snore when sleeping, occasionally hide some private money, and see beautiful women on the road …
It is harmless. Sometimes it's like flying a kite to give men some freedom and space.
If you take back the rope a little, he will come back to you voluntarily.
But he wants to feel the blue sky, see the birds flying in the sky and the flowers blooming on the ground. What happened?
Have your own thoughts and life, and enrich your self-consistency.
This life is long or short, and who you are with is, in the final analysis, with yourself.
Loneliness is the fate of all mankind, even if you have love, friendship and affection.
Even if your marriage is impeccable, you still need to take care of it. Life is full and happy, and the energy field around you is positive.
Whether reading, gardening, writing or fitness, we should have a hobby of killing time and enjoying ourselves. Mentally, I have my own logic, which is self-consistent.
It can smooth complicated human feelings and things, dispel all kinds of sentimentality in life and not walk into a dead end. This kind of you, stretching like the wind, refreshing like a cloud, beautiful as a flower.
You are you first, and the rest of the role depends on your mood.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Don't let the children go until they are older.
Some women say that I can't eat and sleep at the thought of children suffering and being wronged. However, no woman who worries about her children and grandchildren all the time can be elegant and beautiful at the age of 80.
As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't be the cattle and horses of children and grandchildren.
Letting go is a course that all mothers should learn.
The so-called mother-child fate points to separation from the moment of birth. Just like a bird, its wings are hard when it grows up, and it wants to pursue its own sky and forest.
You just need to be a stable backing, a shelter from the wind, and don't fall off the chain at critical times.
Let them do the rest by themselves.
If the parent-child relationship is smooth, the relationship between husband and wife will also develop healthily.