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What kind of love do you belong to?
What kind of love do you belong to?

What kind of love do you belong to? Have you ever thought about a question, what is love? What kind of love do we want and what kind of love do we have? Next, I will tell you in detail what kind of love you belong to.

What kind of love do you belong to? 1 1, no love.

If intimacy, passion and commitment are missing, love does not exist. Two people may just meet by chance and have a nodding acquaintance. This relationship is casual, superficial and unconstrained.

2. Do you like it

If intimacy is high, but passion and commitment are low, it feels like. The two sides of the relationship are really close and warm, but they will not arouse passion and will not expect to spend the rest of their lives with each other. This kind of feeling is mostly manifested in the friendship between friends. If a friend of yours will arouse your passion, or you will miss him/her very much when she/he leaves, it may imply that your relationship is more than just friends.

3. infatuation

Lack of intimacy or commitment, but strong passion is infatuation. You will have this experience when you are aroused by people you hardly know, such as the muscular man in the gym and the sexy girl in the nightclub. ...

4. Empty love

Commitment without intimacy or passion is empty love. This kind of love is common in traditional arranged marriages in China. Both husband and wife have no emotional foundation, and even have never met before marriage, so there is neither passion nor warmth. Of course, some couples gradually develop intimacy and passion in their later marriage, but most of them just live together.

5. Romantic love

Romantic love has strong intimacy and passion. It can be seen as a combination of love and infatuation. Such love can give people a strong emotional experience, but it is often difficult to last. Just like an affair in a trip, the end of the trip will come to an end.

6. Companion love

In the past, the love formed by the combination of intimacy and commitment was companion love. The two sides will strive to maintain a deep and lasting relationship. Although this kind of love lacks passion, it is a long and happy marriage. However, it is precisely because of the lack of passion that this marriage hides a huge hidden danger-derailment. If both sides can't strictly restrain themselves, such feelings are likely to break up because one or more of them are derailed.

7. Ignorant love

Lack of intimate passion and commitment will produce stupid love, which is stupid love. This kind of love often appears in Love at First Sight. As soon as the two sides came into contact, they had a strong and overwhelming passion and made promises, but they didn't know each other. With the increase of time spent together, the passion gradually cooled down, only to find that the two sides are not suitable, and many living habits and behaviors are different, even out of place. The next thing is likely to end in regret.

8. Perfect love

Finally, when the three components of love-intimacy, passion and commitment-are sufficient, we can experience "complete" or perfect love. In this kind of love, every moment is surrounded by happiness. But to maintain such love for a long time requires great efforts from both sides.

What kind of love do you belong to? 1. Like it.

Only intimate relationship, feel comfortable together, but feel lack of passion, may not want to be together for life. Without passion and commitment, it is more like friendship. Obviously, friendship is not love, and liking is not equal to love. But it is still possible for friendship to develop into love, although some people lose friendship because of the failure of love.

Second, spoony love (spoony love)

Only passionate experience. I think the other side is very attractive. Besides, I don't know much about each other and I haven't thought about the future. Only passion, no intimacy and commitment, such as first love. First love is always full of passion, but it lacks maturity and stability. It is a kind of youthful love guided by instinct.

Third, empty love (empty love)

Only promises. Lack of intimacy and passion, such as pure love for marriage. This kind of "love" looks full, but it lacks the necessary content. It can be said that it is only to meet the needs of both sides in life.

Fourth, romantic love (romantic love)

Have intimate relationship and passionate experience, no commitment. This kind of "love" advocates the process and doesn't care about the result. Passion fades, intimacy and alienation, and there will be no result.

Five, partner's love (partner's love)

Have intimate relationship and commitment, lack of passion. Similar to empty "love", such as a stable marriage, there are only rights and obligations, but no feelings.

Six, stupid love (fatuous love)

Only passion and commitment, no intimacy. Passion without intimacy is a physical impulse at best, and commitment without intimacy is just a blank check.

Seven, perfect love (perfect love)

It has three elements at the same time, passion, commitment and intimacy. In fact, only this type of love is true love.

Psychologists put a word "type" in front of the first six kinds of love, because in their view, the six kinds listed above are just similar to love or not love, not love in essence, only the seventh kind is love, and there are so many cases of love and not love in real life that love with three elements is basically regarded as a surreal ideal state.