In fact, this state seems a little split, as if it were two completely different styles and personalities. However, if a boy can be gentle with you, but he can show a funny side when you are unhappy, and if he tries to make you happy, it can also prove that he is really a good man.

At this point, a boy's attitude towards you determines whether he really loves you or not, and whether he really considers the problem from your point of view. If he is indifferent to you and just keeps being himself, maybe she really shows her true self.

But for you, there will inevitably be some discomfort, just like you will wonder why she seems to be self-centered and doesn't consider your feelings.

On the contrary, a person who is gentle and interesting to you will attract you fundamentally. If you pay attention to him, you will depend on him more. This is also conducive to the development of the relationship between two people.

Perhaps for boys, the nature of teasing is born, but more depends on your face. Many people are interesting, just because being owed will make you feel worse.

But a person who is gentle and interesting to you will get extra points in essence, and will not make you feel that he is annoying, or even say that you deliberately want to get close to him.

That's why some girls feel that boys' jokes are out of date and will make them feel even worse, so they can't get out of this uncomfortable feeling, but will add more obstacles to themselves.

Therefore, personality is actually a very powerful weapon for boys, and a gentle and interesting boy will attract girls' attention more.