The first time I saw two enchanting men shopping hand in hand in the street, I really couldn't bear to look straight. A series of complex feelings, such as freshness, inexplicably, curiosity and unbearable, are intertwined, which makes me unable to describe the mood at that time.
At that time, in my mind, I always believed that love belongs to the opposite sex, just like the physics book said, "opposites attract, and the same sex repel." Boys and girls fall in love because they are attracted to each other, but if men and women fall in love, such abnormal love has to make me wonder, does the same sex really have the feeling of love between the opposite sex?
When chatting with my parents, I accidentally mentioned the scene of seeing homosexuals shopping hand in hand in the street. My mother couldn't stand it at once, saying that they had a mental problem and advised me never to be with such people.
Actually, I think my mother has gone too far. It is human freedom to choose which sex to fall in love with. It's our business not to like it, but we can't say that there is something wrong with people's thoughts, which is too disrespectful to their feelings.
Nowadays, most scientists, psychologists and medical experts believe that sexual orientation is determined by nature. A scientific document published by the American Psychological Association (APA) shows that long-term experimental records prove that homosexuality cannot be "corrected" and sexual orientation cannot be changed. Many researchers have come to a more consistent view: homosexuality has a profound biomedical foundation, and the sexual orientation of homosexuals is determined by gay gene and cannot be changed after the day. It's not a choice, and it's not something you can control. (Baidu Encyclopedia)
My parents' generation is very traditional, and it is difficult to accept this new relationship that breaks away from convention. But as time goes on, many people gradually accept homosexuality.
According to a survey conducted by Pewforum, 200 1 57% of Americans are against homosexuality, but in 2006 54 38+07, only 32% were against homosexuality and 62% supported homosexuality. Even the previous generation (baby boomers) born between 1946 and 1964, their views on homosexuality have changed greatly. In 200 1, only 32% of baby boomers supported same-sex marriage, but in 200 17, the support rate rose to 56%. (Pewforum.org, "Changing Attitudes to Gay Marriage")
In many American dramas, there are also stories about homosexuality, telling how they bravely face other people's strange eyes and how to protect their partners.
Mitchell and Cameron in Modern Family are probably the happiest gay couples. At first, Mitchell's father Jay had a hard time accepting that his son was gay. Jay seldom mentions his son in front of outsiders. If someone asks, he will simply answer, "He's fine. He's a lawyer." It can be said that Mitchell is gay, which makes the man's father a little embarrassed in front of his friends.
But with the passage of time, Jay finally accepted this reality. After all, he still loves his son. What father doesn't want his children to be happy? Jay even helped Mitchell and Cameron win the bowling competition disguised as gay men. When Mitchell and Cameron were in trouble, Jay did not hesitate to help.
Mitchell's sister also loves this brother very much. She seems to know from an early age that her brother is different from ordinary boys. When I learned that Mitchell was gay, my sister was not surprised, but gave Mitchell a warm hug and told him that her sister would love him no matter what.
Both men and women are very anxious and even afraid when they find out that they may be gay, so they dare not tell their families. Can the family understand them? Will friends leave them when they know? What will others think of them?
When Kevin's eldest daughter decided that she was a lesbian in the TV series Our Life, she was so anxious that she couldn't sleep and eat, and the whole person had no spirit, just like being sick.
When my aunt took care of her, she found something wrong with her. With her concern and doubt, I had to tell her that I was a lesbian. Hearing this, my aunt was shocked and speechless.
The eldest daughter knows that it is useless to continue to hide, and her heart will only be more painful. One night, she got up the courage to tell her parents that she was gay, hoping to get their understanding. Fortunately, Mr. and Mrs. Kevin are very enlightened parents. Although they were surprised to hear the news, they still supported their daughter and respected her choice.
It seems that in American TV series, when you are gay to your friends or relatives, everyone shows understanding and respect, which shows that crooked nuts have a positive attitude towards homosexuality.
A friend told me that heterosexual men and women usually have love before sex, while homosexuals don't. They fell in love with after making love first. Many homosexuals are attracted to each other's figure or body first, and then see if it is appropriate after going to bed. Therefore, in order to keep fit, many comrades try their best to keep fit, maintain themselves and make themselves more attractive.
Zumba class in the gym, Zumba teacher is gay. He is tall and handsome, and has a great figure. When dancing, his dance is particularly infectious, so many female students don't want to leave class, just want to learn from him all the time.
Once, after class was over, a handsome boy stood at the door of the classroom. Which girl's boyfriend is this? How handsome! I pretended to chat with my friends and wanted to see more of this handsome guy. As a result, all the students left. Kiss the handsome boy when the teacher comes out and comes up. I'll go! Blink my eyes! Hey. . Sure enough, all the handsome guys went to find the handsome guys. .
I have a foreign friend in college who is a lesbian. This girl is tall, well-proportioned, beautiful and lively. She is a very charming girl. There should be many boys chasing her at school, but she has never seen a boy.
Until one day shopping, I accidentally saw her with a handsome guy, so I leaned over to say hello. As a result, I walked in and saw, which one is handsome? Are beautiful women more handsome than handsome men? It is said that men are more enchanting than women when they make up, but women are more masculine when they dress up as boys!
My friend told me that this handsome boy is her "boyfriend" and they have been dating for more than a year. I thought I would be forced, but when I really faced them, I was calm and not surprised at all. Maybe I've been in America for a long time, met too many homosexuals, and I'm used to it. My heart will not be as exclusive as before.
On the last weekend of June every year, new york will hold a grand gay station for lesbians (gay, bisexual and transgender people). On that day, the streets and alleys of the whole city were full of rainbow-colored flags to show their support for homosexuality.
Gays and lesbians all over the city marched hand in hand and waved colorful flags in downtown Manhattan. Many foreign homosexuals also came here to take part in the parade. They shouted slogans and waved colorful flags to celebrate this special festival in their own way.
Not only the last week of June, but actually the whole June is called "Gay Pride Month", so new york in June is colorful.
20 16 is a special year for homosexuals. Just two days before the March, the US Supreme Court ruled that same-sex marriage was legal in the United States by a vote of 5 to 4. Justice Kennedy said in the final judgment: "Marriage means a kind of love beyond death, and it is a misunderstanding to say that these (gay) men and women do not understand marriage." This is a historic moment for the gay community in the United States and the world.
Homosexual love and heterosexual love are both love. Everyone has the right to pursue love, and choosing the person who loves is the most important. Love can cross age, national boundaries and gender. As long as you dare to be yourself and make yourself happy.
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