I have a friend's cousin. Every time I see her, she is watching the recent popular Amway TV series with others.

The plot and characters in it, like a few treasures, can be said to be TV dramas. There are many stories full of dog blood, such as Mary Su, overbearing president, Xian Xia style and so on. I occasionally ask her, aren't you tired of watching so much? She said, "No, I think the story comes from life. Except for those nonsense plots, the characters are full and three-dimensional. "

By the way, I am curious to ask, "Is the male master your male god?"

She replied: "Male master, most girls like it, the standard of male god."

I didn't expect her next answer to surprise me: "No, I will secretly like the second boy."

I quickly asked and answered, "Why?"

She said unhurriedly, "Boy Two is very warm, don't you think? Boy 2 is like an angel who will always watch over you silently, never complaining about you, never snubbing you, just like a person who secretly likes you. "

It seems that this little cousin is a female classmate with a story. Little girls get more or less things that are not so easy in the real world by watching TV dramas.

Because I don't watch these idol dramas very much, most of them are watched by little girls, and male fans often ask me how I have a topic with my favorite girls.

I just remembered, isn't this a good topic? If you don't care what others like, how can you speak?

There are also some boys who ask, why do I learn some routines in idol dramas that are especially warm for men and women, and fail to chase girls?

So I started some small research on this issue.

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I found that the current TV series, especially the people in idol dramas, are specially customized for most ordinary people in real life to meet your inner needs. Just like Mi Meng's articles, every article begins with a friend's story, which makes stories, people and events have some psychological connection with you, although this connection only exists in your brain.

Why are you doing this? Only the characters in the TV series have the greatest correlation with you, and the crowd pays high attention.

For another example, the five beauties of Ode to Joy, the golden collar of Andy Xueba Company and the rich second generation of Bai in Qu Xiaoyu all belong to the elite. Fan is a genius, sophisticated and true temperament. Although she has been in the company for many years, she can barely be regarded as a senior white-collar worker. The clearance of silly little earthworms and Miss Wenjing is a template for many young girls now. These three belong to the civilian class.

Why do five girls with different personalities and social classes become friends?

Isn't it just to take into account the types of most women in China society and make the plot ups and downs, with dramatic conflicts? In real life, you can't see such a wonderful combination of friends at all.

With these five types, girls in reality can find their own corresponding images more or less, especially girls with lower social classes, and they can gain their sense of identity. At the same time, it can also satisfy their fantasy of how to be friends with Bai He, relax while watching TV series and bring in some emotions.

Elite women spend most of their spare time on high-end socializing and meeting high-value contacts. Or a variety of learning and charging to improve yourself; The lowest, at least, will take time to go to the gym to make their bodies more graceful. I won't go to see these idol dramas, they are wasting their most precious time every night.

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Back to our topic, why do girls who watch idol dramas prefer men to men?

Although the second man is a supporting role, his purpose and function, like the male host and female host, are to meet the emotional needs of the audience.

The protagonist is usually shaped in the following situations: love at first sight, dispute, counterattack and so on. So that the shaping of the protagonist has become a routine, and the audience already knows the development of the plot without looking at it.

In contrast, there are not so many restrictions on the shaping of supporting roles, which can be the most interesting, lovely, funny and popular forms. Because they have less time and opportunities to appear on the screen than the main characters, they will pay more attention to their performances, especially those of men and women, such as Wallace Chung, who plays men and women in an old play full of contradictions and mysteries, and Qi Fei's talent and evil spirit. This is one of the reasons why they compare vases with men, making them more popular than men.

I did some research and comparison, and found that idol dramas have the following common situations:

1) The male coach is 2-0.

2) The second person is richer than that person.

3) Men and women are not as good as male gods.

4) Men are more humorous than men.

5) Man 2 knows women better than men.

6) Both men and women pursue women more actively than men.

7) Men and women will be rejected mercilessly or regretfully by the hostess in most cases.

A typical example, the small bag in Ode to Joy is always, perhaps not even the second boy, and there are not many opportunities to play. It should be regarded as the third, fourth and fifth boy.

But why does everyone like small bags? Don't talk about money and face. The most important thing is fun, emotional appeal and perseverance. For the sake of the hostess, you can spare no effort to pick up girls. This is one of the few cases in which the second person succeeded in taking the upper position. It is estimated that the second man is such a failure that the screenwriter really can't stand it. I want to give you a little surprise and do something different.

What is an idol drama? In addition to watching, it is more about the sense of bringing in the female audience, which makes them fantasize that they are the hostess. With the increase of attention, the ratings will go up and it will be more convenient to place advertisements.

At the beginning, there were examples of boys failing to imitate the warm-up routine. It's not that it's wrong to learn from warm men, but that the premise of being good to each other is that they have been attracted to you, but they haven't confessed yet, and they haven't poked enough paper, and they are still in an ambiguous period. For the last time, let the other person not hate you and think you are fine.

On the other hand, if you are no different from ordinary people in face value, talent or other special values or skills that make others shine, you can count on the bottomless and low-profile "pay" of the other party, which will only backfire and make the other party feel bored.

The average girl thinks in her heart: this virtue has nothing to attract me. Why are you still bothering me? It is better to stay away early to avoid unnecessary trouble.

The premise of learning small bags is not to be rich and attractive, but to be confident and know how to get along well first. In the initial stage of understanding, men want to establish relationships quickly, while women want to observe more and get along with each other without knowing it, so as not to suffer.

If you don't know how to master the rhythm, the result of a hasty confession is generally one word-dead. For a detailed explanation of how to attract each other, please see my old article "To tell the truth, where is the fatal attraction of love".

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People are like this, and it is easy to turn to the spiritual level for what is not available in reality.

Through words, overbearing presidential essays, essays, and various games, such as the glory of the king, as we all know, these spiritual products are readily available, and the acquisition cost is low. Bidiu 10 kg is much easier, which makes you beautiful and more attractive.

The real world is simply a hard mode, while watching TV and playing games is an easy mode. Since TV plays create such a beautiful illusion, we certainly don't choose to poke it, but choose to enjoy it.

There is a famous saying on the Internet that Korean dramas are women's pornography. Although many domestic dramas have not yet reached the production level and acting skills of Korean dramas, they have learned the modeling and routines, which can at least make many little girls like them.

The man is as good as 20,000 yuan, and he is considerate and active when pursuing the woman, but the woman finally likes the man, which makes the female fans feel sorry for the man to a certain extent, which is more or less empathetic and another reason to like the man.

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There is a good saying: the protagonist is used to pull the plot, and the supporting role is used to make people fondle it.

Although the protagonist has a halo and a lot of performance time, it is not good enough without red flowers and green leaves. Brilliant supporting roles exist only to make your protagonist look better.

Just like several important supporting roles in Stephen Chow's films, Ng Man Tat and Luo Jiaying, if they are missing, they will feel missing.

Well, although there is a huge difference in face value with the male two in the idol drama, the reason is the same.

I don't think it matters whether girls like boys or girls. The important thing is whether you care about each other's hobbies as much as you want to chase each other. Don't believe everything in idol dramas. You will fall into the pit regardless of reality. But as a very interesting topic, you can have a buzz with each other, which you should study well.

When you don't care, she will close her heart. When you close your heart, she falls in love with someone else.

If you need to further solve your self-confidence, social and emotional problems, trust me privately.