Communicate with your husband and mother-in-law. Your mother-in-law may be embarrassed to eat. Be patient. After all, she won't disagree with her in-laws calling for dinner. Usually get along well with your mother-in-law, so that the next time you talk, her mother-in-law will listen to you. You can improve your relationship with your mother-in-law in the following ways.

1, learn about her mother-in-law's hobbies.

Everyone always has one or two interests. Now the square dance aunts have all jumped to France. I believe that most of our mother-in-law belong to this group and like to dance square dance. It doesn't matter that some mother-in-law are rural and their ideas are not so fashionable. They don't like dancing, but they usually like to grow a side dish or something.

You can take some time to talk to her about her hobbies every day.

This is especially effective for those who don't know what to say to their mother-in-law. My mother-in-law loves square dancing, so when she comes back from dancing in the evening, I will ask her: What did she dance today? How was the dance? Are there many people jumping? At dinner in the evening, I will ask her: Where to buy food today? What did you buy? What are you going to do tomorrow?

These topics can be talked about almost every day, and the answers are almost the same every day. In this way, we can slowly extend from these basic topics to other fields, such as neighbors, such as the activities we participate in, and so on. There are really many topics to talk about.

3. Buy a gift for your mother-in-law.

As the saying goes, it is not surprising to be polite to people, and it is not bad to order more food with more oil. In our parents' generation, most husbands are introverted and are not good at expressing praise and gratitude to their wives. But our mother-in-law is also a woman, and women love beauty and dressing up, so clothes and shoes can be sent at any time, and we can also teach her how to dress up.

If they are well dressed and praised by their peers, they will be elated and say, "My daughter-in-law did this." In this way, those companions will say with one voice, "Your daughter-in-law is very kind." If we talk too much, even if my mother-in-law doesn't like us at first, she will be influenced by this emotion and gradually change.

Gifts don't have to be expensive, the most important thing is practicality. I bought square dance clothes for my mother-in-law on Taobao, each of which was only twenty or thirty yuan, but she liked them very much. Let me buy it for her other dancers. This is a kind of pride and pride for them.